Why is there always another guy?

Anonymous
I like this girl, we've openly talked about possibly getting together, but at the same time we've never made the jump.

She's stubborn let's just say, and a hell lot confusing.

About a week ago she said that she did still think of us, and does really like the thought of a relationship, but she was 'scared'.

Then, for a few days afterward I did try to edge things into a position she didn't feel as scared. Then, I find out she was talking to some other guy and as expected I went straight out the window, even the next day she says she feels really down and never so much as puts any effort to talk, she never told me about the guy but I found out through a friend.

This isn't the first time, the first I sort of stood back and went 'ah well' then moved on, but twice? :/

Is there anything to do?
Why is there always another guy?
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