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Things I wish women did more of:
1. Be honest and DIRECT, no innuendo no mind games, no shit tests. If you want us to give you what you want you have to TELL us what you want.
2. Be more affectionate, nothing brightens my day like when a woman interlocks her arm with mine and puts her head on my shoulder.
3. Be more positive towards men in general. Women always give you shit tests to prove you are not a creep/rapists/player. Yes there are a lot of them out there but if you treat ALL men like they are you will chase away the ones that aren't (there are LOTS more of us than the creeps and players out there, even if at times it doesn't seem like it!)
4. I would want women to talk to me more. Even if you are not interested in a guy, why don't women just talk to us? If you are why not strike up a conversation and see where it goes? If you are into us, we may have no idea (remember from #1 we aren't mind readers) tell us how you feel and ask us out. Yes you might get rejected, you might also find Mr. Right ;) This is ESPECIALLY true for us shy guys.
5. Be willing to share in the household chores. No it is not slavery just because you are a woman and you cook (despite what the feminists tell you). It is a life skill, I can cook I don't like too ALL the time either but I can cook very well, I want a woman willing and able to cook/clean as well.
6. Be more experimental in the bedroom. First let me put all your insecurities to rest, if a guy is there with you he finds you HOT, otherwise he wouldn't be there, just like if you weren't into him you wouldn't be there. Leave your insecurities outside the bedroom, it should be a CELEBRATION of your love. To that end, don't be afraid to be a little freaky in the bedroom. Tbh most men want a woman who is innocent everywhere else and a FREAK in bed!
What I wish women would do LESS of
1. Play mind games, remember being direct and honest. I cannot STRESS that enough. Every guy cringes when he asks "whats wrong babe?" and gets
"nothing"
2. Freaking out if we don't text all day every day. Guys view texting more as a random act of affection. Not something that "must be done or the relationship will fail!"
3. Nagging in general. If you keep telling us the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over, we WILL tune you out, and then you will complain about how we never listen.
4. Overanalyzing what we say, looking for some hidden meaning. Most guys are direct, especially with those close to them, no hidden meaning. He may be lying to you to get you into bed, but there will be no hidden meaning.
5. Talk so much! Yes talking is vital for any relationship, but if you have a fight and you were wrong if you keep talking about it all night you are going to annoy him far more than the fight itself. Sometimes especially with men actions speak FAR louder than words, even 3 hours of words... Just throw your arms around him and say "I love you!"
Tough question, generally women hint at things they want their man to do, where men are far more direct and generally don't get hints and are bewildered by the whole passive aggressive or silent treatment. Both sides need to say what they mean and mean what they say and Oh so many arguments would be avoided..
And men hate the "Does my arse look fat in this?" you already know the answer, you've already looked in the mirror, don't ask loaded questions, we're dead in the water either way, be honest with us, and yourself and avoid the argument. Men are visual creatures turned on by what they see, where as women are generally more turned on by what they think, may the lord grant that the two may one day be more alike!!! This is only my opinion and as a guy from outback Australia, where women work just as hard as men farming, mining, truck driving etc, the women round here can hold their own wearing steel cap work boots and Hi Viz workwear and i think some of them are tougher than the guys.. lol
To sum up, never be afraid to speak your mind, be clear about what you want and expect, but you have to show the same openess respect his wishes to. Compromise is the key.
Marriage is something you work at everyday, its not magical bliss forever after!
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Being more responsible and stop blaming men for their own choices. If they have a kid with their ex, unless it is rape, their jut as much to "blame" for having sex as he is and they need to accept the fact that it is a dealbreaker to many guys.
Also, less makeup and more real effort into getting in shape. It's amazing that so many girls will spend hours in the bathroom putting on makeup instead of going to the gym and losing the fat they're really trying to take attention away from.
Less late night bar partying. When I see a girl complaining about how guys won't commit and "only want sex" yet I see her constantly talking about "getting wasted" at the bar and how cool it is it makes me realize why guys are only looking to hook up with her.
Much less of this "guy has to do everything" attitude. Guys who see this only see a self entitled girl who is not capable of being in a relationship. You get what you put in.
More initiating of things. If you can't text/call him, you're definitely unable to date him and he will move on to a girl who can do what you can't since you're too scared of "annoying him" when he's probably looking to see if you will text/call him.
Less games. These include (but are not limited to):
1. "Where do you want to eat?", "Naa, I don't want to eat there, pick something else"
2. "I'm 'FINE'"
3. The relationship power games
4. "How does this look on me?"
5. "How old do I look?"
The way they argue:
1. NEVER start a sentence during an argument with "You never" or "You always". For the love of god, make the argument about the current problem.
2. Unless you're admitting defeat in the argument, do not leave the conversation.
3. Do not EVER hang up on someone who is supposed to be your friend/family/significant other while they are talking on the phone.
Shouting the praises of the feminist movement, but then also maintain the double standard that guys are still supposed to take all the risk when it comes to relationships. Either take it all the way, or just don't scream it from the rooftops to make it obvious.
Demanding that men naturally understand your female defense mechanisms, filtering methods, relationship games, your need for confidence and desire to be lead, but also the right balance of not being a jerk, and allowing you to express yourself whenever you like. We're expected to know (from birth) how to boldly walk up to a woman, strike up a conversation about nothing, make it through all of her filters, break the touch barrier, build a rapport and ask for a number.
I gotta tell you, there are a lot of great guys out there who would treat you like a princess... but 90% of those good guys, have no idea how to deal with any of those things I mentioned above, and the reason why? Because those are learned skills. Men are not born knowing those things, and you likely won't learn them from your parents, but yet they are expected of us.
Do more of anything that you do less of because if the thought "If he likes me he'd do it" mentality, like texting first. Same with "I don't want to bother him."
>If I'm always texting first I have no fucking idea what you want or how you feel.
If you don't want to talk to me just say so. Don't start with the short replies and hope I get the idea, that's so freaking dumb and annoying. I can get the idea that you don't like me but how am I supposed to just know? You won't text first when you like me but you won't stop texting if you don't? That's ridiculous.
>You're wasting both our time and letting me wonder about feelings that aren't there. Dick move. Fix that.
Just saying hi. Every so often I get messages from girls and they just say hi. I like that you're initiating but you're not doing anything else. I know I can't just say I back even though you started this conversation, because we both just say hi and then you've got nothing else to say. Do we have to be dating before you're prepared to ask a question? Even then it's only "wbu?"
>Even when girls initiate, they still make me carry the conversation. What the fudge is up with that?
>Don't demand a guy to have conversational skills and be able to hold a conversation when you think it's ok for you not to do that.
You should've let girls comment to analyze our answers. This gender restriction thing on questions is silly.
More direct verbal communication. A LOT less of laying out a mine-field of clues, and hoping he will guess what you mean. Men aren't mind readers, and should never have to be.
Women can't read minds either, and should stop believing they can. "I know it's not what you said, but I know what you're thinking" just doesn't hold water.
Women in long term relationships need to turn on about 20 times more sex. In relationships that have lasted 4 years, 10 years or even more, women become sexually dysfunctional. 2 hours of sex a day is OK, but 3 hours or less a month is not OK. Thesedays, I'm out when it gets to less than most days of the week.
Things I wish girls stopped doing.
I wish they did not treat me like I am the scum of the earth.
I wish they did not smoke.
I wish there was no such thing as nasty, mean and gossiping girls.
I wish girls stopped jumping to conclusions.
I get fed up and angry with girls using the word "creep", most girls don't even know what a real creep is anyway.
I get angry and fed up with sexist girls, calling guys pigs etc is not acceptable.
I wish many girls would stop all the frowning and scowling it is rude and not acceptable.
I know these things do not represent all girls though.
Things I want girls to more of:
I wish girls would smile more.
I wish girls would be more flirty.
I wish girls would be more open to us guys talking to them.
and there are three others but not sure if I should mention them.
I wish girls would try to be more happy with who they are and more confident with what they have.
I wish girls would not okay mind games with us and just be direct and tell us what you want.
I wish girls would tell us what is wrong when they say "I am fine" or "nothing". We want to know. I would even accept "I do not want to talk about it right now,
I will tell you later" so I know that I will at least know what problem is occurring. I know I'm fine or its nothing can occasionally mean just that, but most of the time it does not
I wish they would stop friend zoning guys. I would rather her downright tell me that she doesn't like me, instead of leading me on, and using me for emotional support, every time she gets her heart broken by the guys that she IS attracted to... and that leads me to the second: I wish they werent so ignorant when it comes to dating. I wish they would be able to see who is good for them and who isn't. Not to chase after the ones who are bad for them, just because of his looks (that's seriously shallow of them).
That is all
Oh, and as for what i wish they would do more of:
I wish they would ask men out more, and be a little more straight forward, and instead of playing little games and leaving hints, to be more obvious.
I also wish they would play helpless more often. there's nothing better than when you feel like a girl needs you and relies on you. What can i say? I like clingy girls
I really wish that women wouldn't be so submissive. Not in the dom\sub sense, but when the guy says something like "I know it hurts like hell, but if you really loved me, then you'd let me stick it in your ass." That guy is trying to put you through so much agony just so he can have a bit more instant gratification. Do you really think he loves you? "If you don't let me have sex with you, I'm going to leave you." Let him. Don't you think that a man who actually loved you would respect your comfort zone? Don't you think he would care about more of you than just your vagina?
Let the second guy leave you, that is.
More: I enjoy eating a well cooked meal and like to try new things every now and than. if I know a girl who can help with the cooking or even walk me through the steps it would be quite helpful.
Less: learn not to stress about things. This can be for everyone though in my experience girls tend to over stress about things, and I don't really understand why. (hormones is a poor excuse)
just be someone you will enjoy being through out the day.
I kinda wish girls didn't friend zone guys by default. I have a few female friends and I talk to girls without too much difficulty, but girls would rather me be their gay best friend (I wear backwards hats and talk about sports and airplanes, I don't act gay) than a guy of interest. For example, this girl and I made out at a kickback when we were drunk, yet she texted me the next day saying she wanted to never talk about it and that she didn't see me that way even though she initiated it.
I wish more girls would be cheeky, now i dont mean in a bad way I mean in a playful teasing manner, if I'm cheeky and the girl is cheeky back then it puts me in my place and this is extremely attractive. It shows me the girl is confident and she is more less saying "im the boss".
Dont read into text messages like they are some cryptic puzzle. Dont play texting games - say what you mean and how you feel.
And most of all, dont lead guys on when you have more than one guy you are thinking about. The one who loses is probably the better choice.
consider on putting some body mass and not go so skinny and thin... most girls think loosing weight is cool... no girls here is the catch "shredding fat is cool" not the weight. (your body mass is good.. not more, not less)
p. s they can be more responsible and not xpect guys to handle their shit.
Well I wish girls would think less and act more. Be confident and go out and get what you want. Also talk more and assume your guy knows what you are thinking less. Guys are poor mind readers. We are poor at picking up your signals... just tell us what you are thinking more!
I agree with the opinion owner
We cannot read minds
stop thinking that you're fat when you're thin basically
I wish girls judged guys less on superficialities, and I wish they were more open to meeting guys outside of traditional social settings (bars, clubs). I see girls during the day to whom I'm attracted, but actually making contact with them is almost impossible because most girls shut off that part of their brain while they're out and about.
I think the one common denominator is females always think they are fat or dont look good, or need to change themselves. If someone thinks they need to change their appearance for someone they shouldn't be with that person because they dont like u for u. If you want to change ur appearance ie. Breast implants. , or some kind of surgery do it for yourself and ur self-esteem/self confidence and not for someone else!
i wish they would be confident enough to spend their time on thigs that matter instead of spending too much time to get a sense of self esteem...
i find most girls who dont have a healthy self esteem get arrogant one they get some attention.
learn to be a women/ a lady.
No bullshit. If you're playing games, move on to the next guy. I'm too old for that nonsense. If you should lose interest or something, tell me. Don't cut me off and treat me like I've done something horribly wrong when I didn't. If not busy, text or call back. I've done it, why can't they? Enough of my rant.
Be honest and straight up. Men aren't as good as women reading into pointers. If you are unhappy just say why and equalling when it comes to dating.
Believing society's stanards if beauty because it's fake, thinking you're fat when your not a little bit of weight doesn't hurt, if anything it's helpful, some makeup is fine but most men don't notice the difference until you tell them, also some girls look pretty without makeup. It all varies guy to guy but most of this is true among most.
I wish they did less of turning down a great guy who approaches them (before she notices him first) it seems like the only time a woman likes it when guys approach is if she showed him a sign of interest.
I don't see no harm of him walking up to her on his own... as long as he didn't come off too strong.
Have you ever heard of any women who have not rejected a guy who talk to them with confidence, and from then on they been in a relationship?
DO MORE of that talking with the guy you like that you seem to already do with friends or basically anyone else that ever existed.
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All personalities are different but one thing all girls have in common is not being direct. I wished all girls where confident enough to admit they like you, they hate you, they liked this, they didn't like that but instead they want for us to be wizards and fortune tellers. Like if we were supposed to know exactly what they're feeling/thinking and that is frustrating at moments :S
they should stop hoping that guys will figure their problems out, nd more that they should stop having that mysterious nd girlish creeping attitude
nd they should be more expressive nd clear cut like guys
thats what i wish
Telling me what is on her mind and if I have done something wrong straight away instead of sitting on it for months and months and then starting a fight over a problem that I did not know existed. That's always a fun one.
Being more open when it comes to sex as well would be nice. Tell me exactly what you want to try instead of being all coy and not giving a straight answer about it.
When they insist on telling you about stuff you don't give a SINGLE FUCK about. It's like "What went through your head that made you think I care?".
Lol Well if its your gf or wife doing the endless talking about nothing, I will say at least pretend like you are interested... it will do you better in the long run.
I have done that in the past, but that only makes it worse. The talking about nothing is worse when they think you actually care.
It would be good for women to look for hidden meanings in what guys say much less, because most of the time there is no hidden meaning. It would be good for women to be happy with their appearance more, because guys are happy with it.
Felt around on me when we make out.
If we are making out, and feel at all like you wanna touch my butt. stick your hands down my pants and feel around as much as you like. I mean early in a relationship. Not like my frontal area but behind... you're free to do what you want.
Nothing absolutely nothin, I just really enjoy the girl in all herself, I even tried to think of something but I just really like all the problems and little things that make them different
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