I'm in the same boat as you, having never been in a relationship. But I'd assume that you just spend as much time with each other and communicate with each other as much as you're both comfortable with... and after a while of that, if you both still like each other, you're a good couple.
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They need a LOT, but like plants, you can give them too much.
Rather than try to gauge how much your partner needs, give what you're comfortable giving. And then from time to time, give a little more for a little while. And then go back to what you feel is comfortable.
Well, is harsh as it sounds... I don't need to be looking at his face all day. And with that I mean that I like to be on my own, I like to do things by myself, or just me and some friends. I don't want to see him everyday. I'd like to speak to him regularly though, but not everyday ^^ I'm clumsy like that
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Women loves a man with effort. Which a majority of them stop after they get her. And the answer to your questions, it depends if she's insecure or not. If she is, then yes, she will expect for you to call, text, visit her most of the days. But some dont quite mind, because it is good to have some independence in a relationship. That way one of them won't get tired or bored easily.
I think if you water your girlfriend once a day she will grow to full potential, after a couple of months you may have to get a bigger pot or put her outside. Make sure she is by a window so she gets plenty of sunlight.
On a side note: I just discovered Bob Dylan, isn't that fucking crazy?
I don't know, good question, because for me with my ex (the only guy I dated) barely gave me attention and he wasn't busy at all. Like he only talked to me if I messaged him first and he doesn't reply back all the time and he only wanted to see me once a month or so and he always ignored me
About two teaspoons of attention. Stir thoroughly, set it on low temperature, let it sit for a few minutes, then repeat said process, for all attention has evaporated as if it never existed.
Depends of course, but for me, I'd like a phone call every night at least. We don't have to text at all during the day. Its just better to hear the other persons voice😊
For myself personally I like to text him each day to hear how his day was and for him to ask me about my day. We don't go out all the time though, about once a week, sometimes twice.
A girlfriend is easily worth about 200 dollars a week which if you spend 400$ on a hooker every 2 weeks it exceedingly wrecks your ability to even have a girlfriend.
Personally, some days I craaaave it because I just can't shutup or I'd like to hear his voice but other days I just wanna chill and listen to music, message for a few hours and nap. It really fluctuates..
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I'm in the same boat as you, having never been in a relationship.
But I'd assume that you just spend as much time with each other and communicate with each other as much as you're both comfortable with... and after a while of that, if you both still like each other, you're a good couple.
They need a LOT, but like plants, you can give them too much.
Rather than try to gauge how much your partner needs, give what you're comfortable giving. And then from time to time, give a little more for a little while. And then go back to what you feel is comfortable.
Well, is harsh as it sounds... I don't need to be looking at his face all day. And with that I mean that I like to be on my own, I like to do things by myself, or just me and some friends. I don't want to see him everyday. I'd like to speak to him regularly though, but not everyday ^^ I'm clumsy like that
Women loves a man with effort. Which a majority of them stop after they get her. And the answer to your questions, it depends if she's insecure or not. If she is, then yes, she will expect for you to call, text, visit her most of the days. But some dont quite mind, because it is good to have some independence in a relationship. That way one of them won't get tired or bored easily.
I think if you water your girlfriend once a day she will grow to full potential, after a couple of months you may have to get a bigger pot or put her outside. Make sure she is by a window so she gets plenty of sunlight.
On a side note: I just discovered Bob Dylan, isn't that fucking crazy?
I don't know, good question, because for me with my ex (the only guy I dated) barely gave me attention and he wasn't busy at all. Like he only talked to me if I messaged him first and he doesn't reply back all the time and he only wanted to see me once a month or so and he always ignored me
About two teaspoons of attention. Stir thoroughly, set it on low temperature, let it sit for a few minutes, then repeat said process, for all attention has evaporated as if it never existed.
I like to be texted everyday, it doesn't have to be long conversations but a simple , how's your day going text.
As for hanging out, I like my space so seeing someone 3-4 times a week is enough for me.
Depends of course, but for me, I'd like a phone call every night at least. We don't have to text at all during the day. Its just better to hear the other persons voice😊
Omg thank you! Where are the girls like you hanging out at?
Attention?
How will you quantify? how will you measure that term? A girl who constantly seeks attention is not the right kind of girl to be with.
For myself personally I like to text him each day to hear how his day was and for him to ask me about my day. We don't go out all the time though, about once a week, sometimes twice.
Too much to be worth bothering with and more as time goes by.
A girlfriend is easily worth about 200 dollars a week which if you spend 400$ on a hooker every 2 weeks it exceedingly wrecks your ability to even have a girlfriend.
Personally, some days I craaaave it because I just can't shutup or I'd like to hear his voice but other days I just wanna chill and listen to music, message for a few hours and nap. It really fluctuates..
Not much, It goes both ways.
Just cuz she's a girl dont mean she needs "Extra tlc". she's human, she can still fuxk with ur emotions and hurt u.
I think that a text in the morning and before you sleep are enough. And a date or 2 per week where you catch up.
You know what that's actually a very good question
Well it depends on the person the gfs I had everyone needed a different kind of attention but at least the minimum a text at the end if the day
Not less - not much. If you show a lot of attention she will be bored and leave you, if you dont show much attention she will cheat on you :D
Well how much attention do you give your other loved ones?
well i like to have my own space but some girls like their boyfriends do everything for them.