Is sarcasm attractive or unattractive?

Question

Is a girl's sarcastic sense of humor unattractive? I don't mean sarcasm all the time or cattiness, I mean a few sarcastic comments and cynical, dry jokes.

steveguitar · Accepted Answer

I read something on Big Think that said it takes a really smart mind to be able to do it, I don't remember the name of it. But sarcasm isn't that good, and its usually not funny. Once you learn how it's done its almost like well its worse than okay and no where near as good as a better joke.

If you do it all the time hen it's annoying. Also if sarcasm and is the only way you know how to joke around, then you don't know how to make a good joke, in my opinion.

What is or why do you think is the best sarcastic joke you have said it heard someone else say?

InsertAUsername · Accepted Answer

I have a very sarcastic sense of humour, and I have yet to meet a girl who shares mine humour. But when I do... oh boy, it's gonna be fun on the bun.

falafelany1 · Accepted Answer

I am a sarcastic person but I do it in moderation. I am not too mean about it. I don't even realize I am being sarcastic most of the time. It is just me. I could not handle someone being sarcastic all the time and they cannot be mean.

BumbleDeev · Accepted Answer

Its neither, everyone is sarcastic every once in a while. Sometimes its funny, sometimes its annoying

Kaylyne · Accepted Answer

Am not one for sarcastic people, I find it very unattractive.

Ratiocinative · Answer

Sarcasm is sarcasm. It can be fun and playful or it can be bitchy and mean. Obviously most people aren't too fond of people who are sarcastic in the latter way.

OnePunchMan · Answer

I'm pretty sarcastic and I typically find it attractive when girls can keep up with it so we're all joking around.
However, some people use sarcasm to be complete assholes and that's when it's no longer attractive.

howzit2015 · Answer

depends if someone is a dick about it 24/7. Who wants to be around people like that? But if it is an attempt to make me laugh I don't mind it.

ProbablyTooMature · Answer

I like it when it's not constant. There's a time and place for it, and it's not everywhere all of the time.

Dawnofanewhorizon · Answer

Attractive. A woman who displays sarcasm to me instantly raises my interest levels in her that were perhaps low to begin with.

FakeName123 · Answer

Depends on the amount. If its the kind of "always sarcasm, because bitter" person, its a major turn-off.

Prof_Don · Answer

Sarcasm is like salt, just a pinch, but too much kills the palate

phoenix2000 · Answer

Yes sarcasm is amazing weapon to shoot idiots without killing them.

TruExo · Answer

Attractive. Right? @empatheticlady back me up please

Usernameisnttaken1 · Answer

Yes! I love a girl who is very sarcastic and witty and can not only give sarcasm but take it as well

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Not attractive to me. My brain doesn't process it all that well.

blondfrog · Answer

haha yeah it can be cute :3 since I am a sarcastic asshole too lol

PlzJustDie · Answer

Meant to vote for "it's attractive"  I love when people can be sarcastic.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i like some sarcasm. i don't understand the ”advanced” variety.

Decentguy · Answer

its very attractive. "Sarcasm because killing people is illegal"

ToruMatsuda · Answer

If it's at least funny and not generic things said then I'll deal with it

EmpatheticLady · Answer

I hope it's attractive. Otherwise, I'm screwed.

onthelist · Answer

if they pull it off well yeah In moderation

Snarkymalarkey · Answer

It shows wit and a sense of humor. Yes

Lillevalss · Answer

It can be annoying at times.

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