Girls- Do you think I'm a loser if I have never had a girlfriend at 23?

[Anonymous]

I'm just wondering if when I finally hopefully get my first girlfriend that it won't be a major turnoff for her that I'm a virgin and have never had a girlfriend before.

I just think it would make the relationship where she is the leader over me because she would prob have more experience. I have no problem with that, I just think some girls would think I'm a loser.

[pumpkinspice]

No, not at all! I don't think you are a loser at all. Please don't say that about yourself. I'm 22 and only had one boyfriend in my whole life and only dated on guy in my whole life, which was my ex boyfriend. And I'm a virgin too and I think it is great that you are one too. It won't be a turn off at all, so don't worry about it. :) I don't think you are a loser and don't say that about yourself, okay?

[jenchos]

I don't think you're a loser. If the reason you haven't dated yet is because you're waiting for the right person, girls really dig that. While girls wouldn't exactly find it as a "turn on", they certainly wouldn't mind your lack of experience.

[sweetnothings]

nope.. not a loser.. because then I'd be one too :P

[frustratedchump06]

What do you mean? you have never had a boyfriend?

[sweetnothings]

Nope... one sorta but not really because it was super long distance and we never actually met.... -_-

[studmuffin-perfect10]

What if other girls and people make fun of him for trying . dating would be discouraging

[darkknight1x]

I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend or been on a date. You're not alone.

You shouldn't think that you're loser because most good looking women around your age just want hookups rather then relationships. Go for the ones that are less attractive. You'll have a better chance getting a girlfriend that way. I'm just basing this on my experiences.

[Littletad]

No, you are not a loser. I know you asked girls, but cheer up mate. Love/relationships come to us when we least expect them to.

[Kiwitulip]

Not a turn off at all! Honestly it's totally fine :) If a chick did find it a turn off then she's not worth your time. The right girl will appreciate and love that she's your first.

[Nikkola]

I might laugh at you or make fun of you, I'm not going to lie. But if I'm looking at it from the point of view of a future girlfriend, I would be relieved. I hate to think that there were girls before me. Sure, little experiences, but I'd rather the experience be with me. <3

[studmuffin-perfect10]

Your shallow in insecure about what type your GIRLFREND may think of you if you laugh at a guy for never dating. please drop the high school pretty girl mentality . sorry I dislike pretty-girls or pretty people.

[Nikkola]

I joke around with people. It's something I always do, even if I don't know you too well. Now, I recommend that you take a chill pill, because I reread my answer and didn't see anything particularly offensive.

And, my "girlfriend"? What? I have a boyfriend.

You dislike pretty people? HUH? You confuse me, you have no basis for any judgement you're making on me.

[studmuffin-perfect10]

critical thinking and brain function should come instead of laugh.I mean laugh when nothing funny is brain-dead.

[cherrybottom12589]

No I don't think I guy would be a loser if he hasn't had a girlfriend at the age 23. I would be a thrill to find out why not.

[jeslozier]

When you find the right girl she won't think badly of you no matter what you tell her. Honestly I find it refreshing that you're a virgin. =)

[Anonymous]

No I don't. I would think that you were busy with other aspects of your life and that's OK. Not a biggie

[cacapisu]

Being your first relationship you will make lots of mistakes, but you are not a looser

[studmuffin-perfect10]

Yea! if he keep thinking of making mistake the ship will sink .

[imgoingtoregretthis]

you're not a loser. were in the same boat. find a girl just like you. that's what I want, a boy who's like you ha ha this way we would both know what its like to be in love for the first time

[studmuffin-perfect10]

A girl just like him would also have to be,really a man lol

[studmuffin-perfect10]

diffidently your life is over..llol..no! just don't worry about she may come naturally to you Without you have to even try that hard.

[Thiezz]

23 year old virgins unite! lol

[ddenizse]

no your not.. some girls actualy like that..

[Juliana777]

you're not a loser, relax

[frustratedchump06]

I wonder if I am too

[blossem]

nah