Me; Hey, I was going to get a drink on Thursday night and I was hoping you could tag along, are you free?
Her: No, I am going over to my parents for dinner. :(. Sorry.
1) Is she says she is busy, and doesn't suggest a different day should I give up?
2) If she says she is busy, what is a good followup response, e.g. "What day are you free, maybe our schedules will work out" etc.
I don't speak "woman" and hopefully you all can "translate for me". I realize we are all busy these days but I get this response A LOT, sometimes I succeed with persistence but I'd rather just get her to chase me a little bit ;).
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i wouldn't look to hard into her responses because she really could have had dinner plans with her parents. the fact that she added a sad face and sorry at the end, means she isn't rejecting you. she may just be purely apologizing . I'm not saying she is or isn't interested in you. I'm just saying she may not be aware you like her. because I'm completely unaware half the time.dont get too worried. try something like the movies or spoken word , or comedy house type thing. sometimes doing something different other than drink may make her more aware of you. but like I said, don't look so hard into her responses, they may just be honest responses.