Oh no. I don't believe in that. I've never been in a relationship with a girl who works. Well one did but I did not allow her to work more than 15 hours a week because i still expected her to do all the housework.
No. I just don't want to do housework or sit with the kids all day. She works hard but in the home. So i come home knowing everything is taken care of and her JOB is to have a hot meal, clean home, back massage, whatever i desire because its her job to support me in doing what i do.
I would never be with someone who didn't put family first. Im not a cuckold selling my girls fertility for a few bucks an hour so some other man can boss her around. Nobody tells my girl what to do but me.
So you want a girl sponge. She just cleans and soaks up you money nothing more. Do you also want her to feed you and give you a bath? Aren't you independant? Can't you do stuff on your own? Will you never help with your kids? What if she gets sick? Will you call your mother to help you? Also you want a weak girl with you. Strong women don't stay all day at home they have their ambition.
I can do housework on my own. But what man wants that? I'm not a fag. I like feminine women and i like being masculine. And of course i will spend time with my kids, im just not going to be their primary caretaker. And actually my current girl does soap me up and wash me in the shower and she dries me off when i get out. She treats me like a king and it makes us both happy.
"Hey everyone he can cook and actually keep his house clean, what a fag!". Really? To have a clean house and having cooking skills already got me laid actually.
She actually bathes you? This has to be some form of stockholm syndrome!
Look at the answers most girl gave here. Today the vast majority of girls expects the man to help around the house. Not do all the work, but definitely help.
Well i don't want the vast majority of girls to be my girl. I want someone exceptional that is far better than the average because I am quite amazing myself.
I hurt my back not long ago. My fiancee rubbed my back and helped me to get up. No problem in asking for help when I need. When I don't need why should I let her treat me like I am a toddler? This is a relationship. Both should take care of each other.
Toddlers have women cook and clean the house? And they pay for the house? None of this had anything to do with being treated like a toddler. Are you a little child because you had your back rubbed? But why only when you hurt it? I have mine rubbed every day its just part of her duties. And she greatly prefers to make me happy for an hour rubbing me vs being at some dumb job serving strangers.
Her dutties? Is part of her dutty to take care of you, but not yours to take care of her? Money and sex are not everything that women need. So kiss your feet is more fulfilling than making a carrer for herself?
Oh yea absolutely. Work is dumb. Family is by far the most fulfilling thing in life and if i keep her around she will be able to focus 100% on family. How lucky for her!
Nobody ever regrets not putting in a few extra hours at the office on their death bed. They definitely do regret not spending more time having and building a family. Thats for sure.
Yup and that's why i put family first and dont want to waste my wifes fertility making her work when instead i can have her be pregnant. And i only work part time as it is and from home so ill be able to spend tons of time w them.
How you going to turn that on me? You literally only want a woman who is going to bring you a paycheck. You value a woman at her hourly wage and that's fucking sick and disgusting and very selfish of you.
I value a women that values herself. That has ambition. I don't care how much she makes. I care that she ins't a sponge. Oh well we want very different things. Nothing wrong with that
"I value a women that values herself. That has ambition. I don't care how much she makes. I care that she ins't a sponge." Thats exactly what i think too. I just think children are more valuable than money so a woman who values herself is more concerned with having more kids and spending more time and effort raising them. Ambition to have a larger family and one that sticks together. I dont care how much she makes either, zero is perfectly fine. And if she's being a great mom and home maker thats very valuable, i couldnt afford to pay someone to do that but luckily she does it out of love so its not a sponge at all.
Chilren are important yes, but if they are why don't you stay at home and she goes to work? Doesn't sound so good right? Because you have that ambition. Because you would never feel right with yourself if you did. Some women feel the same. If yours doesn't and feels happy in that life well great. Then I am sure you two will be very happy.
No id love to stay home with the kids. Except biological women need to take time off. What career she going to succeed in where she got to take a lot of time off every other year? Also im already far more successful than pretty much all women. Im top 1% earners for my age. A woman would have to earn like $200,000 for me to ever consider such a scenario. But also i dont find women like that attractive either i like soft and sweet not cutthroat and hard. So we would never have sex lol.
Why? I said family comes first. Im going to do whatever is the most efficient thing to have the biggest and best family possible. Although its clearly going to be earn the money based on where i am in life and for biological reasons.
And I don't know if i will marry my current girlfriend. Its a new relationship.
Feel free to check most of the answers girls gave so far. They love a guy that can cook and clean. Make no mistake they still want that guy to also be able to lift the heavy shopping bags like they are nothing, they still like manly men. To them a men can still do house work and be manly anyway. We are not doing all the work, we are just helping them.
Women lie. They'll say they want a guy to help around the house, but if he does, she will lose respect, interest, and attraction and go find herself a real man to stuff her hole. Bet On It.
No they won't. I make that bet with you. My girl not only hasn't left me, but she also accepted to marry me. There is a big difference between being submissive and simply help.
Oh how I love that attitude xD "He helps clean the house what a bitch!" zero logic. How small must your dick be for you to feel less of a man just for helping your loved one around the house?
You needn't feel less of a man, but she will think you are. And my dick is just fine, thank you. That was a bitch comment for you to make. You're already on your way.
Really? You called me a bitch and expect no retaliation? Acting all offended now? Come on... She really won't think that. Do you really think they want a lazy slob that sits his ass on the couch all day as she cleans his majesty mess? That is what you are suggesting.
You think I don't? That I stay home cleaning all the time? Of course not I have my job and a dam good one. And she also has a good job. We both make money, I make just a bit more than her. What you are describing is a stay at home wife. They are out there, yes you can find one. Not the majority of women today. They want an equal.
If you say so. The BS being said here is doing house work is subservient, man. It's called being an adult and being responsible. I hope you still live with mommy otherwise I'm sure your house is a disaster since you don't do house work.
Thank you @LMNOP123. I told you that @JamesRandiDebates. Look at the majority of the answers here gives by women. They love a man that can help around the house.
I was just arguying with a guy that thinks like that here... Don't understand how a guy can just sit on his ass while his girl does everything. He wants a mother not a partner.
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No. I want to be a housewife and mother while he goes to work.
That man can clean my kitchen any day
I have always said that men that clean are sexy.
Yes. We want to move together soon and we decided that we both share the chores
I make all the money so i sure as shit am not doing the housework. That being said i dont go around making messes and tidy up after myself.
All of it? Your partner doesn't have a job?
Oh no. I don't believe in that. I've never been in a relationship with a girl who works. Well one did but I did not allow her to work more than 15 hours a week because i still expected her to do all the housework.
So you want to be a sugar daddy...
I would never accept a girl with no future prospects to me my wife.
No. I just don't want to do housework or sit with the kids all day. She works hard but in the home. So i come home knowing everything is taken care of and her JOB is to have a hot meal, clean home, back massage, whatever i desire because its her job to support me in doing what i do.
I would never be with someone who didn't put family first. Im not a cuckold selling my girls fertility for a few bucks an hour so some other man can boss her around. Nobody tells my girl what to do but me.
So you want a girl sponge. She just cleans and soaks up you money nothing more.
Do you also want her to feed you and give you a bath?
Aren't you independant? Can't you do stuff on your own? Will you never help with your kids? What if she gets sick? Will you call your mother to help you?
Also you want a weak girl with you. Strong women don't stay all day at home they have their ambition.
@MzAsh you need to see this!
I can do housework on my own. But what man wants that? I'm not a fag. I like feminine women and i like being masculine. And of course i will spend time with my kids, im just not going to be their primary caretaker. And actually my current girl does soap me up and wash me in the shower and she dries me off when i get out. She treats me like a king and it makes us both happy.
"Hey everyone he can cook and actually keep his house clean, what a fag!". Really? To have a clean house and having cooking skills already got me laid actually.
She actually bathes you? This has to be some form of stockholm syndrome!
I don't know maybe I'm much more attractive than you. I can get girls without cooking or cleaning.
Look at the answers most girl gave here. Today the vast majority of girls expects the man to help around the house. Not do all the work, but definitely help.
Well i don't want the vast majority of girls to be my girl. I want someone exceptional that is far better than the average because I am quite amazing myself.
The girl that you described is far worse than the average.
I think you have no self esteem and its very sad. You wouldn't allow a woman to take care of you.
I hurt my back not long ago. My fiancee rubbed my back and helped me to get up. No problem in asking for help when I need.
When I don't need why should I let her treat me like I am a toddler?
This is a relationship. Both should take care of each other.
Toddlers have women cook and clean the house? And they pay for the house? None of this had anything to do with being treated like a toddler. Are you a little child because you had your back rubbed? But why only when you hurt it? I have mine rubbed every day its just part of her duties. And she greatly prefers to make me happy for an hour rubbing me vs being at some dumb job serving strangers.
Her dutties? Is part of her dutty to take care of you, but not yours to take care of her? Money and sex are not everything that women need.
So kiss your feet is more fulfilling than making a carrer for herself?
Oh yea absolutely. Work is dumb. Family is by far the most fulfilling thing in life and if i keep her around she will be able to focus 100% on family. How lucky for her!
Lucky you say...
Nobody ever regrets not putting in a few extra hours at the office on their death bed. They definitely do regret not spending more time having and building a family. Thats for sure.
That includes men.
Yup and that's why i put family first and dont want to waste my wifes fertility making her work when instead i can have her be pregnant. And i only work part time as it is and from home so ill be able to spend tons of time w them.
Who is her working wasting her fertility?
Is that all the worth she as to you? A baby carrier, a cleaning lady and a sex doll?
How you going to turn that on me? You literally only want a woman who is going to bring you a paycheck. You value a woman at her hourly wage and that's fucking sick and disgusting and very selfish of you.
I value a women that values herself. That has ambition. I don't care how much she makes. I care that she ins't a sponge.
Oh well we want very different things. Nothing wrong with that
"I value a women that values herself. That has ambition. I don't care how much she makes. I care that she ins't a sponge." Thats exactly what i think too. I just think children are more valuable than money so a woman who values herself is more concerned with having more kids and spending more time and effort raising them. Ambition to have a larger family and one that sticks together. I dont care how much she makes either, zero is perfectly fine. And if she's being a great mom and home maker thats very valuable, i couldnt afford to pay someone to do that but luckily she does it out of love so its not a sponge at all.
Chilren are important yes, but if they are why don't you stay at home and she goes to work? Doesn't sound so good right? Because you have that ambition. Because you would never feel right with yourself if you did. Some women feel the same.
If yours doesn't and feels happy in that life well great. Then I am sure you two will be very happy.
No id love to stay home with the kids. Except biological women need to take time off. What career she going to succeed in where she got to take a lot of time off every other year? Also im already far more successful than pretty much all women. Im top 1% earners for my age. A woman would have to earn like $200,000 for me to ever consider such a scenario. But also i dont find women like that attractive either i like soft and sweet not cutthroat and hard. So we would never have sex lol.
You would? Now that surprised me...
Well you already have your girl right? Going to marry her?
Why? I said family comes first. Im going to do whatever is the most efficient thing to have the biggest and best family possible. Although its clearly going to be earn the money based on where i am in life and for biological reasons.
And I don't know if i will marry my current girlfriend. Its a new relationship.
Well hope things work out with her.
Is he the bread winner also? And is that his house also?
Both can make money. Both can have their names in the house contract.
What does she do?
The same as the man.
Then for what reason is she even there ?
Human are not solitary beings. We want a partner we can share life with. Create a household. Raise children. Spend life together.
I guess it's just the way you're saying it. I also do all the above and own the home with everything including children.
You kinda look like my father in law xD
Is that good or bad? Haha...
Girls, Please say yes!!!
They are for the most part.
Oh, good! There's a saying I love: "No Woman ever shot a Man while he was doing dishes."
True that!
No Iām the wife here, not you. You go work instead-.-
I can do both. I still work and gain good money.
Yeah but let the wife do something too wtf
I want to cook and clean, donāt take my role;-;
You can still have it. No one is taking it away relax. Doens't mean you can't make money and I can't help in the house duty.
Well iām not allowing you, if i was your wife anyway
Well I like to cook. You wouldn't stop me from doing it. So we wouldn't work.
My fiancee loves that I know how to cook for her. More often than not she is the only that does it, but ocasionally I like to treat her.
I'm sure they do but they should be doing the the yard work
Talk about yourself, i'm still living in the stone ages...
Nothing. Absolutely nothing will dry up a pussy faster than a man acting in a subservient role
Feel free to check most of the answers girls gave so far. They love a guy that can cook and clean. Make no mistake they still want that guy to also be able to lift the heavy shopping bags like they are nothing, they still like manly men. To them a men can still do house work and be manly anyway. We are not doing all the work, we are just helping them.
Women lie. They'll say they want a guy to help around the house, but if he does, she will lose respect, interest, and attraction and go find herself a real man to stuff her hole. Bet On It.
No they won't. I make that bet with you. My girl not only hasn't left me, but she also accepted to marry me. There is a big difference between being submissive and simply help.
I hope you enjoy being the bitch in the relationship.
Oh how I love that attitude xD
"He helps clean the house what a bitch!" zero logic. How small must your dick be for you to feel less of a man just for helping your loved one around the house?
You needn't feel less of a man, but she will think you are. And my dick is just fine, thank you. That was a bitch comment for you to make. You're already on your way.
Really? You called me a bitch and expect no retaliation? Acting all offended now? Come on...
She really won't think that. Do you really think they want a lazy slob that sits his ass on the couch all day as she cleans his majesty mess? That is what you are suggesting.
No, she wants a guy to go out and earn a living
You think I don't? That I stay home cleaning all the time? Of course not I have my job and a dam good one. And she also has a good job. We both make money, I make just a bit more than her.
What you are describing is a stay at home wife. They are out there, yes you can find one. Not the majority of women today. They want an equal.
Good luck in that. But I guarantee she will be on the lookout for new cock within three years.
I think the same of the traditional house wife.
Not true my friend. Men who do housework get laid more often.
@LMNOP123 That is BS.
If you say so. The BS being said here is doing house work is subservient, man. It's called being an adult and being responsible. I hope you still live with mommy otherwise I'm sure your house is a disaster since you don't do house work.
Thank you @LMNOP123. I told you that @JamesRandiDebates. Look at the majority of the answers here gives by women. They love a man that can help around the house.
Yeah. If men want to do house work, let him.
Men need women if he wants to have children.
Definitely a big plus & much appreciated.
Yes, it's definitely something I'd get behind.
Random, but it'd turn me on and I'd interfere
I wished
Your doesn't do anything around the house?
@Asker they never did
They should. More and more do it now.
they believe men shouldn't do house stuff
I was just arguying with a guy that thinks like that here...
Don't understand how a guy can just sit on his ass while his girl does everything. He wants a mother not a partner.
truth but thats how it is with most
I like a man that's responsible
It's hot 😂
I know right?
Hell yeah that means we can cook together
Being on my own, there's only me to do it.
I'd thank God for him, lol