More so than even being ugly or having a small penis. You will be invisible to prime women (in a sexual attraction way) if you aren't tall. I'm going to show you an example..
Here is an actor named Kit Harington he was in Game Of Thrones. Anyway if you google him clearly he has a good looking face, he claims 5'8 (I question that) but just look at these pictures of him on the red carpet/premieres he looks like a little boy, and he's permanently friend zoned by all females. Now look at the last picture, the guy on the far right who is at least 6 foot makes Kit look like a child, even the woman in the blue dress is practically wet standing next to him. Poor little Kit..
It's actually an evolutionary thing, women instinctively look at tall men with broad shoulders as naturally protective this dates back to our ancestors. A short man has limited capabilities to protect a woman from harm, for a 6 foot+ man the 5'8 or under guy would be man-handled like a 6 year old wrestling his father.
Height/Frame is the MOST important physical trait for attractiveness.
Well as long as he isn't like 10 cm shorter than me, face is more important, and it's not even the sole deciding factor. Incels sure have many theories about this, red pill this blue pill that, all sound very 'legit' with big words, 'ackchyually' 'evolutionary' etc. but does it even matter? if your goal is to trigger fellow incels who are shorter than you, to make them feel bad, then you are on the right path, if your actual goal is to be successful with women, then you're failing it, nobody is attracted to this level of bitterness and toxicity. That's the thing with you incels, you'd rather other people feel bad, instead of focusing on improving yourself. Elliot Rodger lived by the same philosophy, he considered himself very attractive, and he always tried to trashtalk other guys on internet forums whom he thought were inferior to him. That didn't end so well, did it? here are two things that would prevent future incel school shootings: - Fix your issues (be more introspective, don't just focus on other people's flaws) - Stop trying to spread hatred (e. g. don't force your red/blue/purple pill on other people, telling people who they should be attracted to)!
I'm 6'3 and have no problem getting women. Elliot Roger by the way was an Asian manlet who couldn't get any women (despite being wealthy and having a decent face) which is the reason he went on that spree. So it's laughable you'd compare me to him. By the way I think this is a sock puppet account.
He’s not permanently friendzoned by all women- the man has a wife. And he’s standing next to tall women in heels in the first two photos so he probably doesn’t look that short all the time. Anyway, I disagree with your theory. Shortness is definitely unattractive but not as much as being obese or disabled.
Weight is changeable through diet and lifestyle. Height/bone structure you're stuck with. And not sure what you mean by disabled like what disability for example?
Alright. So before I tear apart your argument I’ll go ahead and debunk your first claim. Kit Harington is married to the Scottish actress, Rose Eleanor Arbuthnot, who’s won a few awards and also played in the Game of Thrones. So already you’re wrong about short guys being invisible to prime women AND him being friend zoned by all females.
Anyway women being attracted to tall men could be an evolutionary thing. I mean yeah the females in most sexual species typically go for the males that are most fit to take care of them while they’re in their most vulnerable state (pregnancy) thus insuring the survival of offspring and the passing of genes.
That being said. We’re not like wild animals. Height isn’t a definite indicator of a man’s ability to take care of himself or another person. It gives the appearance of strength but put your average tall guy against a pro mma short guy and you’ll see that height isn’t all that matters. Tall guys aren’t invincible nor are they superior. They’re flesh and bone just like short men.
There’s a lot of other factors that make men desirable.
Hardworking/Ambitious Financial stability/wealth Physically fit/muscle Personality/Charisma Being well endowed Being great in bed
Most of not all of these things aren’t exclusive to tall men. In fact there’s probably more than a few tall men who lack these traits. It’s like seeing a woman with big breasts and nice hips. Just because she’s attractive doesn’t mean she’s fit to be a mother.
The thing about humans is we have minds. We have the ability to create and mold our destiny. We don’t have to obey our primal instincts or the laws of nature. That’s why you see short men today. Evolution happens in response to a species’ need to survive. Height isn’t one of those factors because we don’t live in an age where we’re out in the wild fighting for mates. That’s why all humans aren’t the same height, skin color, weight, etc. The change isn’t necessary for our survival.
With a great mind, you can do anything.
So yeah. If your tall. Cool. Love yourself. Rock what you’ve got. But I wouldn’t claim superiority because there’s always going to be someone better with something you don’t have. And sometimes they will be shorter than you.
RED PILL All the characteristics you listed other than fitness/build are irrelevant when it comes to sexual attraction. A female doesn't look at a random guy and think 'hmmmm I bet he is hardworking and has a great personality' women are looking for signs of good genes, and that's subconsciously by the way, it's the way her mind is programmed. Money helps and there's plenty of golddiggers out there but that's not whom she wants to end up with, she'll always lust after the tall well built alpha and probably f him on the side while her wealthy manlet boyfriend takes care of all her bills. I've seen it happen plenty of times.
Also Kit Harrington is rich and famous so of course he would have no problem getting a woman, however he will never be a male sex symbol or worshiped by women like a Jason mamoa or Chris Hemsworth because of his small frame. If he was a 6 footer, clearly his looks are above average he'd be popular with women. But he has ZERO sex appeal due to his height.
Taller men also on average have higher testosterone and HGH levels as well.
Your argument is extremely ironic. If you are in fact tall and as superior as you claim. Why are you so adamant about pushing your opinion on short men. It makes you look extremely insecure.
Nobody’s knocking being tall. If you’re tall, cool. But why is it the tall people sticking their noses up at short people? It’s like you’re using what you see as flawed as a way to elevate your own self worth.
They’re both famous. Statistically speaking, men make more than women. His networth is 12 million but hers is 4 million. They both have more money than they need and they’re both famous. I’m pretty sure she didn’t specifically choose him just for those reasons when there’s hundreds of options who are more taller, richer and more successful. YOU think he doesn’t have sex appeal. I mean you judging another man’s sex appeal isn’t any of my business. But it’s just “your” opinion. And your opinion makes zero impact on his or anyone else’s life. You can make posts all day but at the end of the day someone you see as inferior has a better life than you. Remember that.
Good post. I agree with pretty much everything you said. Like you said though you need both broad shoulders and height, cos a tall guy with super narrow shoulders isn't attractive either.
I dated a guy a few years ago who was 5'7/5'8 handsome but his height always bothered me especially when I'd wear heels and be level with him. I adore that feeling of a big guy wrapping his arms around me and making me feel safe.
Today if I see a good looking guy who is short, like id note in my head 'oh he has a nice face' but there is no sex appeal there and no chance of me being interested in a relationship.
I'd take the guy with average face average penis and tall broad body over handsome face big penis midget.
I think the worse thing a man can be is skinny/lanky. I like my men big and strong. Being under 6 feet is just fine, there are super hot men in the 5'9-5'11 area and its very attractive height as well
I'm a guy good looking and 6'2. I how ever will never date a woman who is short. Why? because I will get short kids. My list for women is this. No East Asian women. No Short women. good face structure. Low BMI. Low body count. be beautiful without makeup.
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Dude - I'm 6'4", 205 lbs. I have been outplayed by SOOO many dudes who were way shorter than me. It's not how tall you are, it's how you present yourself.
Haha. OK. After 51 years of life, I think you're probably right, You don't have to be such a player, dude. Just chill. I get massive amounts of attention from the hottest of women. You know what I mean. Definitely gifted!
... kit harington is married though. So I don't know if that's a good example. But I do think that height as a preference is blown WAY out of proportion. Height shouldn't matter at all as it has absolutely no impact on attraction.
How can being short be worse than having a small penis and a ugly face. I dont pick girls off of which one is shortest or not, the hell.
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He is probably 5 foot 5 inches compared to the women which average height is 5 foot 3 inches except for the tall women wearing high heels, and the guy to the right is about 6 foot 4 , but yeah it seems to be when you’re under 6 feet lately
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Yeah According to your update it doesn’t surprise me
No, it's cope to say intelligence isn't. IQ is the most powerful predictor in social science and accurately predicts socioeconomic success and life outcomes.
It is by FAR, the most important thing. Height is beneficial, but insignificant compared to IQ.
If that was the case Asian men would be the most sexually attractive and females of all races would be lusting after them because Asians have the highest average IQ's. When it's quite the opposite in reality.
I'm not talking about sexual attraction, and you can't really "see" intelligence like you see height anyway.
You asked what the biggest flaw was, and in my view it's definitely not being intelligent. I'd rather have an IQ of 150 then be 6'4. Not to mention, when you have a really high IQ you'll end making a ton of money, so if you're an average height like 5'7-5'10, then you should have no problem with the chicks since they're really just after resources and it's been biological embroidered into them that height correlates with that.
Not to mention there are some cultures where the women don't even find height attractive: Like the Tsimane, Hadza, Himba, and Gambians. I can't post links yet because of my Xper points, but you can look it up.
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