So long story short I met this girl but she has a boyfriend already. We had chemistry between us, felt a spark and sexual tension between us when we talk, she always laughs at me, light touches here and there. I could tell she was attracted to me. We were really starting to get to know each other then felt like something changed. We were going to hang out one weekend I was really looking forward to it just as friends and get to know her more. We still talk but not as much now and it just got weird in the end she’d be all distant and cold but then giving me mixed signals like starring at me but then looking away or hiding and glancing at me. I can tell when a girl likes me and I can also tell when she’s not interested but this girl has really confused me I don’t know what she wants. Yes I know she has a boyfriend and I wasn’t going to make a move or anything but I really liked her just as a friend if nothing else came from it. I try talk to her about her distancing and she gets protective/guarded and I’m not sure why suddenly but I feel like she is holding something back, something she feels like she wants to tell me but can’t for some reason? What could it possibly be?
Girls, I feel like this girl wants to tell me something but can’t?
What Girls Said
"So long story short I met this girl but she has a boyfriend already." That was really all I needed to read. What the hell are you doing then? If she has a boyfriend and you persue her what does that make you as a person? Would you appreciate someone doing that to you if you had a girlfriend? Can you not get your own? You have to go and try to steal someone else's instead. To answer the question it doesn't matter if she wants something. She is in a relationship. If she wants to cheat then she is going to do it. Don't be the guy she does it with because all that makes you is an enabler and no better than a cheater either.