Girls, do you buy nice lingerie to please a potential partner or to please yourself?

[OlderAndWiser]

When I refer to lingerie, it could be panties, bras, slips, nightgowns, negligees, whatever. . . but something a bit more upscale than whatever WalMart sells. I'm talking about the Victoria's Secret level of lingerie. Some women seem to have basic cotton undies in solid colors and some have silky, lacy, feminine undergarments. Do you want to be wearing such fancy, frilly things every day or just for special occasions? Do you wear those things for us guys or for yourself?

I don't really spend money on "lingerie." I buy the cheapest panties and bras that are comfortable.

I buy some lingerie for "special occasions." Most importantly, I want something that will give my confidence a little boost if intimacy is a possibility..

I buy some lingerie for "special occasions." Most importantly, I want something that will entice my partner if intimacy is a possibility.

I buy lingerie for everyday wear. Most importantly, I want something that will give my confidence a little boost - every day!.

I buy lingerie for everyday wear. Most importantly, I want something that will entice my partner - every day!

Why bother with lingerie? It's going to be on the floor in less than 2 minutes!

Yes, it's going to be on the floor in less than 2 minutes. . . but he'll be watching me get dressed the next morning!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Both, but if they’ve seen my lingerie they’ve moved past the level of “potential partner” to “someone I’m seriously dating”

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thank you 😊. Great question.

[Yads_Is_Back]

I don't need lingerie to feel sexy, if that's what you're asking.

[OlderAndWiser]

Not exactly what I'm asking. If you do buy lingerie, do you do it for yourself or for your partner? Is it for every day or just for special occasions?

[Yads_Is_Back]

If I buy it, I have seductive intentions in mind for my man when I get home ;) 😏

[PrettyKitty31]

I accidentally voted option E, I meant to vote option D.
I do have the basic cotton panties too but normally I wear the lacy/silky bras and matching panties.
While I don’t mind how it might make my guy feel it’s not really for him that I wear these things. It just makes me feel more put together and just makes me feel good. I’m sure that sounds odd but, for a woman, you really can never underestimate the power of a great pair of heels, the right shade of lipstick and pretty underthings. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[CubsterShura]

I think both are important 😅 but looking good for myself is definitely a priority because if I can't feel confident in it then no matter how sexy the lingerie is, it won't feel good.

[Apple1996]

I dont buy that shit. Seems like a waste of money. My guy thinks I'm sexy regardless of what I'm wearing

[nerdybutlazy]

I like to feel hot when I'm trying to seduce my partner but, also I do buy that kind of stuff when he's been really sweet to me, or he's had a rough day and he needs to be cheered up.

[LonewolfMeme]

I don't because I'm too young for that though I saw some that I would wear in the future that any guy who makes it to that point will not be able to resist lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

Awesome 😊😊😊

[pleasestopthis]

I buy pretty lingerie to please myself and to have something decent to wear to doctor appointments lol

[PinkMichae]

A have some for me feeling sexy and to turn him on.

[Agem123]

Tbh, only for my boyfriend. If I were single I wouldn't care.

[Zinnia0403]

Exactly

[Agape93]

Neither. I don’t like lingerie

[RebeccaSJ]

Both.