Why does this girl wait for the middle of the night to snap me back?

[glossygabe]

This girl, she’s hella cute. And I’ve been very patient and work things slow with her. She’s a mutual friend and I’d try flirting with her when I could. But I didn’t see her often. Eventually I dm’ed her on instagram. We talked for about 2 weeks but didn’t get far, she usually took at least a day to respond. So I asked for her snap.

Well, she gave it... And we started snapping each other. But for some reason she always waits to respond to me between 1-3:30 in the morning. I’m not one to stay up late, I need my sleep to operate the next day so I’m always sleeping when she responds. Which got annoying so I left her on opened for 2 weeks straight trying to rid of this cute girl. Recently I snapped her again but she’s doing the same thing.

Why is she doing this and what should I do

[sadMeester]

Does she have a boyfriend? Maybe she's with him and can't snap with you

[glossygabe]

Not that I know of, and I feel like it would be something I would hear about if she did. I do know she’s a popular girl though and has a lot of guys on her back.

[sadMeester]

Possibly literally.

If she's... that kind of woman, it might be best to leave her be if you're a decent enough man to not just be using her.

[glossygabe]

I’m not using her tho. She’s freakin cute and I wanna take her out. But i’m trying to establish some sort of trust/basic friendship before rushing into things

[sadMeester]

That's the thing. Right now she isn't ready for a good or even decent guy. Try establishing that in person if you can or by being useful.

You'll find plenty of ways to make her melt. Timing changes you coming of pushy and creepy to it being sweet and charming

[Anonymous]

I do that, because I’m busy throughout the day and I forget to check my Snapchat until late in the night.

[glossygabe]

well you see, I know she’s had to have seen it. she leaves her snapmap on and it says when she’s last been on and very frequently I’ll send her something like 8 hours ago and it’ll say “last seen 2 minutes ago”. So she’s literally putting me off

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know at her age she should be in bed going to school in the morning

[glossygabe]

Well that’s what I would think too but nope

[Iron_Man]

Well that’s not a good schedule for a teen

[Angelo75]

She's afraid her parents will find out?

[glossygabe]

potentially

[Avicenna]

Maybe she’s busy at other timeshare is a night owl

[prince360]

She's probably a prostitute

[glossygabe]

she’s definitely not a prostitute. I don't know if this is supposed to be a joke or not

[prince360]

How do you know?

[glossygabe]

she’s underage... well maybe i don’t know

[prince360]

Paramoia aside - what does she do yo be up so late? And what do you do?
I'd feel flattered if someone was reaching out to me when true to themselves - but if she does so in her darkest hour, can you handle the (size of) the problem she is having?