Yep. but thats just because i know ill live with regret if i dont. It can vary from situation to situation. If i have nothing to lose i usually just go for it.
Exactly. The 'nothing to lose' is the mentality we all SHOULD have. But the fear of rejection or even resentment will forever persist until you actually open your mouth to sing those first words..
It's been a very long time since that happened, and not just because of covid. Unfortunately I was usually so surprised I messed it up, even if I was attracted to her.
I used to get women who would make first move. In the 70's very common it was all part of the liberation of the time. I've read the female answers on here and a lot their first move is only flirting. I was referring to out and out seduction
I think its because of what society has dictated years ago. Parents would rear their daughters to be timid and shy. However, initiating a conversation is different. Some girls do some girls don't.
Oh! My response meant that, whenever I see a girl approach me or someone else, i get astonished, surprised, shocked! But it a positive way.
Any girl possessing the energy to approach and make that first move gets BIG COOKIE POINTS from me! So i'm surprised if guys don't like it when a girl approaches. Even if they aren't the most attractive girl in the world, being approached by a girl i'm not interested in will BOOST the HELL out of my self-esteem (which is already in a high and stable place)!!
I've been on Tinder before, I absolutely positively appreciate you for sending the first message. Girls like you are always the best for it. Hands. DOWN!
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Yep. but thats just because i know ill live with regret if i dont. It can vary from situation to situation. If i have nothing to lose i usually just go for it.
Exactly. The 'nothing to lose' is the mentality we all SHOULD have. But the fear of rejection or even resentment will forever persist until you actually open your mouth to sing those first words..
my thoughts precisely... people focus too much on the outcome rather than the actual action. Fear holds people back from so many things.
I'm glad you understand ๐QUEEN๐
Once. But that's was a very uncommon situation, tbh.
I am interested.
Any care to explain what happened?
I have been approached by girls, but the only guys I know who have it happen on a regular basis are extremely good-looking.
How do you usually react when a girl approaches you?
It's been a very long time since that happened, and not just because of covid. Unfortunately I was usually so surprised I messed it up, even if I was attracted to her.
Worked out a couple times tho...
I see... well, hope you get more opportunites to prosper if needs be, KING!
I used to get women who would make first move. In the 70's very common it was all part of the liberation of the time. I've read the female answers on here and a lot their first move is only flirting. I was referring to out and out seduction
I think its because of what society has dictated years ago. Parents would rear their daughters to be timid and shy. However, initiating a conversation is different. Some girls do some girls don't.
Iโm better with approaching guys first online but in real life, Iโm too shy to go up and ask
Guys have neeeever approach me so I just assume they don't like me. Not gonna make the first move just so I can be rejected.
Yea, if I really like the guy I will totally make the first move. Itโs pretty easy since guys take almost anything as flirting lol
Keep that energy queen <3!
Has you making the first move ever worked out well for you? As in, did the guy end up as your boyfriend?
Only if he is as rich and handsome as Christian Grey (or better)
A girl I went out with a while back, made the first move. Worst mistake of my life
in that case she would be called slut by the society.
Yeah and they donโt like it.
Dunno who you've been moving but it'll astonish me every time !
Huh?
Oh wait, i think i misinterpreted what you're saying.
I thought you initially said "Yeah, and the guys don't like the approach."
But now i'm realising that you may have actually been saying "Yeah and girls don't like doing it."
My bad.
You got the first one right but didnโt understand your comment
Oh! My response meant that, whenever I see a girl approach me or someone else, i get astonished, surprised, shocked! But it a positive way.
Any girl possessing the energy to approach and make that first move gets BIG COOKIE POINTS from me! So i'm surprised if guys don't like it when a girl approaches. Even if they aren't the most attractive girl in the world, being approached by a girl i'm not interested in will BOOST the HELL out of my self-esteem (which is already in a high and stable place)!!
Thatโs nice.
Now give me a cookie
You've got affectionate cookie points, girl ๐
i like to feel that due to how rare it is, how it has always been rare, it feels like never
I do sometimes if I get the courage to.
Gain that courage, go for it girl ๐ค
Very few will do that
Praise the few!!!
only if heโs EXTREMELY hot
Ah, you must be Option C
:3
yup!!
I have made the first moves before.
Did you ever find it difficult and did your 'moves' ever fail?
Occasionally but not usually
Better than never in my books! We like to see the energy :3
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Does tinder count? Then yes
I've been on Tinder before, I absolutely positively appreciate you for sending the first message. Girls like you are always the best for it. Hands. DOWN!
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Thanks :)
I used to but not anymore.
What made you stop?
Tell me who it was so i can have aggressive words for them ๐
Man it's a long story
If you ever get bored, you can DM me about it, i'm willing to hear you out if you're willing to share and don't want it public
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