Why do many men complain about female hypergamy/"women's conditional love" but they are also obsessed with women's youth and beauty?

[hi_it_is_me123]

Ageism towards women is a huge issue. I have heard by some male gagers that men can love women uncondiotonally. For some reason they change their mind when i ask them if they also can love ugly/old women like that. So just be fucking honest. You can't complain if you only want women in her " prime time"/ youth but also complain when she affords to be hypergamous since many men like you also want young women. Should women kill themself for being single after her 30s or what is wrong with being 30+ as a woman


Would you date women after their 30s?

I have no problem with old women. So i would marry/date women even if they are 30+years old.

I only date/marry women in their youth/"prime time"

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Do men only love young women uncondiotonally? Ageism towards women after their 30s just want me to kill myself before 30s. I know i sound like a femcel but it is kinda makes me sad that ny potential husband would not marry me if i was not young.

[doopayo]

Honestly it’s just a double standard.


And it’s contributed to the p*rn industry oversexualizing literal minors. Not literally, but implying it. One of the most searched for porn categories are “teen”, that’s very alarming? Not to mention the fact that the p*rn industry loves to promote “super young looking women” young to the point they literally look like minors.


And the primary consumers of p*rn are men, go figure they have this attraction to younger women.


“The claim that men “naturally” prefer younger women is an assertion of power cloaked in the language of evolutionary psychology. It implies that a woman’s accomplishments, power, money, intelligence, and ambition are, at best, secondary commodities on the marriage market. Men, in this formulation, only get better with age. (Which isn’t true: their fertility declines every year after age 20, as with women. It takes a 40-year-old man nearly two years to achieve a pregnancy with a woman at peak fertility.)”



- source https://theoutline.com/post/6061/older-men-younger-women-evolution-or-bullshit

[Kaneki05]

Well when i say i love unconditional it don't include grandma's or kids cause... that's kinda weird and gross and one is for sure illegal. But yeah i will date someone in there 30s, have done so before. Older don't bother me but there is a part were age of course is an actual issue that does
It's better to just date someone closer to your age no matter what age though much more chance in success and it not been weird.

And yeah a lot of weird guys at 40 or something won't date a 30 but achieving for a 20.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I've never dated before, so that may be it, but I really don't get the stereotype about women after 30, like what is it?

Are they considered less desirable or past their prime, because as far as I'm aware, we all age differently, regardless of gender.

Yes, I would date a woman in her 30s.

Ideally, I'd prefer not to have an age-gap relationship, but if I did, I'd date older and would rather be the younger person in there, as I don't think I'd comfortable dating someone a lot younger than myself.

[Anonymous]

This makes me laugh when women complain about this. Because you act like men are bad people for being attracted to youth and beauty.
I'll tell you what i'll apologize when you women apologize for being attracted to personalities and height. Yeah you heard right. I can have a personality and be a guy 10 times better than the guy you're attracted to. But if you're not interested i haven't got a chance in hell.

[hi_it_is_me123]

What lol. You sound ridiculous. Dont apologize. Like what you want. I have no problem with honest men. As long as you do not hate women and so are not hypocritical who are like you, i do not care. But i agree that would also should not complain about men being shallow if she wants a tall men etc.

[hi_it_is_me123]

In my experience women got hate for liking tall men by some men but also the same men only want young women. I mean everyone is entitled to their preferences as long you are not hypocritical and do not spread hate

[hi_it_is_me123]

I even would respect your preferences if you only want models as gfs since it is your life. You are cute lol. It is cute how you are ready to comprimise and ready to change/apologize lol. Please do not change yourself for anyone. I am kinda shocked by your reply. I did not except anyone to change. I am sorry lol.

[user2345354]

We just want 18 year old women to love us for who we are on the inside. Why is that so wrong?

[hi_it_is_me123]

Lol.

[Dchrls78104]

I'm older than 30, so I'd date a woman older than 30. But here's my question: how many 30+ year old women are virgins like me?

[rebeliouse]

@hi_it_is_me123
haha 30 is younger than me :D

[hi_it_is_me123]

Lol.

[TallAnon]

The second, cuz I'm at that age too.