Drunk texting a guy who left you on read?

[Anonymous]

Guys, what do you think of a girl drunk texting you? I wrote to my crush "want you to fuck me"--- embarrassing 🙈 but at the same time laughable. Don't feel like apologizing also because I'm done with it and don't want to keep writing to someone without response. Only drawback it doesn't seem like I was drunk so message could have been sent at 23am sober (not true). Doesn't know me well to laugh about it but didn't respond either (which is good cause awkward).

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Follow up: got a reply saying "very bold, nice, I've just been busy".

No clue how to proceed from there I just want to hook up but can't invite him second time I was more for a warmer response or a joke 😎 this is just lame.

[TurboKid]

That's so incredibly awkward and funny. I like it. I'm not sure how to repair that. My very first thought was telling him you meant to send it to someone else but that's not very good, is it?

[TurboKid]

I did some embarrassing drunk texts when younger but this is like a whole new level. It's like a new dimension of the awkward. It's like you went into a whole alternate dimension when you were drunk and now have to live with the reality of living in two parallel universes.

[TurboKid]

Well, at the end of the day, I think you just gotta laugh. It's funny. At least now your crush knows what you really want.

[Asker]

Nooo, appreciate the effort behind it but will make me look like I'm craving attention. I even wrote "right now" like fuck me now... I think I'll let it be hasn't removed me from social media or blocked so I guess he found it funny. If I keep writing though, I'm crossing the line of creeping him out. Minimum I can do is "sorry, drunk a bit more last night didn't mean it like this" 🙈

[Asker]

Yeah. Embarrassing still. Does it make me look like clingy, desperate or emotional? Truth is got horny and he was my go to guy but shouldn't have texted him cause he was already ignoring my texts (hope he realized I was under alcohol effect and didn't have right mind) thank god I'm writing bullshit and not anything mean or diminishing 😄

[TurboKid]

I like the idea of halfway going with it. Have some fun with it. You'll have to step things up though and get all flirty now.

[TurboKid]

Maybe if you wanna retract, do it in a sort of funny way too like, "Whoops, my bad. I got totally smashed and you were the first hot guy on my phone."

[TurboKid]

I think you're awesome though. You raised the bar on drunk texts. Made my day.

[Asker]

This sounds nice but can't get flirty and shit, he saw it and didn't reply. If he did, I could have laughed it off still sounds cool 😎

[Asker]

Really? I wrote "you know what? want you to fuck me right now emoji emoji"

[TurboKid]

I like the idea of the first hot guy while smashed thing. What's your crush like anyway?

[Asker]

Well kind of depressive with some humorous moments when he tries to joke

[TurboKid]

I think you should see him in person ASAP.

[Asker]

One question, it didn't seem like I was drunk still didn't reply to an obvious booty call (no questions asked about that it was like fuck me now) so why to keep trying to convince him if he's not interested? I am humorous and would totally sent this to someone who can say at least was late or was tired and make a joke back at me but keep validating him no I won't do it 😄 he has the chance to make a joke about it if he wants, I'll reply accordingly but not if he's seen it and no response. Is it because he creeped out thinking I'm obsessing over him?

[TurboKid]

How you know he's not interested?

[Asker]

Yeah ideally I would but can't send any more texts (we never call each other anyhow). Don't think he'd appreciate me writing again to meet 😄😎

[Asker]

Well we hooked up five days ago, in the meantime I initiated a text he didn't reply so I put it on the back of my head. Now three days after im sending this line admitting I was horny and awkward. We were joking that I'm like Chandler Bing so at least he might take it the funny way. Honestly I don't know if he is or not but he clearly doesn't want to talk to me so I'll let it be 👉👌 I even put those two together while drunk haha

[TurboKid]

I'm getting too old for this. If you hooked up already that's on a whole new level. You guys still call this a "crush"?

[Asker]

I do cause first it was just about sex but I like him romantically (was horny last night)

[Feelicks]

Pretty embarassing yes. Supprised he said nothing.

[Asker]

Maybe cause he never thought I was drunk. I just wrote this (on top of not responding to previous text). Damn. Should I openly admit had some booze?

[Feelicks]

Probably. Then tell him you do definitely want the D though 👍

[Asker]

But didn't reply yet... not a fan of leaving one message after another don't want to enter his private space. I do want the D but doesn't wanna give it to me 😄🙈

[Asker]

Ofc I'm kidding we were just hooking up occasionally. Got horny and wanted some sex. Just woke up and realized what I sent didn't even remember when I took my phone and wrote it.

[Feelicks]

You're so bad 🐱

[Asker]

Yeah bad influence for sure

[Feelicks]

I like bad influences 😇

[Asker]

Me too. Apparently this guy doesn't 😎

[Feelicks]

Can I have you then 😍

[Luckycharms12]

A I wouldn't worry about it. Happens to us all

[Asker]

I feel like "why'd you only call me when you're high" I do this sometimes...

[Luckycharms12]

Well from my experience if he in to you he see that text and say when and where lol

[Asker]

Yeah I know that, that's why I'm embarrassed cause I wasn't supposed to text him. It was the middle of the week and late at night. But yes, bottom line is he doesn't give a f so I'll let it be

[Luckycharms12]

If he doesn't care or not interested. Can be good thing not to waste your time and move on

[Asker]

Yeah anything else would scream attention and don't want that. I crossed the line with this message. What about opening all my left messages and not reply? I'd just delete the contact at this point but he doesn't do it.

[Luckycharms12]

Hope you find a nice guy that when text drunk for fun he will come running lol

[Asker]

Yeah I had one who wrote me once when but felt asleep

[Luckycharms12]

Lol typical

[Asker]

It's super awkward but at least it didn't seem like I was drunk maybe horny or desperate 🙈

[Luckycharms12]

A wouldn't say desperate more horny hey we all being there and done it

[Asker]

Really? Usually I'm typing some non sense to my friends like come at this place, drinks on me and to guys some misspell words "wherrrrr are u want some" but that straight forward no. I will process it and accept it done now

[Luckycharms12]

Lol I'd understand it. But ya I've done it loads even text a girl before drunk to come cuddle me 🙈🤣

[Asker]

This is cute mine was just reply raw 😄

[Luckycharms12]

I've done the raw thing loads

[Asker]

Hope u enjoyed it at least 😎

[Luckycharms12]

If you don't enjoy it doing something wrong