You probably trying to become friends with the wrong kind of females. more specific wrong kind of person. If I was you I would begin to learn to read people and profiling what kind of person someone is to determine if they are anything to invest in and get close.
An other thing is.
To have a friend we have to be a friend. ( it's like getting a partner )
There are some other thing's too there you have to know how yourself like if you are that kind that needs constant maintenance to make it stay that kind of relationship or for that matter if you are that kind of person towards someone. Mismatch on that front rarely works in the long run...
Same, same... which is exactly why most of my friends are guys, not girls. Most (not all) women are catty, messy, dramatic, and just stir up nonsense! Not to mention can be backstabbing: they smile in your face and talk about you behind your back when you're not around.
With that being said, you just need to find women you have things in common with; don't force friendships. The few female friends I have, we have things in common: work, gaming, fitness, etc. You just need to find other girls that you share common interests with and form a connection.
Because most well a lot of girls/women are jealous or envious or they're stuck up and snobby and you end up just arguing with them I find it very hard to make friends with female as well and any that I have been friends with I have all in one way or another stab me in the back, or they think exactly what I just said so they don't really bother with other girls cuz they just don't want to be let down or the drama
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