Asked her out, she kinda rejected me. Cut her off after that. She reached out when I leveled up significantly. What are her motives?

[madr4567]

We where close before. Asked her out, but she said she was not sure if she had the time. Confessed my feelings for her and suggested that we should end our relation before it went wrong. She said that it was probably for the best. Scored a big job not a long time ago. She reached out and congratulated me. Her Words: Since we lived in two different cities so far apart, I did not want to catch feelings. If you want to hang out someday and catch up I would be very happy.

We are 25 and 27 and now live in the same city. What do you think? I have missed her, but being her friend again is not an option.

[KrisPW]

I don't know you two, or your relationship before. I'm going to be positive here and hope for love. :)

Long distance is hard, so I could see that being a problem before. The fact that she knows about the big job means she's been keeping track of you, so there's that. The big job could certainly have been a trigger to boost your standing in her eyes as well. That sounds gold-diggy, and I hope it's more than that for you.

Depending on how long ago your friendship was, she may have also grown more as a person and discovered what is important in her life. I know I certainly didn't appreciate a lot of the things that men do when I was younger.

[madr4567]

We were close for 3 years. We Met at my last year of college (graduated 2018). I think she really liked it when I cut off a woman i was dating in 2020. They did not like eachother and I chose my friend. From being unemployed to my job in just under 3 years is amazing and she has had same development. We have supported eachother throughout the whole process until aug21. We clicked and laughed the whole time, so I can say that if look at her positive attributes she is by far the best woman i have ever Met.

I feel like she maybe wants me for herself, before any other woman gets me? Any thoughts? Golddigger is not an issue. I know her finance very well and she is way richer than me.😊

[KrisPW]

My thought is to go hang out, catch up, and see where it goes.

[lightbulb27]

options:
A. Tell her you are taking her out... what you have to lose?
B. Cut her off and move on... and probably live with regret forever.

She just extended an olive branch. See if there's an olive on it for you.

At a time so many are struggling to even find a date, you got at least one...

Good luck to you fella!

[madr4567]

You are right. Told her that it would be nice to see things from a womans perspective. Free drinks and food is an offer I could not decline. 😊

[Waldoe]

sounds like she has a diferent set of priorties than you, You seek Love, she seeks security (cash)... Not a match made in Heaven...

[888theGreat]

she wanted a gold dick