How come girls keep choosing guys they have to change and rejecting guys that are actually good for them?

[chris_987]

Like when girls who are Christian have to take force a guy who is into church to go to church, it’s seem like girls love to take the long route to get what they want, but still end up not getting what they want in the end.

[inquirerlady]

There’s a popular theory that it’s a recreation of a childhood pattern where they had to be a “fixer” to a parent or parent figure.

But personally, it’s cause I couldn’t pull the guys who are actually good enough to me as they are.

It’s like not being able to afford the brand new luxury car you want so bad. But since your budget is limited, you settle for a fixer-upper vehicle made by the same manufacturer that costs significantly lower. And because you pay less, you think you could could afford the repairs and then enjoy your secondhand luxury brand car.

But of course, guys are humans. Girls are humans. We’re not cars. Anyone immature or dumb enough (like myself when I was a child) lacks the mental capacity to understand the difference between people and objects. Transfer logic appropriate for things to human beings, then suffer the natural consequences for that.

[inquirerlady]

I forgot about “rejecting guys actually good for them:”
Personally, they weren’t my type. Wasn’t attracted to them in any way or form.

[chris_987]

Well I was referring to kinks, girls think they can turn a guy that into missionary and hugging and kissing into masochist that likes to choke and do rape play.

If girls were logical they would just choose the biker dude full of tattoos that's already choking girls for fun.

But instead they do the opposite.