I've been looking at other comment but it seems like you think girls owes you an attention just because you're checking on them otherwise they are "rude". How about you approach? Or how about you let women chase you?
@hahahmm yes, I agree, there are differences. Why shall we act blind to them? It's actually more often that this non classy, disrespectful, overly experimental behaviour gets us in trouble, than normal fine manners and etiquette that was designed to make everyone feel comfortable. Now if someone feels uncomfortable reaching out normally to a girl, does he even deserve that girl? For the only females that reach out first are for centuries, if not larger scale of units, only prostitutes. It's engraved in our collective consciousness and memory and it's not going to change just because you decided that it's now suddenly "politically correct" or "easier" for you. Actually you are missing bigger picture and that picture IS complicated. You are complicating unnecessary with disturbing a system that worked just fine until now. She can give some signs, but it's better that she doesn't do more than that. Man approaches. You can't just be giving signs. It's female role. You approach. Only "checking out" is flat out offensive, as it feels as if you expect something from her. And I already explained that it's engraved in our collective memory that that would be sign of lowest morals. @Dkc123 and @Zantagio1 In eastern and Southern and southeastern Europe we are aware of these unwritten rules. No one needs to teach us. We play along. Both genders. It feels normal. I don't see what are your problems with it.
Is it possible they aren't interested or just don't care?
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If I ignore someone who is checking me out it is because I am not interested in them getting the wrong idea - that I like them back. If I am actually interested I'd engage with them.
I usually ignore ugly bummy men when they check me out and if they try to talk to me. I dont want to risk the chance of an unattractive bum thinking I like him
I don't know I barely stare girls this makes you look like a creep and probably a killer or something lol if you like something about her just tell her as long as its not a physically
Ah yes, Iām a woman that gave you an answer you didnāt like so I must be bitter. Also, maybe instead of just checking us out (which gets you really nowhere with us), try making conversation.
Oh you dress sexy for yourself? So you get turned on when looking at yourself? So you flaunt your assets to yourself? I don't think so, right? Even though you may not actively want to be approached, you do it in order to be perceived as sexy. Knowing you are perceived as sexy is enough validation to give yourself a boost in self esteem. Women want to keep their sexual market value high. Either consciously or unconsciously.
There is a reason why they say "You dress well, you feel well". And that is because you feel well when you ARE PERCEIVED as good looking by OTHER people (especially men). Who doesn't feel good when they know the opposite sex finds them attractive? I don't wear a suit inside my house, I do it when I go out. Same thing for your make up and 'sexy' clothings. They go off your face as soon as you go back home or never to be put on when you don't leave the house, in the first place.
@Aphrodite801 says one of the biggest misandrists on this website. Love how you block people only to talk shit about them. I love how I managed to make you a fan of mine š
That is so rude. Yeah we know that you didn't dress up for the person that is admiring you. At least if your interested too. You could acknowledge him or her back.
@CasaNorba I love it when toxic feminists call other people ugly and talk shit about other people's sex lives. Especially to the ones who happen to be in happy relaiontships with higher quality women than them. Yeah, this website is full of these generate misandrists. Hence why they block because they can't stand the cognitive dissonance š
@TruthBringer... I think the Power Puff chic has a valid point about some Dudes being Desperate on this site. I'll double down on that observation and make a point about majority of dudes being desperate everywhere for women.
Let's look at the situation... If an Ugly Girl walks into a bar and wants to get laid... I am pretty certain she will find someone to screw her.
Same thing cannot be said about some ugly dude who walks into a bar and wants to get laid. š
@Parad0xlol Oh she definitely has a point. Lots of simps on this website validating women in hopes to score pussy points. There is one particular dude in his 40s who has been simping his way into the graces of women for a while only to shoot his shot and invite them to go on a holiday with them and his child (he pays for it all). Only to get turned down by them all because they fear for their safety and weren't comfortable with the idea of being expected to sleep with him.
I simply called Powepuffgirl out to be a duplicate account as it is incredibly suspicious of being one.
@TruthBringer That's awesome! You also understand this so called unnecessary validation of the White Knights rushing in to defend the Princess. The fact that both me and you can talk about it on a conscious level symbolizes awareness and maturity.
I am also aware... of the possibility that anyone can make an account and pick out a gender. Sometimes we just simply need to observe an individual a little more before we can reach a definite conclusion. š
@Powerpuffgirl223 Judging from how intensively you use the word "desperate" in incorrect contexts, you've hereby proved you don't even know what that means. Good job, missy. Which is funny because this points to you projecting your own wishful thinking. Jesus you broads bore me
@Powerpuffgirl223 Yes, I'm so ugly that I'm in a loving relationship. Like I said, you bore me. If you're going to attempt to insult me, at least do a better job than my previous drill sergeants
Love how the pink comments here trash talk men and then proceed in the very behavior they discredit. And the evidence is in the amount of ad hominems. Classic case of hypocrisy and desperation š
I assume for the same reason I ignored subtitle racism in high school, because if you had to address it every time it happens then you'd be addressing it all day.
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I've been looking at other comment but it seems like you think girls owes you an attention just because you're checking on them otherwise they are "rude". How about you approach? Or how about you let women chase you?
Bc it'd be awkward if we made eye contact
So instead you be rude! š
They're the ones checking me out. I never asked for it. Also it just creeps me out. Especially when older men do it
And what do you want? Everything else is disgraceful, coming from a girl. It's basic common sense.
So it's a Ego thing!
No, it's a fine manners/ reputation / upbringing thing more than ego itself. Who isn't cheap, can't act cheap, what is not clear?
As much as I disagree with Dkc on his stance, the expectation of men doing everything kinda to start is outdated and is seriously unhealthy.
Women and men should be expected to act the same pretty much, your line of logic complicates things more than necessary.
@Zantagio1 50% of women don't even agree with modern feminism. It's not a given that all men and women should act the same *at all*.
@hahahmm yes, I agree, there are differences. Why shall we act blind to them? It's actually more often that this non classy, disrespectful, overly experimental behaviour gets us in trouble, than normal fine manners and etiquette that was designed to make everyone feel comfortable. Now if someone feels uncomfortable reaching out normally to a girl, does he even deserve that girl? For the only females that reach out first are for centuries, if not larger scale of units, only prostitutes. It's engraved in our collective consciousness and memory and it's not going to change just because you decided that it's now suddenly "politically correct" or "easier" for you. Actually you are missing bigger picture and that picture IS complicated. You are complicating unnecessary with disturbing a system that worked just fine until now. She can give some signs, but it's better that she doesn't do more than that. Man approaches. You can't just be giving signs. It's female role. You approach. Only "checking out" is flat out offensive, as it feels as if you expect something from her. And I already explained that it's engraved in our collective memory that that would be sign of lowest morals. @Dkc123 and @Zantagio1
In eastern and Southern and southeastern Europe we are aware of these unwritten rules. No one needs to teach us. We play along. Both genders. It feels normal. I don't see what are your problems with it.
Is it possible they aren't interested or just don't care?
If I ignore someone who is checking me out it is because I am not interested in them getting the wrong idea - that I like them back. If I am actually interested I'd engage with them.
Because we are used to get stares from lot of guys. So, we assume maybe you're one of them.
I usually ignore ugly bummy men when they check me out and if they try to talk to me. I dont want to risk the chance of an unattractive bum thinking I like him
I don't know I barely stare girls
this makes you look like a creep and probably a killer or something lol
if you like something about her just tell her as long as its not a physically
A lot of girls get the attention they want, so they start playing games with you.
Because of she shows interest she's going to be bother by creepers!
Sounds like your gawking is obvious, but she isn't interested
if we let you know we've seen you, you will approach us and bother us
So you don't want to be approached... ok noted
every guy thinks they have an absolute right to approach us about anything, day or night
Yes we do. I would approach whoever and whenever I want if she doesn't want to be approached them fine I'll move on.
And what about when she stares and a guy ignores.
Ahh not every guy...šÆ
Weāre not pretending. Most of us really donāt care. And, 99% of the time, we arenāt dressed for you (men). Get over yourselves.
You sound so bitter to me.. still u don't care I know
Ah yes, Iām a woman that gave you an answer you didnāt like so I must be bitter. Also, maybe instead of just checking us out (which gets you really nowhere with us), try making conversation.
As I said... bitter
Sarcasm, you dumbass. Your post is dripping in bitterness thinking women owe you something cause you checked them out.
+bitchy
Thank you, thatās better than bitter, Iāll take it. Have fun never getting laid in life.
Oh you dress sexy for yourself? So you get turned on when looking at yourself? So you flaunt your assets to yourself? I don't think so, right?
Even though you may not actively want to be approached, you do it in order to be perceived as sexy. Knowing you are perceived as sexy is enough validation to give yourself a boost in self esteem. Women want to keep their sexual market value high. Either consciously or unconsciously.
There is a reason why they say "You dress well, you feel well". And that is because you feel well when you ARE PERCEIVED as good looking by OTHER people (especially men). Who doesn't feel good when they know the opposite sex finds them attractive? I don't wear a suit inside my house, I do it when I go out. Same thing for your make up and 'sexy' clothings. They go off your face as soon as you go back home or never to be put on when you don't leave the house, in the first place.
Iām just gonna skip to the part where I pretend to think you are right, TruthBringer. š
Lmfao what a come-back. Such a good counter argument. Thanks for proving your lack of intellect
I just have no interest in wasting my energy on incel bullshit.
This poster is a fuckin weirdo šš and that Truthbringer guy is known lame sexist p. o. s. The guys on this site are so embarrassing
@Aphrodite801 says one of the biggest misandrists on this website. Love how you block people only to talk shit about them. I love how I managed to make you a fan of mine š
All People Care about receiving attention. We just prefer to receive that Attention from someone who we believe is better than us. š
That is so rude. Yeah we know that you didn't dress up for the person that is admiring you. At least if your interested too. You could acknowledge him or her back.
@TruthBringer sheās not just an a fan of yours only, lmao just another block happy snowflake āļø
Girl not all the ugly men replying to your comment cause theyāre triggered š¤§ Iām gone š¤£š¤£š®.
Lmaoooo the men on this site be so desperate
@CasaNorba I love it when toxic feminists call other people ugly and talk shit about other people's sex lives. Especially to the ones who happen to be in happy relaiontships with higher quality women than them. Yeah, this website is full of these generate misandrists. Hence why they block because they can't stand the cognitive dissonance š
@Powerpuffgirl223 You reek of being a duplicate account
@TruthBringer... I think the Power Puff chic has a valid point about some Dudes being Desperate on this site. I'll double down on that observation and make a point about majority of dudes being desperate everywhere for women.
Let's look at the situation... If an Ugly Girl walks into a bar and wants to get laid... I am pretty certain she will find someone to screw her.
Same thing cannot be said about some ugly dude who walks into a bar and wants to get laid. š
Exactly ^^^
@TruthBringer you just further proved my point š¤£ youāre probably one of those desperate guys on this site lmaooo
@Parad0xlol Oh she definitely has a point. Lots of simps on this website validating women in hopes to score pussy points. There is one particular dude in his 40s who has been simping his way into the graces of women for a while only to shoot his shot and invite them to go on a holiday with them and his child (he pays for it all). Only to get turned down by them all because they fear for their safety and weren't comfortable with the idea of being expected to sleep with him.
I simply called Powepuffgirl out to be a duplicate account as it is incredibly suspicious of being one.
Iām not Iām a real person lmao a lot of people just think Iām too hot to be real š¤£
But whatever helps you sleep at night š¤£š¤£š¤£
@TruthBringer
@TruthBringer That's awesome! You also understand this so called unnecessary validation of the White Knights rushing in to defend the Princess. The fact that both me and you can talk about it on a conscious level symbolizes awareness and maturity.
I am also aware... of the possibility that anyone can make an account and pick out a gender. Sometimes we just simply need to observe an individual a little more before we can reach a definite conclusion. š
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I love being hot
@Parad0xlol You got that right!
@Powerpuffgirl223 Thanks for confirming my thoughts lmfao
@TruthBringer thanks for confirming youāre desperate š¤£ have a good one
@Powerpuffgirl223 Judging from how intensively you use the word "desperate" in incorrect contexts, you've hereby proved you don't even know what that means. Good job, missy. Which is funny because this points to you projecting your own wishful thinking. Jesus you broads bore me
@TruthBringer lmaooo youāre still probably ugly as shit š¤£ use a real pfp
@Powerpuffgirl223 U sure ur not a Dude? I mean that's a typical dude behavior. LOL ššš
@Powerpuffgirl223 Yes, I'm so ugly that I'm in a loving relationship. Like I said, you bore me. If you're going to attempt to insult me, at least do a better job than my previous drill sergeants
100% girl š¤£ sorry Iām attractive as shit and God didnāt bless the two of you with good genes go cry about it š
š¤£š¤£š¤£ @TruthBringer ugly people get into relationships all the time š¤£
@Powerpuffgirl223 lol this girl
š¤£ have a good one yaāll š
@TruthBringer... Umm so Powerpuff is most likely a Dude. Case Closed š
š¤£š¤£š¤£ & yaāll are ugly class dismissed
@Parad0xlol Yeah it's starting to get more and more clear indeed. Let him blab on
Lmaooo
Yep Iām such a guy but most of the men on this site are on my clit and thirsty asf to get my attention. Like I said yāall are both beat asf š¤®
And wouldnāt get a chance with me even if you tried š¤£
Yeah thatās wtf I thought š„± now the case is closed š¤£
Love how the pink comments here trash talk men and then proceed in the very behavior they discredit. And the evidence is in the amount of ad hominems. Classic case of hypocrisy and desperation š
Don't give them too much attention...
That's when they start noticing you.
It's easy to fool girl's. They are dumbest ever.
I don't know, guys never check me out cause' I'm ugly lol
Don't call yourself that.. I'm sure your not..š
I assume for the same reason I ignored subtitle racism in high school, because if you had to address it every time it happens then you'd be addressing it all day.
Thatās how women are. Itās always how itās been. The men are the ones that chase the prey. Women are more shy, reserved.
What makes you special out of the 100 other guys checking her out? Why would she show any interest or care just for you?
I don't know about you, but it's because she's already put me in the friendzone.
Because sheās not interested and am genuinely does not care.
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