You ask me, then get mad at me when I give you an honest answer. Or I point out the "flaws" in your argument that might explain why someone acted the way they did. And then it's "well, I did it because THEY did this to me, or I was feeling emotional, or some other excuse... It just seems there is always a good reason in their mind for why THEY did what they did, but never for the other person. If I try to point that out, now I'm getting yelled at.
It's very frustrating. And it makes it hard to have honest conversations with women. I find myself walking on eggshells, changing the way I speak to them. I want to be on the side of women when it matters, but they can't seem to be honest with even themselves, so I have a hard time believing what they tell me. Obviously not all women, but enough for it to be a thing.
1) Do you ladies know you do this? Am I crazy? Why do you?
2) How do you tell a woman something bad about herself, without getting attacked in the process? lol