Do any other girls/women dress “tough”, to make themselves look more confident/cold/emotionless?

[Missingher016]

I am a very soft person, very empathetic and loving. But I’ve had that turned back on me multiple times recently, and I’m tired of it. This is weird, but I feel like wearing jackets and more androgynous clothes, guards/hides my inner soft side. Makes me look more guarded and reserved, which makes me feel safe/unable to be taking advantages of.

Does this make sense?

[luvstoned4him]

There could be some truth to it

I wear a lot of blazers at work and was told by my coworker who is make that that kind of dressing intimidates men. However, clothes are just clothes.. and if you don't have the attitude to go with it.. it's a loss.

[lrina]

uh makes no sense to me, but if you feel more comfortable that way then you do you.