Why do I want to nurture my boyfriend and be more dominating, rather than he nurture me and baby me? Like a mother, son relation. Is it f%cked up?

[Anonymous]

I'm a pretty feminine person, so I don't look for feminine guys particularly. Even if a guy is masculine, I still want to sorta dominate him overall. Not necessarily in activities or whatever, but status wise?

Like, I rather boss him around and him be whiney and stupid than me. (not saying women are whiney and stupid, sorry if that came out the wrong way) I rather him lay his head on my lap and come to me to cuddle, rather than me come to him. Im more of a colder person anyways, so expressing affection is kinda cringey to me. So i think if i ask for it, its cringier than giving to the asker?

Does any of this make sense? Does anyone relate? Does anyone know why I am this way?

Is this f^cked up?

PSA. My age displayed isn't correct btw^

[Girlygovroom]

Maybe you just want a dom/sub relationship where you’re the dominant one. If he doesn’t fit, there’ll be lots of guys wanting to be dommed.
And comparing any relationship to a parent/child one is weird no matter the gender, I recommend not doing that unless you’re changing his damn diapers

[Rizwan_khan]

You just want to nurture you boyfriend like mother and dominant on him. So may be you have just a different nature to be dominant and there nothing wrong in that but for longer period of it will affect you. Some people want to be dominant in bed and some in life you are the person who want to be dominant in life. It's okh

[Anonymous]

I really don’t know what you’re going on about. I don’t understand this whole “whiney and stupid” thing. What do you mean dominate him status wise? Like socioeconomically, or like in some kind of power dynamic way, like you decide where to go and what to do?

[dynamicyandere]

Speaking as a guy in the D/s (Dom/sub) lifestyle, it sounds like you enjoy a dominant role in a relationship. As long as things are safe, sane, consensual, and legal, you have nothing to worry about. It may not be mainstream, but there are guys that like that dynamic/arrangement. It’s a matter of finding the right person that feels fulfilled being the counterpart.

[Juxtapose]

You're a Dom, congratulations. Women like you are rare as fuck, trust me I look for them haha.