Why are women getting better educated, more status, more prestige, when they compete themselves out of your ability to find an attractive mate?

[stanhope5]

Who's gonna tell women the equal access to opportunity that you have recently acquired actually what that's doing is making it more difficult for women to find a mate that your fundamentally attracted to. Women think men think the same way they do... WE DON'T! what attracts women is a man's education, his status etc IT'S NOT THE SAME FOR WOMEN! men aren't attracted to that!!! We are attracted to you shape and the way you move!! THAT'S IT!!!

[dovendyret]

Eh, I'd never date a man who needed me to be depended on him to get by. If I'm more unattractive to men like yourself - by improving myself and my life; well that's a win.

[Zenit93]

Women don’t live to attract us. If they want to achieve status and compete like us men, they’re more than welcome to.

[notwoke]

agreed, an uptight career woman is a "no go" for me

[stanhope5]

Well said but telling the women this to them is a hit in the gut. Women want men to lie to them instead. Women say they want men to tell them the truth but when men do they cover their ears and don't want to hear it

[notwoke]

very true. Most generally women cannot tolerate any negative feedback about themselves no matter how true. this is the root of many divorces. I learned quickly to only give my wife positive feedback and hold back any negative feedback

[Avicenna]

That's not accurate at all. A better educated woman has access to wealthier and higher status men, plus she is much less likely to be deemed a golddigger. Furthermore, most high status men want a woman with high status as well.

[stanhope5]

It's highly accurate

[Avicenna]

OK, keep kidding yourself. Most men don’t want and can’t afford women who don’t bring anything to the table financially. Don’t confuse that with some highly educated women saying they can’t find someone „good enough“ for them.

Note also that unattractive women usually find a man as Well, so it obviously isn’t only about looks

[SaoirseS]

I found one and we married this past weekend. He’s not a troglodyte. We’re both educated, and have our own career trajectories.

[stanhope5]

Congratulations your the minority not the MAJORITY!!!

[SaoirseS]

I don’t agree, but you’re entitled to your opinion.

[Still-alive]

Troglodytes have feelings to tho! :o

[SaoirseS]

Lol no doubt they do.

[Femphile_xoxo]

I had a stroke reading this question but I'll take a stab at it. Why? Because she doesn't want to be dependent on her s/o.

[stanhope5]

Why because it's an uncomfortable truth about how women are behaving in society? Men have to build value in life women are born with it! The more educated, the more money a woman makes the more she is going to expect her potential mate to make or higher therefore substantially reducing women's rates at funding a mate!! Men belong working, women belong in the house

[Femphile_xoxo]

A very outdated opinion, yikes! Women are human too and their opinions matter just as much as men. If a woman doesn't want to spend her days in the house waiting for her s/o to get home, why should she? Also, I think you're confusing value and society-assigned gender norms (we never asked for them!). You have an incredibly primal opinion. Life isn't all breeding and mating, sheesh.

[Femphile_xoxo]

Never mind, I looked at your other questions. Humans aren't dogs, dude. We don't scent and give off pheremones.

[Femphile_xoxo]

Ty <3 I'm flattered

[EmmaMary]

What a complete and utter load of fucking BULLSHIT.

[stanhope5]

Awww did some dude come along and speak the uncomfortable truth for all women to see?