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Due to the fact that women have to take the baby in their womb and not just spray some sperma into the woman biologically the woman has a clock ticking in her subconscience. So she has to find a man before turning 40.
A Man can have a kid also being 80. He Just needs much Money.
Though many relationships are Not Planner to have Kids in the subconscience men and women act Like in their Programm.
just because you can have kids for the rest of your, it does not mean there are many women out there who want to have kids with a senior citizen. For women who are concerned about their baby's health and wants a man that they can grow old with, they wouldn't go for a guy over the age of 40.
A Man to grow ild with means that the age Differenzen Is 15 years or kess. Bit old guys are normally of suficient good genes.
For me, I'm 26, my ideal age is a guy who is 35 and under. And I can say the vast majority of us , young women , are looking for guys with less than a 10 year age gap. Even if I'm 35, I wouldn't want to have a child with a man over 40. I'm not willing to take on the birthing risks.
My parents had me at 37 and my brother at 40, my parents said that kids born to older parents tend to have higher chance of developing mental illnesses, less intelligent as they should be, less resilient in life, and also more health consequences throughout life.
I'd say 15 years age difference is already too big of an age difference. Once you're 45, you find yourself married to a senior citizen. there's a good chance you won't be happy being married to grandpa.
It's the circle of life. Women have it easier in life at first, they come into their peak value in their 20s, men take longer to reach maturity and autonomy. So while many young men may endure difficulties and loneliness from 18-28ish, onwards from that life generally gets easier.
Sounds about right. Every man will date a 20 year old. Every year that passes less men will date her.
Simultaneously its to a degree opposite for men.
Combine that together the chance a woman can score a man her age goes down drastically as she ages.
It's biology, A women values is tied to her fertility and ability to give the man a family. But it's usually also her more attractive years. When she reach forty she will have someone elses childfren in tow. Something a man doesn't want to deal with.
Dating can be difficult for anyone, Yea it would be a different experience for her being 40 compared to 20, she doesn’t have to date and have a relationship with the first guy who she meets 😊
I know, I'll catch flack. Nevertheless:
At 20 she sells it; at 30 she gives it away; at 40 she buys it.
For 13 yo, you seem to think beyond your years… good for you
Thank you but I just repeated what I heard.
I think for the majority of guys it lessens because a lot of men prefer a younger woman who is fertile and can have kids, I've never wanted kids and always found older women more attractive because I find intelligence and maturity attractive
The options are still there but might be harder to find. It's not like a woman in her 40s can walk into a nightclub and meet the man of her dreams.
Who cares. You’ll always be able to find some sucker to stick his dick in you regardless of how shriveled up you get.
My parents got married in their 30's. Happily married 35+
How come I didn't get MHO?
Unfortunately that seems to be what society dictates.
Most men are attracted to young, fertile women. Some have a mommy fetish, but regular guys go for youth. Women waste their youth and try to shame men for disliking older women.
hindi ko alam po... I hope that everyone of any age will always find Love... salamat at halik
hindi pinay ko
G@G is the worst placa to ask this question. It's just a red, blue black pill incel orgy on here.
They aren't less beautiful at all. I like older women. They have more money.
I'm 40 and I get hit on just as much as I did in my 20s.
It all depends on the individual but the younger one is generally the less experience one has so... that's not ageism, that's playing the odds.
Some things are simply more likely than others.
It usually happens because a guy wants a woman who can help him procreate. A 40 year-old doesn't have many years left to do so, and it's not safe for her or the child at that age.
Not all men get with women to procreate! They just want to get their snake wet! Lmao and that’s a fact!!!
I know not all guys do. I don't want kids, do an older girl isn't an issue for me
A woman's options shrink with age. No duh.
"What kind of thinking is that?"
Realistic thinking. Younger women are more attractive, more fertile, more energetic, and have more years to offer than older women. A woman's biological clock is not a work of fiction. It is scientific fact. Women become less fertile with age, and they become less fertile very quickly.
The question isn’t asking about fertility or having kids… I meant does the woman’s age lessen her attractiveness? Even when she’s not looking for a partner? That’s pretty much what I want to know
@Pinay_ako It's not so much that it lessens their attractiveness as much as she simply can't conpete w/ a much younget woman. A woman in her 20's is going to be at the peak of her hotness whereas when a woman reaches about 30 her market value begins to decline. What usually happens to single women in their 40's is their overall physical appearance has declined and they've accumulated a ton of baggage.
@Pinay_ako Because everyone's looks decline with age. Looks are at their prime during our mid to late 20s. This is not rocket science.
@Pinay_ako
from my experience, if you're attractive at any age, there will always be guys hitting on you. Nowadays there are plenty of women over 40 who look younger than their age. But what you gotta realize as an older woman is that you're not gonna attract a lot of young guys that want kids.
Women have fun in their 20's and don't want to settle down and they want to settle down when they are older when it's harder for them, because of competition with so many younger women.
Everyone's options only lower with age, specially sexual options.
But their ability to act on those options increases.
@anylolone False a mans options increses w/ age because a mans value typically increases w/ age. 18 year old men dont have much balue to society whereas 40-45 year old men typically run the world. 40-45 year old woman dont have much value to society whereas 18 -24 year old woman are typically at the peak of their value.
soo true.
@Vegasrunner His options still decrease, it's just easier to capitalize on them.
Also, i'm not talking about the ability to attract gold diggers wanting to exploit you as an ATM, I'm talking about options in general.
Every choice you make, every habit you create, shrinks your possibility space as a rule.
@anylolone
you have no idea. its always the unattractive, ugly old guys or crazy creepy guys that are a little mentally off that always have the biggest guts when it comes to hitting on me.
@shaysh87 Well, the big question is why.
@anylolone Unfortunately thats just a mindset that you've been trained to believe because dating is only discussed from a female perspective. Assuming he takes care of himself a mand options increase as he gets older because his primary agency is his resources.
@Vegasrunner Re-read what I just said.
Also, even in dating your chances likely decrease, the wall comes to all.
Even in the edge cases where a guy get's fitter, rich and famous, time and choices still eat at one's potential.
Advertise yourself as a walking dollar sign, you will just get gold diggers. Dating as a rich person is not necessarily easier. Might be easier to find a body but not a quality mate.
@anylolone I heard you the 1st time. You're just wrong or dont know what your doing. Not only can I speak from personal experience but theirs literally studies on this as I man reaches 30 his sexual matket place value increases as a woman crosses 30 her's decreases. I'm not sire why you're struggling but if you can stay childless and single until 40 as a man your options will open up in ways you can't imagine. Do you understand why?
@Vegasrunner sexual market place value increase doesn't mean more options.
Also, reaching thirty doesn't mean aging. Aging still goes on after thirty.
Also, the wall hits at 35-40.
@anylolone Increase in sexual market place value literally equals an increase in options. A womans wall is around 35 a mans wall is later most men dont reach their peak earning until about 45. Thats why its much more common to see 40+ year old men w/ 20+ year old women than vice versa. Once a woman hits about 40 she dosen't have much value in the sexual marketplace.
@Vegasrunner "increase in sexual market place value means..." not necessarily.
And nope, both men and women hit their wall around 35.
Personal experience, by the way. (technically I'd say 30... But let's use the hollywood groomer model, it's 35.)
@anylolone
Honestky if have to agree. Average age men hit the wall is 35. Some people may age slower or faster. I have seen guys hit the wall at 32. And guys that still look 33 at 38. But id say 35 is when most hit the wall
@anylolone Sexual Market value is literally the messure of ones options so you are factually incorrect. A mans peak earning potential is around age 45 a womans peak beauty is around 24. Women typically struggle accepting double standards that dont benifit. The same way a 21 year old girl only has to shake their ass online to get attention. All I have to do is show up in a brand new spaceship to get attention. The difference is a man's shelf life is longer. From personal experience, I attract way more women now then when I was in my 20's and I was the guy that got all the girls when I was in my 20's.
@Vegasrunner That's not what sexual market place value is. One's options depend on a lot more than that. Your inability to understand multiple confounding variables is quite weird.
@anylolone It's weird to you because of your lack of understanding of the concept.
@Vegasrunner I'm engaging in it, and I'm bringing it confounding factors.
You already ignored several.
@anylolone You're just sayong things that you want to believe are true because you dont like the uncomfortable fact. You're also asking me to go against my own personal experiences and reality to make you feel better about a subject. Obviously I'm not going to do that. A big telling point is that you've never disagreed that womans value decreases w/ age instead you're making a febble attempt at equality pretending that both men and woman are the same. You're more than welcome to believe whatever makes you feel better but every piece of evidence contridicts your feelings. Al Pacino is 83 years old and is literally dating a 20 something.
@Vegasrunner You said men peak at forty. congratualtions, you agreed with me.
"peak: maximum, highest point" congratufuckinglations, you are way out of your environment here.
I can quote you while you cope and seethe. By the way, look at my age.
@anylolone I said a mans peak earning potential is around 45 however you ignored all of that and just made yo your own statement. You are correct I'm out of my environment I usually hold conversations w/ intelligent people, however I'm ok w/ education people who lack basic reading skills like yourself. Hope this helps.
@Vegasrunner You ignored your own statement.
"peak earning" Well, by those standards women's opportunity also increase with age, all she needs to do is throw some dough. But it's irrelevant to the question here which asks about opportunities diminishing with age.
Big cope from you.
@anylolone A womans earnings does not increase her value. Women are valued on their beauty which decreases in age. Men are valued on their status which increases w/ age. A very common sense concept based on the reality of the world.
@Vegasrunner Neither does a man.
Getting scammed by a gold digger doesn't make your SMV go up.
@anylolone Ahh now I understand your confusion
1. You believe that all woman who have sex w/ men older than them are Golddiggers?
2. You're uncomfortable w/ men using Financial resources to attract women?
Now it makes sense why these concepts are foreign to you.
@Vegasrunner all women who have sex for money while not being forthcoming about it are golddiggers.
And for what I know, they usually aren't very forthcoming with sex either.
You hang with old rich disgusting dudes, I hang out with the whores, sugar babies and escorts.
@anylolone You've already proven your confusion comes from selective reading and minimal understanding of the concept. I never mentioned anything about having sex for money, you did. You're basing your belief based on your relationship w/ prostitutes? You're belief is that these are the women that men w/ status want? Why do you think that?
@Vegasrunner And here comes another cope "oh, she's spends time with me under the prospect of being spent on..."
Same ol' same ol'.
@anylolone I notice you didn't answer the question. TY for highlighting your confusion this is tertific information. You've made a random assumption and went to find the demographic that will agree w/ you. Now this makes sense why you hold such a ridiculous belief. TY for sharing.
@Vegasrunner Your question is ridiculous on it's face.
"why do you think women's behavior tell more about what they like than what I say?"
I don't know, man, I classify a carnivore based on it's diet, not on your ego.
By the way, my experience of women isn't even close to mostly sex workers, no one in my family that I know has ever been one, and none of my childhood friends. Neither most of my current friends and friends through adulthood.
I had one ex that became a sugar baby a while after dating me. Does that count?
@anylolone Lol, asking a person why they hold the belief they do is ridiculous? Why is that? Your second question dosent make any sense please rephrase and I dont understand your conorvore analogy or ego statement has to do w/ this conversation. Also you're contradicting yourself to hide your ignorance. At 1st you claimed knowing sex workers made you knowledgeable about this subject now you're claiming you dont know any sex workers? Which one is it?
@Vegasrunner Have you ever heard of vegan cats?
You can train a cat to chew on broccoli for catnip, therefore the cat is vegan.
lol!
Come on. you know exactly what I meant.
@anylolone I have zero clue what you are talking about but its irrelevant anyway. I understand why you hold the belief you do ty.
@Vegasrunner You do understand it very well.
My gauge for women's sexual interests are women's sexual interests, not the psychological products of your mid life crisis.
@anylolone No clue what you're talking about. But the favt that you need to make up random stuff kinda proves my point
@Vegasrunner You do have a clue, and you fucking hate it that I broke your illusion.
Again, I made a very good analogy here to show the interests of a subject and it's nature can be accesses by observing the subject, not by listening to your mid-life crisis rants.
@anylolone I love the fact that this conversation has deteriorated into you telling me what I know. Im not even sure what illisions you're refferring to because most of what your saying is incoherent. As far as to the original question the answer is obviously yes and it sounds like you agree, your issue is you dont like it so you want to use the "but men do to argument" or put women down by calling them golddiggers If that makes you feel better than go for it but it's false. Majority of mens options increase as they age assuming they take care of business. Not only do you have the ability to attract younger women but you're now a prize to women in their late 30's and 40's going through their first divorces and saddled w/ another mans kids. These women would give their right arm for an attractive, financially secure, heteronormative, single man w/ no kids. I think your frustration comes from the fact that as you reach closer to 40 you understand that less and less men will want you.
@Vegasrunner Again, you refuse to face the obvious while knowing full well what I'm saying.
I'm not calling all women gold-diggers, just those who procure financial benefit from a relationship under false pretenses.
Also, congratulations on being completely unable to face that you hit the wall.
I may add that facing reality is good for you, and that you can take measure to improve your fitness and health in order to offset the effects of age.
Lowering your standards and broadening your scope might be a good way to have fulfilling sexual relationships where you feel appreciated and validated sexually.
@anylolone I can certainly understand why you need to believe those things. Part of reality is what happens to you and I've never faced any of these issues that you mentioned. In fact I've specifically told you how much easier it is to get women, so you're either unable to read, or are stick in a belief based on your proximity to the problems you mentioned. I can understand how frustrating it may be for you to realize your limitations, however I never mentioned anything about hitting a wall or lacking sexual relationships so are you saying this is an issue that you have been experiencing?
@Vegasrunner It seems like you have faced those issues. And currently are even facing problems to even face those issues.
Oh, how do I know? Your discourse and inability to hold your claims to their logical conclusion.
@anylolone I can't speak to that because its basically just a statement designed to deflect from the fact that you've been proven wrong.
@Vegasrunner Proven wrong by what? Your middle age life crisis fuelled rant?
it doesn’t mean women can’t be pretty past a certain age but the hottest women are ever gunna look is in their 20’s 🤷♂️ women are just angry that they think they deserve to have their super powers forever 😂
I don’t think there’s really a limit
Lessen. The reality as we get older we aren't as physically appealing nor is there upside.
The glory is the youth, not getting old and ugly.
guys love older women
When women stop looking at men as cash machines we will revisit your complaint.
I never all my life looked at men as cash machines coz I always have a job to support myself. I never am impressed with money. What impresses me is how people treat others no matter what their stature is in life. Women who look at men as cash machines are lazy and will leave you once she finds the next man with deeper pockets.
Just because you are an exception, assuming you even are, does not alter the fact that this is a stated requirement by the vast majority of women.
Many of whom also claim that they dont care about money when the truth is that they do.
That isn't an opinion, it is a fact.
Disagreeing with reality doesn't help you.
Yes it’s a reality but your perception is a misconception that applies to a certain percent of women not the whole female race. Assume all you want that all women are the same is laughable. That’s not a reality. That’s your opinion, not a fact. It becomes a fact if it applies to your personal experience
I have made no assumptions and as I explictly stated that it was not all women you assigning that to me makes you delusional.
Clearly you wouldn't know what a fact was even if it was slapping you around the face with its wallet.
Now you’re calling me delusional. And you’re a know it all. Some woman must have used you for money for you to say that but please say anymore. I’m tired of your passive aggressive attitude
And then there are men like myself and some of my friends who got tired of being used as cash machines and stopped dating entirely.
It doesn't matter your opinion, men are walking away in numbers and that's going to hurt your options.
I am saying you are delusional based on the evidence of your own testimony. Its not random shit that I am making up.
@Slartybartfast I’m not looking for options… but looks like you guys are running away from relationships.
Yes, I definitely "ran away" years ago, many of my friends did as well. After a while you get tired of the "game" it's no fun for us guys. Dating , just getting a date is often a humiliation, always expensive, and it's like a job interview. I wish I had all the money and time I spent , all those lonely weekends I went out just to "put myself out there" when I would have rather stayed home.
Im no incel, I'm tall, fit, outgoing and have always had a good income, I'm lucky enough to occasionally get asked out by women or I would probably have never dated at all. Our culture has put ALL the costs, risks and responsibilities on one side and I got tired of it, it's not fair and I learned at an early age to walk away from situations like that.
If the game isn't fun, don't play it..
It does seem to be the case.
Probably lessen.
It lessen it
Age is only a number
Women are not desirable once they hit 30
Good job
No it at my all