At what age did you realize the reason you weren’t getting any girls because you were being too friendly/nice?

[Anonymous]

I know women claim to like nice respectful gentleman but honestly I feel that’s bullshit. I started getting more women when I became more asshole like n treating them like shit I feel like they respect me more. And they tend to be more open to sex.

[RedThread]

Ehhh please don't fall into the alpha male pick up artist nonsense on the internet.

I strongly believe that most people who respect themselves and others want a good quality partner but don't forget that being nice or good is like a prerequisite. What do you bring to the table outside of being friendly or nice? There are many more aspects to attraction than simply being nice.

[Notcreativenough]

You're still young, once you get closer to 30 you'll likely realize most women have worked through their daddy issues that causes them to crave your negative attention. They're confusing your abuse with confidence which won't last forever and then you'll just be left with really toxic relationship traits that will plague you for years. I would suggest being a little more patient and wait a little longer for the rarer young wise one that will teach you a lot of useful life lessons through love and the natural pain that comes with it. Good luck either way buddy!

[Anonymous]

Around 25.