A month ago I was rejected by this girl. I've basically gotten over it but really realised she isn't a good person. We used to hangout a bit and she used to be relatively talkative but now after rejecting me she's completely ignoring me and acting all shy and nervous around my vicinity. For me, I don't and I still treat her like how I would treat anyone else. It's funny because she's done this a couple times, is that she'd see me in a distance and then talk to a guy and when I walk past she'd look at me and so would the dude, pretty awkward. She'd never talk to me but can talk to other guys. Here's the thing if you have no interest in me, what is the point of trying to play the game of jealousy? Some people these days have no empathy for other people. What would you do in my shoes or if your crush tried to make you jealous?
I wouldn't know, I've never been rejected. I hear it must be difficult...
Ok, I'm being a tad facetious here.
Being rejected is tough to deal with and from what I've seen, ladies can be extremely cruel and callous with how they reject guys.
You can channel that energy into self development. I used personal fitness to get over my ex, I became a beast as a result. I never planned to, it just.. happened.
I thank her for the rough breakup because she was a vessel to help me take me to the next level.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
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She probably likes the attention. She likes the fact that you like her, but she doesn't like you in that way. But at the same time, she doesn't want you to STOP liking her because she likes to feel wanted by someone. So she's doing this, hoping that you will feel jealous enough to keep on liking her eventhough she already rejected you.
I'm not a 100% sure this is what she's doing but it most probably is. Especially if she's not a good person as you already know. So if it's possible, be strong and move on. Don't play her game and she will eventually get tired when she sees you don't care anymore. And maybe even start chasing you this time around when she sees she don't have your attention anymore. But if that happens, it's up to you to be careful 🤷♀️
That's not exactly iron-clad proof that she tries to make you jealous. I wouldn't jump to that conclusion.
I'd just not like them anymore. That's it.
You found out she's not a nice person, so don't waste any energy on her.
What would I do? I'd honestly simply fall at her feet ❤️
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