Girls, do you get ticked off if you get dressed sexy and no one notices?

[Daniela1982]

You wear a top to show off your boobs but find out no one is looking. Do you get miffed?

[Texaskid1]

Like any red blooded straight man I like to look at the hot ladies. I don't stare because I don't want to get called out for it. But this is a man's perspective. We have been trained to not stare even though we still check her out.

It is very possible that guys notice they just use the art of the sly ninja to check you out with out you noticing they are you are checking her out. At the gym I will always see fine - and I mean some fine ladies. It is almost impossible to not look. I always check them out but I take quick glances at her or look at her from a certain angle at a certain distance where it would be very hard for her to see that I am admiring her body.

But I am careful not to outright stare at her either as this is rude.

I think if you are attractive (man or women) people will always notice - it just might be they do it ninja style so you don't really see it.

[MCheetah]

Of course they get annoyed. The only women who DON'T get miffed when guys don't notice them, are the old ladies or the girls with no boobs at all. Ain't that right, Daniela? 😂

[Daniela1982]

I wouldn't know.

[MCheetah]

Are you implying men "Male Gaze" you?

[anon1903]

Girls with that complaint usually are wearing pushup bras. Me? Don't need them. I never dress sexy, and occasionally I do, it's because I wanna look hot. Something to match my death stare.

#dontcareifanyonelooks #idressforme

[KatherineJ]

If I feel pretty, compliments are nice. But I don’t get bitchy if no one gives them. (My husband better compliment me though)

[MCheetah]

"I don’t get bitchy if no one gives them."

"MY HUSBAND BETTER COMPLIMENT ME THOUGH!!!" 😡👿

[KatherineJ]

@MCheetah exactly. Hubs knows better.

[SamIam96]

Guys always notice. But, we've been trained to conceal it. The thing most of us don't know is when it's ok for you to know that we've noticed.

What? I wasn't looking!

[Backwoodsbaby]

I dress for me if I wanna dress pretty I'll dress it if I wanna look homeless and Comfortable I be it it's self love and if a guy only looks at my parts they don't truly see the real deal they have to face definitely not a Attention seeker I'm just that girl that know her worth and know she can be a bada$$ without looking like a hoe (not saying you are)

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Oh fuck no, I'm relieved.

I generally dress myself up for me, not for others. When I get stared at, I get annoyed. Especially if it's men looking. They're never subtle though they think they are.

[Texaskid1]

So you would prefer men to not look at you?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yes, that'd be preferable. But unreasonable.

I don't like men looking at me, but I won't live my life differently for a man.

I was born a woman, grew up a woman. It's second nature to me to have to ignore inappropriate men. I do wish it'd be possible for men to not perceive me, though. Selective invisibility would be nifty.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Smoke-n-Growls. "Selective invisibility would be nifty", there it is, she wants Chad Thundercock to stare at her jugs but can't stand when an average guy does.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Oh, no, I'll be friends with Chad Thundercock. But does he have a sister?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Men as a whole are undesirable. You could be the hottest man.

Still nope.

I want the women and enbies. No cishet men. They've got too flat a life for me to find much in common with them. Especially if they're white cishet men. Pretty much guaranteed manchild at that point.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Also, I'd still find Thundercock gross if he stared at "my jugs". Unless you mean the jugs I mean - which is jugs at the climbing wall. In which case, heck, if Chad isn't white or straight I'd certainly consider shooting my shot with him.

[Texaskid1]

So you are not attracted to men?

[Daniela1982]

@Texaskid1 Still trying to figure that out.

[SphynxUK]

I’m always dressed conservatively, especially in this weather, as I’m allergic to the sun. It has never stopped men staring or craning their necks to get a better look. I’d be happy to receive no attention.

[erandal]

Definitely.

Do you know what show that picture was taken from? I recognise it but can't place it...

[Boldy_Erin]

I do as well. The show is Car Masters: Rust to Ritches on Netflix

[Daniela1982]

@Boldy_Erin @erandal Who would think that someone on here watches the same car shows I do and even recognize that scene.

[Boldy_Erin]

We both have good taste

[erandal]

@Boldy_Erin Ahh yes, my son watches that. I do like car shows like Mighty Car Mods but I have not seen that one myself.

[MCheetah]

@erandal
It's Constance Nunes.

[D4nielv]

Well, since we tend to get antagonised for looking at them or commenting on them, I'm not sure what you expect 😂

[Sirenboobzilla]

Can't speak for everyone of my gender, but, for me, I don't care if you look. That's what eyes are for. It's the glaring/staring/gawking that's the problem

[Robbey]

@Sirenboobzilla I feel the same way - looking is ok, the glaring/staring/gawking is not.

[EarthRealm]

@Sirenboobzilla
Should I Tear my Fucking eyes out then
Or should I just Grow boobs get my dick cut off and call myself a Girl huh what the fuck do you want?
You want us men to not look at you.
We have eyes for a reason we’re gonna Look at you it’s impossible to Not look
Nobody gives a shit that your a female

[EarthRealm]

Grow the fuck up
Like 😭 the men are looking oh poor you Whatever will you do

BRUH

[EarthRealm]

All you are is an object we get to Fuck if we wanna and as soon as you Start being a dick telling us how we’re gonna spend our money we tell you to get the fuck out or we throw your shit out the window 🪟

[Sirenboobzilla]

Beta male incapable of reading, got it

[EarthRealm]

Well shit in this case we might as well Fuck.

[chrissykerdock]

i like to wear a really short skirt when i want attention or get looks and they almost always look 90% of the men and maybe 20% of the women.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

No. If I dress sexy, then I am showing body confidence. I won't have any other aims besides showing confidence.

[Emiliamazing]

Gotta do it for yourself before anybody else :-)!

[Sour-rose]

Not reaaallly? I dress sexy because I look sexy... that's good enough.

[Snsl153]

No, I'm not an attention seeker. Comfort and practicality matter more to me when it comes to clothes.

[Becky316]

Oh hell fucking yeah, It's only happened a couple time but internally I'm thinking WTF?

[jjj101010]

I’m sure guys notice but don’t say anything

[FilmGuy93]

Miffed, or milfed?

BADOOM-PSSSSSH!

Jokes aside, I can imagine that being annoying. You put effort into being hot and no one seems to be appreciating it.

[NewbutCoolUser]

not really, if i wear somethign to show it off, i basically just assume people notice

so idrk if anyone is looking or not cuz i dont really pay attention

[Tinana]

Not really I dress for me and love to compliment me so I’m good 🥰

[Anonymous]

It would only annoy me if husband didn’t notice

[36FS45]

Yes I would
It's not as if they aren't big enough

[MikeInHawaii]

Women get annoyed if we don’t look. They also get annoyed when they dress like they’re begging for attention and get it.

[vduong1988]

yes i wear a top it show my big boobs all the guys was stared my cleavage

[DryGermanGuy]

That can't be all that happened! :-o

[vduong1988]

yes of course

[KrakenAttackin]

@vduong1988. Picture or it didn't happen ;)

[Daniela1982]

@KrakenAttackin LOL

[D4rkd0lly]

If I'm in a relationship with a guy , then I want them to acknowledge it. Most of the time i will dress sexy because I like the way I look in it