I was in a five year relationship with a woman when I shared some confidential information. Within a week, I discovered that a guy that she knows learned of the confidential information. This was not about a crime , just personal information. When were alone, I asked her directly "Did you disclose to your friend, "john", what I said to you in confidence last week." I expected a "yes" or a "no". Instead, she said "I may have" and nothing more. I said nothing more, got up, walked away and never spoke to her again. I realized then she was a low class whore that I could never marry.
That's a bit harsh. You ended a 5-year relationship because she talked to a friend? I'm guessing you were looking for a way out of this relationship, and this gave you that opportunity. If that's not true, you should go back to her and beg forgiveness. She did nothing really wrong, maybe not the best idea to reveal something you told her in confidence, but is that really enough to call her a "low class whore" and end a long-trem relationship? Most people would say NO, it's not!
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AND/OR a "friend" that could never be trusted as related to her judgment. There's a possibility that she was sleeping with that guy and posses a more intimate/emotional connection with John.-He's obviously the priority.
It seems like a perfectly valid reason to end a relationship.
When trust is betrayed, often times there’s no going back.
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Were you wrong to be pissed? No.
But if you have been together for half a decade I would say she deserved a chance to explain herself, unless this is one of a 1000 other flawsSounds like that breakup was for the best.
Well done.
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