Listen y’all. I’ve been dating this guy three years now. In the beginning it was fun. We traveled, laughed always, and went out to eat. I even met his family within the first two months. I treated him the way all men deserved to be treated. We were good. A few months into the relationship, I get a text from his baby mom. She says she lives with him and their three children. The youngest being one year old. She did say they were no longer a couple. Well, there must be something going on if you felt the need to text me. How did she get my number anyway? I was devastated. I showed him the text when he showed up to work. He said they are not together. They are in transition. She was leaving the home. He just needed some time to get her and the children out of the house. He wanted to be with me and start a new life. I agreed to allowing some time for this transition. Now, here we are three years later. The situation has not changed. He says he has no money to take me out but is planning a trip to Florida and asked me to buy his luggage. Umm….. is you crazy? I declined buying it and he no longer wants to be involved. I’m ok with that. I have been trying to figure out how to end the relationship anyway. He made it easy for me. Thanks! I feel like I have been prostituted this whole time. He used me for my good woman skills. Oh yes! Being a good woman is a skill set. Like he never intended on fulfilling any of the promises he made. There are plenty of women who want to be in relationships like this. Why not date them? Why do this to a woman who wants to be in a committed, honest, and trusting relationship?
Well first off. Mother of multiple kids. You got to consider that they know each other more than anyone, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and at the end of the day, that type of bond can easily become a comfort zone, and more importantly, the children. KIds who grow up with parents in a stable situation do well for it in most cases. If you really cared about him , you would look past it for the sake of the children. Wheb you have your own one day, probably not with him, your priorities and dedication, your sweat , blood, and soul go soley into it. And you’ll appreciate having a tag team partner who wants to put in the same effort.
Now, as far as good girlfriend skills. You seem sweet, and he probanly doesn't deserve you. If you ebd it, life will go on for him, but for you, its a reminder that next time, you down for a man who is down for you from the start. Know your worth, let the man know your affection is at stake , and for every partner you end up with subsequentl - you never settle for less.
So maybe your dude will forget about you, at the ebd lf the day, he will still be in the same story, broke wit kids, wondering what could be. Same shit different day
But for you, its looking back at him in the rearview, going further
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Why are you blaming him? It is clear what kind of guy he is and YOU decided to stay with him for THREE YEARS! The blame is mostly on you!
He wants a sugar momma but I don’t think he’s pimping you out. He’s definitely still screwing the baby mama since they love together
No, it's not. Just that the guy you were with was a horrible guy.
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I’m sorry to hear that. The guy wanted his cake and ice cream double relationship Bad deal
No you're just dumb if we're being honest... you stayed 3 years... that's on you
No it's not prostitution.. you were tricked which is wrong and I'm sorry you had to go through this.. you are best to get away from him. Just remember you did nothing wrong. This is all on him
Nah it's not prostitution...
Prostitutes are smart they charge money for their sexy body...
You give away your body at free to married men..
Worst then prostitution?So, you didn't know he was married?
Not prostitution, just a shitty guy.
I don't think so
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