She knows I'm interested and now acting weird why?

[Vlafherk]

There is a girl I see everyday at bus stop. One day I noticed she is super nervous around me. Checked her for around a week sharing eye contacts. Then I knew I also have a crush on her. So I decided to talk to her. Things got little weird from here. Tried to talk to her for few days but she won't say anything. Just listen. I was sitting next to her in the bus, I noticed her gentle touches, making her hair just touching my neck. But no replies, bo smiles for my silly jokes. When she doesn't reply I dont talk for long coz I can not understand her feelings. So I leave her be and when I take a step back she is checking me. She dont look at me directly but sudden glances from distance. She is very social and talkative to other guys but not with me. Is this normal, is she still interested in me but tries to hide? What to do?

[PrettyPriya]

You leave her alone. The fact that she was approached by a stranger waiting for the bus and doesn’t respond says it all. She was in defense mode and didn’t want to be bothered or hit on.

I would have done the same. Having taken my fair share of public transportation, I can relate. I’m only there to get from one point to another and not to be social.

As a girl, I’m typically defensive when approached by random guys on the street. I have no clue what their intentions are or what they have on their mind.

I am guessing this girls has a similar mindset to me. She just wants to get to her destination without being hassled or flirted with. I don’t blame her. This is almost definitely the reason she is not responding to you. Even if she is looking at you, it is likely because she is concerned with why you have taken such an interest in her and wants to make sure she is safe. I’d say leave her be.

[AmandaYVR]

No. You are making her uncomfortable. She has a voice and she can use it if she wants to. The fact that she’s not speaking back is proof. “Gentle touching with the hair”? Come on. You’re being creepy. Just because she’s glancing at you multiple times does not mean she likes you.

[PrettyPriya]

Well said, Amanda. 👍

[TonyV]

Dude, she's not interested, she not at the bus to see you she's just trying to get somewhere.

You got attached to fast, i take it this was the most talking you have ever done with a girl, but a girl being nice isn't flirting even if it's hard to tell the difference. A girl being friendly dosent mean anything.

We've all been there, we've all gotten a crush on someone and thought nothing meant something. You need to back off and leave here alone, if she feels comfortable or actually likes you she will approach you and start a conversation, till then dial it back.

[magiusX26]

most likely she has zero interest in you and at this point finds you creepy. on the off chance she is interested, then her behaviour suggests she's trying to do the "playing hard to get" which is a mind game. both scenarios suggest leave her alone cause either she is not interested or she's into mind games.

[Fuentes]

LOL!!! If she starts going out of her way to catch another stop ahead of yours, just to avoid you I would not be surprised. You sound like those vagrant 5150's at the bus stop who just don't know when to shut up & when not to bother people.

If you're 29 and at the bus stop, I don't think that's a good look or spot to be trying to pick up chicks. Work towards getting a car first then maybe women will speak to you.

[Supermomof3]

She’s scared of you! Leave her alone. She probably thinks you’re a serial killer or something.., lol! In all honesty she’s probably just not interested. Just move on

[Daniela1982]

Ask if she would share your umbrella.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/_3XnYpGY5Z8

[BlueScorpio]

If she's not talking back then it doesn't sound like she's very interested. I would just leave her alone and not bother.

[Guy13]

Do not try to make this public...

[Vlafherk]

I dont get this

[Guy13]

She is conservative by Nature and her communication style is touching in a way that is not obvious. You are INTIMIDATING her whether you mean it or not !!! Be cool, clam, low profile BUT purposeful with plan and vision. She wants a man that DOES without advertising, acting the fool, and/or bringing all kinds of hysterics to everything. Security... Securely held in a Quiet but Doer kind of Man... Observe and Study !!

[WeeeISee]

Maybe she’s shy and a little awkward. It’s okay. Maybe just smile at her and wait for her to talk.

[SushiSxnpai]

IT’S NORMAL AND SHE LIKES YOU GO FOR IT AND ASK HER OUT

[FilmGuy93]

Now that she knows, the dynamic of the relationship has changed.

[John_0065]

It seems she is not interested or she got a boyfriend already. She can feel shy around guys even she has a boyfriend already

[malwins]

Yeah she could be indeed not interested lol

or u intimidate her

[Helloeriss01]

Maybe she’s just not interested, sorry.

[Chaser3232]

Let it go dude! Move on!

[skyee_727]

maybe cos she knows ur interested

[Jennz6]

Take her out to eat