Friend keeps making racial comments- am I right to be hurt? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2022-09-27T19:38:08Z

I don’t want to say she’s racist, but she’s always bringing it up, it seems like she’s obsessed with it almost. I’m half Asian (Malaysian) and half white (Irish) and I get told I look like Kristin kreuk quite a lot. My friend is just white. But my friend brings up my ethnicity a weird amount, like in front of men I’m flirting with she will say to the guy “do you like Asians then” or just generally make comments about my “Asianness” in front of strangers. I’ll show her an old picture of me and she’s like “you look so white there.” It doesn’t affect me because I’m proud of being mixed but it’s just weird how much she brings it up in front of other people and to me. I’ve had to tell her she’s being racist after some comments in the past, and she apologises, and then she goes back to talking about my race. She even said I “smell of rice” in front of a group of people and that I laugh like an “anime character” the other day. What should I do about it?

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helva Follow
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Is she really a friend?
It does not seem so.

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She's not your friend if she's doing that.

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You need and deserve a better friend.

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That’s rude and pretty ignorant of her.

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Yes, she needs to shut her mouth... rude

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  You are pretty, mixed race people should be left alone...
  
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Yes, anyone would feel hurt.

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She sounds horrible

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Dump her 🤌

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