Girls, why would my girlfriend be mad at me for this?

[Anonymous]

So I think my friend who I thought was straight is gay for me. He said gross things to me today at work. Like saying if I could pee in his mouth when I was casually saying that I needed to use the restroom. And he later told me that he wants to give me oral sex. I was disgusted, and felt sad because he’s my friend. I don’t want my friend to like me like that. I expressed this to my girlfriend because she deserves to know everything. And she asked if I was gay. Obviously not. And she got pissed off. And told me to not talk to him ever again. I agreed. But she said she didn’t want him to do anything stupid to me. Does she mean rape? I told her that I can defend myself. It was a weird response because I expecting her to make me feel better, but she was worried and mad. I’m a really good looking guy too, and I get hit on a lot by chicks and dudes who I think are straight until they show their gay side all the time. I hate people like me like that.

[devilish-cutie]

you dont seem to be stable to her so she worries you may sway like get coerced into it or do it cause you are drunk or something... so just the situation in which someone is pushing you one direction seems to worry her. As of you friend, if you work together that is sexual harrassment and you shouldn't allow that and talk to your superviser ot at least warn a "friend" about that possibility

[tfan1]

Immediately report him for sexual harassment to your boss.