So I am friends with a female and we both talked that she doesn't like me as like boyfriend she likes me as a best friend, but recently she has been showing a lot of signs like she loves me as like her boyfriend. we started to call a lot recently sometimes every day because she hates texting and sometimes when I turn off my video camera, she tells me to turn it on. But when we sleep in the night, we don't turn it on. She said she doesn't want to sleep alone. She wants to keep sleeping in the call with me. Do i have a chance if I ask her? or is she using me? Even when I called her beautiful and cuter things, she doesn't say anything like not to like to keep her calling like that etc. But she just replies. Do I have a chance or is she scared to date me that she is just saying that she likes me as best friends? or is she just using me?
She may just go through a tough time and she needs a friend by her side to fall asleep. That does not mean that she wants a physical presence to fall asleep but just to have the feeling that someone is watching over her.
There are people that have bizarre habits to fall asleep such as needing to have a specific item in their hand or having a hair dryer blowing hot air in their bed.
I personally don't think there is too much behind her behavior and you should respect her statement that she only wants to remain friends.
Now you can ask her if you have a chance but remember that you may take a risk to lose a friend if she feels that you are pressing her into something she does not want. Good luck.
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Okay so I think you may be thinking yoo deeply on this. Asking a friend for something is hardly using them and if you really are her friend you probably shouldn't just be thinking about what you may get out of it. Is it possible something more may develop? Sure, but this just sounds pretty innocent.
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Sounds like she might be catching feelings from you, but she might be too shy to admit it, or not know how to act. Give it a few more time and see where it goes
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