I'm a guy who's a bit shy and never really took risks when it comes to romance out of fear of being rejected or things becoming awkward. Lately, I've decided to change my ways, and I'm taking baby steps to accomplishing that. I want to ask out a girl I'm interested in, and although I know doing it in person is the best way, I just already know I'll fuck it up.
Girls, say there's a guy you talked to a few times at work or school and he has your number, if you're interested in him and find him attractive, would you care whether he asked you out over text, or would you find that a turn-off and explicitly want it to be done in-person?
What Girls Said
If I liked him it wouldn't matter to me if it was through text.. I would be excited either way
which one do you think is more common?
I'm not too sure I am kind of a shy person too and have low self esteem so I haven't been asked out a whole lot lol
But today this guy I know called me and asked if I wanted to go on a valentines date..
So if you don't want to ask her in person maybe try through a phone call... it's okay if you are nervous or mess up a little it is still a sweet gesture..
I literally was shaking on the phone because I haven't talked to him in awhile besides texting.. so just try to have confidence in yourself👌
I love texting, but I'd prefer to asked out in person. It's just more intimate.
I'd probably ask him out, since I'm the confident one.
We need more girls like you in this world. It's roughly tough out there for shy guys. We're pretty much invisible.
Thanks
I don't accept texts from anyone. Major turn-off and a red flag.
So you never respond to texts?
I have messages turned off on my phone.
so people always call you?
Yes, some people still know how to talk.