This girl I deal with off and on usually wants my affection and attention, she wants me to come over and call and text me but I don't respond half the time or take days until I feel like hanging out with her. Well, the last time she called, she called three times and texted me because we were supposed to hang out but she was taking too long and I didn't respond. She texted I'm sorry for being late but I didn't respond cause usually I just don't respond until I feel like calling her. Well, I've been trying to call her for two days and she hasn't called me back, I see her around school and we even said hey, when I tried to give her a hug she kind of seemed standoffish. She didn't respond to my text or call that night.
Sounds like you are getting a dose of your own medicine. You treated her the same way by brushing her messages and calls off and now she is doing the same thing. Is it that hard to call her back in a reasonable timeframe? Now you are wondering why she is doing it back to you?
Sounds to me like you are both being immature and childish and playing games. Why would you just not respond to her at all? That is rude. She is doing the same thing to you now, which is equally as rude.
If you are not into her that you cannot be bothered to message her back, best the two of you just call it quits and not try to pursue anything. Doesn't sound like either of you are mature enough for a relationship.
Sorry to be so blunt, but that is really what it looks like from your details. It is just playing hard to get. Both are guilty. I would not be surprised if she is doing this on purpose because you did it to her. Just petty games...
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She's over and done interpreting the whole relationship as Fruitless Games.
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She’s mad at you for some reason
she not want to talk to you?
She doesn't like you. Move on
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