Now, for this post. Want to focus if the guys who are friends of yours giving you the support and respect in being appropriately courteous and astoundingly polite 🤔
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I grew up with more guy than girl friends. Literally like 80% guy friends. I was never the girly girl type. Idc about makeup, nail polish, dresses etc... I only got along with girls to talk about the guys we were into. And once we started going for the same guys, things got complicated. I like guy friends who are dirty jokers but accept that we will never be more than friends. Of course that means I won't even hit on them but that never stopped them from hitting on me. Were they respectful? Ehh.. i mean they’d hold the door for me but thats about it. They’d cuss me out in a heartbeat if need be. But i loved that they were protective. They were def the type to set a dude straight if he came at me wrong. The guys also had good manners around my parents. Still, I rarely hung out alone with a guy friend because of how they’d try to make moves. So i made sure have to at least have one other girl with us at all times. Yet, I trusted the guys way more than the girls. I had guy friends in preschool (Chance, Justin, Logan) and elementary (Jay, Alex, Tev, Jason, Bo) most of who I mutually liked like that, but wasn't allowed to date at that age, so we settled for just friendship. Then I moved to a different aread and had a whole new tribe of guy friends in high school (Lawrence, Ti, Avery, Charles, Dustin, Pat, Jony) all of which I found attractive enough for someone, but i knew they werent my type and so a friend is all they remained... and for like a good 10 years. I stopped adding new guy friends to the pack once i reached the college years. I saw it as a waste. I was no longer in search of friendship. And all the guy friends i had, once they got engaged or became abusive, we let those friendships go. It was the respectful thing to do. Plus, none of my boyfriends were gonna be cool with them steady coming over without him around
Because it seems that at this moment and place, there are more males who share values and interests with me than there are females.
Good to hear that 😊
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Yes, my guy friends are great. They're very respectful and all great guys. They're entertaining, sweet, funny and good friends.
That's great to hear. Mandy 😊
If a guy is my friend it is because I think he is a good person with a nice personality and not judge mental. He does have to be respectful and not flirty due to me being married. Actually not too flirty even if I was single because if I felt like he was always trying for something more that would defeat the purpose of friendship and I’d feel like I was giving him false hope.
Or is it because you know you'd be able to give birth within the year?
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