Girls, How would a girl feel if a guy asked her that she knows almost nothing about via phone call?

[PMX203]

On Valentine’s Day I gave this girl a bag of sweets and a card that said happy Valentine’s Day. Afterwards she asked if I had insta and I said I don’t then she said that I can get her number through someone out of one of the school WhatsApp groups. She said see you on Monday and that was it. We texted each other a bit after school and she thanked me and stuff. But on Monday I could only say Hi to her, I could never really start a convo with her because she’s popular and is always with a lot of other people and the only reason I was able to give her the gift in the first place was because there was no one around her at that split second. I was never really able to talk to her properly because she’s always talking to someone and I didn’t want to impose myself and stuff and that I’m an introvert. School ended for her about 2 months back and I didn’t text her at all until a few weeks ago when I asked about something school related. I don’t know whether I missed the bus or whatever and I should move on or whether I should call her and ask if she wanted to have lunch or something. Tbh worst fear out of it would be to make her uncomfortable

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It's understandable to feel nervous about approaching someone you like, especially if they're popular and always surrounded by a lot of people. However, it's important to remember that the worst that can happen is that she says no or feels uncomfortable.


If you're interested in getting to know her better, it might be worth reaching out and seeing if she'd like to grab lunch or do something else together. If you're worried about making her uncomfortable, you could start off by messaging her and asking how she's been or catching up on what's been going on in her life. If she seems receptive, you could then ask if she'd like to do something together sometime.


Remember that it's okay if she's not interested or doesn't want to hang out. It's important to respect her decision and move on if that's the case. Good luck!

[_Maya_]

There is no reason you can't ask her to lunch. She may not say yes but it is worth a shot. The more worrying thing here is your inability to have a convo with her. Just because other people are around isn't an excuse. You have to be confident and grab her attention. You can't be timid and sit back and wait for her.

[Agirlinneedhelp]

I say go for it and just ask her out. If she said no, you probably won't see her again anyway since school is over.

[ShesRad80]

ask her to lunch or for a coffee or something, its never too late to take a chance

[Anonymous]

More texting fails here. 🤦‍♀️