"All I wanted to do was help her because I care." No, you f***ing didn't. You wanted to shame her into giving you what you wanted and she didn't. You are the one who needs professional help to understand that not everyone wants what you want, and there is nothing wrong with those who don't.
"I was raised to know that women were mean[t] to procreate!" Maybe you were. As an adult you should know better by now. Meant to? Meaning intended to? By whom? No one is meant to do anything. We're just here.
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Yes, you were wrong. Not everyone want the same thing and you just need to understand and accept this. Wanting kids doesn’t come automatically with being a woman. A lot of women, just like a lot of men, do not want kids for a variety of different reasons. Just not having a desire to have kids, wanting to focus on other things in life, not wanting to take on that responsibility, not being able to afford it, fesr of pregnancy/birth, fear of not being a good parent or whatever. If you want kids and she doesn’t then you’re not a good match and you need to move on and find a different woman. In my opinions big things like wanting kids or not should be talked about early on so you don’t end up wasting time on being with someone who doesn’t want the same thing as yourself.
No dude, YOU need professional help, not everyone wants kids.
I don't want kids, and there is nothing wrong with me either, it just doesn't fit into my lifestyle.
If you want kids, go find someone else who does too, and leave your ex alone.
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Yes. You’re not trying to help her, you’re trying to force her to do what you want.
Despite your opinion, some people don’t want kids and there’s nothing wrong with that."I wanted to marry her and have kids to carry on my legacy."
Who in the hell would want kids to carry on YOUR legacy. You are the one that needs the professional help.
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