So Im noticing a pattern around me, its happened 3/4 times in the last 2 years, I always find woman them selves keep reaching out, so I just ask them on dates and they reject me all fair and square, friendzone. (And thats actually cool, I met my best friend that way. Now Im best friends with her and her husband.)
Then a few weeks later theyd be questioning why am I not angry or anything. And why respectfully accepted it. I usually hate those confrontations and walk away.
Sometimes I think its projection, other times Im like maybe Im being overly friendly or nice.