Girls, what signs did you give the last guy you were in a relationship or dated that you liked him?

[Still-alive]

Try to think back to before you dated the last guy you went out with. Did you give him any signs that you liked him before dating him? What were your signs?

I made prolonged eye contact while smiling

I laughed hard at his jokes even if they were bad jokes

I was playing with my hair when he was talking to me

Other signs (what signs did you give him?)

I just told him directly that i liked him

I didn’t give any signs. he just asked me out and i said yes

There were no signs. i just asked HIM out

[throwaway2768]

I made prolonged eye contact with him over time and I casually kinda bumped into him and said hi first when the timing was perfect- it was my only chance haha so I took the opportunity while I could. so I got the ball rolling and gave him the signals but I didn't ever directly ask him out or ask him for his number, I just made myself known in his presence and gave him the tools of what to do next. ugh it was like the perfect meet cute I still think about it to this day, we aren't in a relationship we casually dated in college, I just have a feeling we might get back together someday when we are both more matured

[Ms_Facesitter]

Constantly talking to him, asking him to go on a date to watch a movie together that just came out. Watch a series together online. "WANNA SPEND TIME TOGETHER?" Basically

[Still-alive]

I definitely appreciate straight forwardness like that lol

[Ms_Facesitter]

That combined with physical contact and I don't think you can miss it!

[serious_miss419]

Texts morning and good night, asked what he’s doing on days off and after work, offer to hang out, compliment his hard work he does at his job and how polite and kind he is.


He still didn’t catch on.

[Still-alive]

Did you ever just tell him directly?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I waved him.

He came to me and sat right in front of me , I accidentally waved him.

I have no idea “why”, because I am very shy mostly,

but he seemed very friendly and trustworthy.

[IslaTheWitch]

Taking into consideration that we met in an online chat there must be some words. But it was almost 24 years ago. I don't remember :D

[rosemilk]

i straight up told him lol we were hanging out for awhile. and here we are 7 years later so guess it works to be honest

[HelpfulWoman]

i would have hoped the sign of being on the same dating site as him and the "looking for long term" bit of text helped.

[Singing_Hollow]

With my current boyfriend what indicated we liked each other was the hand holding.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I'm guilty of doing the 1st 3 but I also flat out said it as well.

[sheenagwapa]

i accept perks like gifts, free meal that is a sure sign

[ÖyleBirGeçer]

I'm guilty of doing the 1st 3 but I also flat out said it as well.

[Lisia]

Bruh sadly, I was too shy to do anything