Do some girls feel proud that a lot of guys are hitting on her?

[Anonymous]

I have this female friend that I met 2 months ago. she keeps telling the group everytime some new guy hits on her and she keeps talking she has been hit on these past 3 months by many many guys
Last week she sent me a screenshot of a conversation between her and a guy she only met 2 days ago and he was inviting himself to her place at 5 am she refused but kept talking to him
I don’t actually understand this , every time anew guy hits on her she tells everyone in very happy state and I could almost feel she is proud that she is being hit on
I wanna tell her that whatever she is doing is somehow sending a message that she is easy to get and this is not a good thing to be happy or proud of
But I only knew her for 2 months I don’t know if this is an appropriate thing to say

[_Maya_]

I don't feel like that and it happens at work. I bartend so give some guys some liquid courage and they will say just about anything. I am not proud of it at all nor do I broadcast it to friends. She sounds like the type that likes that attention and wants people to know. It also comes off arrogant considering you know what that means... she is good looking to a lot of people and knows it. The problem is how to say it tactfully. With someone that thinks that highly of themselves I doubt they are going to change.

[noemiii]

First off, you sound like a girl. Are you a girl? She must think of you as one of the girls because you gossip like one. Normal men don’t care about stuff like this. Any guy I know if I told him crap like this he wouldn’t give a damn.
Second, she’s just full of herself. So what? Let people live in whatever BS life they want to live and it’s not your job to tell her otherwise. If it bothers you, stop talking to her. I had a “friend” who’d do the same because she was trying to overcompensate. It didn’t bother me because why would it? It’d only bother me if I was insecure or I was just a complete asshole.
Seems like you really don’t like her, so stop acting like you’re her friend and stop talking to her if it’s bothering you so much.

[Anonymous]

I get hit on a lot at work but I don’t brag about it.. I’m fact, I think a colleague of mine has developed feelings for me and I’m starting to get uncomfortable because he’s hot and cold and scaring guys away

[Tharithi]

How does that make her easy to get. She has not committed to anyone. only shows she’s high on demand and every guy wants her

[Asker]

She is definitely attractive but so are many other girls. A guy will not just hit on any attractive girl he sees he will try if he thinks there a slim chance of success. If she gets hit on as much as she claims then she must be allowing it or enjoying it. she just told us that the guy she met 3 days now apologized and invited her to dinner
Which she is thinking of going to

[Tharithi]

U just sound incredibly jealous and insecure
. If a guy is giving me free food am ripping his money right off

[Tharithi]

Success? He likes her and he told it. Damn u jealous or what

[Asker]

First : Why are you attacking me?
If you think that what she is doing is a normal thing just say that this is normal and that’s it

Second: If you think that a guy asking a girl he met 2 days ago for casual sex at 5am is the meaning of “like” then I don’t really want your opinion about anything. He was probably hoping she was drunk enough to say yes

[Asker]

I think you are thinking the same way as she is
This is really helpful, cause now I know some girls are enjoying it
None of my business then

[Tharithi]

Obviously we enjoy knowing our value

[Asker]

…. This is the way you know your value?
Okay , enjoy

[Tharithi]

Ik I can get anyone I want unlike u. So move away and leave her tf alone