Rather than telling her I like her in person I chose to do it on Facebook so it’s less pressure on her and not as awkward but I got no response. I was very polite and expressed my feelings to her but she didn’t respond which was strange. Should I take this as no or could she still having feelings for me.
u Unfortunately you do need to take this as a no. I don't know why you find this situation so perplexing. Do you think everyone is going to like you? She probably doesn't really even know you. You likely blend in with the other thousand customers she might see on a given day. Even if it was a hundred a day just think about how unnoticeable someone would be. Trust me I go through the same thing. I bartend part time and see hundreds of people on a given weekend. The same ones could come back the next day and it would seem like all new because I am busy working.
u "Rather than telling her I like her in person I chose to do it on Facebook so it’s less pressure on her" Instead of acting confident and assertive, you acted in a way that seems to be timid and lacking in confidence.
"and not as awkward" . . . not as awkward for you.
"but I got no response." Not a surprise. Women like men who appear to be confident and poised.
"I was very polite and expressed my feelings to her" There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy but it doesn't not score many points in the initial chase, especially with younger women.
"but she didn’t respond which was strange." Actually, it's quite understandable.
"Should I take this as no or could she still having feelings for me." Take it as a 'no.'
Honestly, I think that you think your being polite and considerate and ‘less awkward’ but in every way this seems more awkward. You’d have been better just being straight up and direct. “I hate that I only see you when your working. I’d love to get to know you better. Would you like to meet up when your not working?” or something like that. It’s confident and direct. A.) At least you know right off the bat if she’s interested. B.) It isn’t some scaredy cat way of beating around the topic.
You put the ball in her court. She declined to engage. It sucks. But that's life. Good job on trying. Maybe the next one will get some traction.
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u leave it alone...
also, lose that idea that "she could have feelings for me"
you can't assume stuff like that.. that's creepy
You talked to her in the most pussy way possible. Grow a pair and ask girls out in person. You immediately turned her off.
Possibly but don't chicken out next time. Do it in person it shows you're a confident man
Dude, don't do that shit online. It makes loom like a teenager.
It’s a “no.” Move on, there are other women.
I would not want a guy to approach me this way, but it's a no.
Wait a few days and if she still hasn’t responded then it’s time to move on
that's not a place to do that, you ask for a number
Accept it unless you have a wish to get a dawn chorus from the MeToo firing squad
Move on.
good job being brave!
its still mega awkward and get the fucking hint
I would absolutely take it as a no and move on
That's a no. I'll advise you to move on.
u Take it as a no
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