I wasn't in an official romantic relationship with her, but our bond was much deeper than friendship. However, she wasn't sure about her feelings. The reason being a significant past heartbreak in her life from the only previous relationship she had. It made her afraid of love, fearful of possibly getting hurt again.
She knows that I love her. She also cares about me a lot. However, becoming romantically involved posed a significant challenge and fear for her, as she hasn't yet healed from past wounds.
And she worries that, due to the trauma she still carries, I might end up getting hurt.
one day, she suddenly blocked me on messenger apps and Instagram. I decided to let her go and didn't react at all. A few days later, she unblocked me.
but I continued to maintain silence. I didn't send her any messages. I also didn't follow her again on instagram. I just ignored it and continued living my life.
From her perspective, it might seem like I suddenly vanished completely from her life.
After that, she doesn't follow me again but checked my Instagram every day and checked the messenger frequently.
Originally, the messenger apps that she and I primarily used were different.
I didn't use the app she used, and she was also someone who didn't use the app I used.
I used the messenger app she used to communicate with her, and occasionally, she also used the messenger app I used.
and She updated her status message, expressing sadness and melancholy, only on the messenger app that I primarily use.
she has a habit of setting all her profile pictures and status messages consistently across all the apps she uses.
She keeps an eye on me every day, but she doesn't reach out first.
What could her true feelings be?
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It sounds like she really cares about you, man. Even though she's scared of getting hurt, I don't think she's fully over you or what you had.
Blocking you like that was probably just her way of trying to protect herself in a moment of weakness. But it clearly still bothered her not having you around either.
The fact that she unblocked so quick and keeps tabs on you daily shows she's not ready to fully let go yet. And updating her sad status on the app she knows you use the most? Come on bro, that's a straight up cry for attention from you.
She wants you to reach out, validate her feelings and let her know you still care too. But she's also scared of rejection after ghosting you like that. It's a trip being into someone who's scared to commit, I know.
Keep playing it cool for now. Don't chase, but don't disappear either. Then one day she'll cave - she's just waiting for you to make the first move and take the risk for her. When she does, be gentle but let her know you're there for the long haul. Y'all got something special, don't give up yet!
This situation seems very confusing. I have so many questions too. How do you know she is aware of your love? How do you know she cares. There's no way to know if someone views your public Insta page too? Seems to me you're keeping track of her where abouts too.
If you were not romantically involved how was your relationship deeper?
I can only give my experience. I once knew someone similar to your story. The day we met there was an immediate connection. Also I had many dreams of this person and their family. It was bizarre, hid dister was warming me to stay away she seemed protective of her brother. Another dream he's parents welcomed me into the family. I once had a flash vision while we were together of a wedding ring on his finger. It came out of no where, I've had a few quick flash visions and don't understand. I've had many dreams of him, this one week I had 3 in a row. He was defending me from others who were trying to hurt me. Yet, earlier that night he acted cold and aloof! When one appears in my dreams I know there thinking about me.
Maybe there's un resolved emotions. Maybe she doesn't know how to let you go because she's never experienced such strange things like this b4. Maybe you ghosted or rejected her and she doesn't want to reach out anymore because nothing should be forced, or believes the ball is in your court.
You have to reach out yourself and ask the source. You can't always explain Feelings with Logic.
I didn't make her a ghost or reject her. She made me a ghost and initially blocked me but then unblocked me. Since then, she has been continuously watching me.
What about the other questions?