Girls, Would a girl ask a guy to hang out (hang out is go karting, which is a 1 hour car ride to get there) 1on1, because she feels bad for him?

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Me 18M and 17F. She's in high school and I started college this year. I've known this girl for 2 years. We properly hanged 1on1 for the first in July. We went go karting (which is a 1 hour car ride to get there). Her mom gave her money for 3 races which we did and after she used all the money she had left to do more races. After we raced she told me that she loved it and asked me if we could go every two weeks (I said no because it would be too expensive) she then said every month, which I accepted. The following months, I didn't expect to have so much university work in my first year, so we couldn't go go karting every month like I said. We then talked and agreed to go on her birthday in November, since she could get a free race. Then my dad asked me if I wanted to go to Italy with him and I accepted. I was in Italy during her birthday week. Then two weeks ago, she responded to one of my whatsapp status, which led to her saying this to me, "when I get money we have to go to go karting". This girl is odd. She sees every single one of my whatsaspp status, but doesn't follow me on instagram and doesn't view my stories. She knows I have almost no friends, excluding her. Is she just doing this bc she feels bad for me or she wants me to feel good? Also want to add that I fear that she could be a gold digger. She knows my dad very well and knows that my dad is a multimillionaire, since she has helped us in the company many times in the past. Everytime time we hang out I pick her up in my bmw m4.

[SueShe]

She may be a gold digger but worst, I honestly believe that you are an attention seeker, a person that likes to show off and most probably a very superficial character.

Why would you even put the name of the car in your story if it was not to seek attention and approval and validation from others?

You could have simply said that you think that you are better off financially than her and that you picked her up in your automobile rather than to say that your daddy is a multimillionaire and that you picked her up in you smaller german built car.

Now, to answer your question, no, she is not a gold digger and yes, she may feel bad for you for being the son of a millionaire.

[Arggg]

She might be a gold digger which is worse case scenario. It’s also possible that she really enjoys hanging out with you, or maybe feels pity and think she’s doing you a favor by hanging out. I’d recommend trying to figure out which one of these it is first, maybe by asking if she can pay just once or by asking to do something free, like going to the park?

[Nikki1989]

Maybe or maybe she is just using you, but then again, how would you know while you are wasting your time with texting.

[Anonymous]

Probably using you