Why are American women Like this?

[Anonymous]

I was making food in the work break room one day, and this girl just walked up to the edge of the counter, and stared at me. I don’t know anything about her. She stood there, with her hands on the counter, and asked me how I was doing once I noticed her. I said “good” only, and then she walked away. She hasn’t said anything since, but before she did this she would make it obvious that she’s staring at me, and say good morning to me everyday.
If this is case of her liking me, then why are American women like this? Why doesn’t america put pressure on American women to say how they really feel instead of trying to bait like a child? Why is there so much immense pressure for men in america to “win girls over?” Why is there so much power and social leeway for American women? Why do some American women believe that if they want a guy, then that guy owes his body to her. Why ask I suppose to let American women control me with just a simple stare. Why should I let women be able to put a massive amount of pressure on me, to talk to her, just by staring at me. Why is it seen as socially acceptable for an American woman to hurt a man for rejecting her?
Women need to understand that just because most guys around them are attracted to them, it doesn’t mean that any guy they want automatically owes them sex if they want the guy.

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How is it gay to not wanna have sex with a bunch of random women, just so you can brag about it to other men? How is it not gay to talk about nasty sexual stuff with other men?

[Anonymous]

You've got these figures, like Andrew Tate, pushing certain ideas out there, right? He's talking about how women should act, telling them to be submissive, be stay-at-home types. It's an old story, but it's still circulating, and believe me, it's having an impact. It's not just about women either. This kind of talk, it puts pressure on the guys too. They're being told not to show their emotions, to always be the leader, the alpha. It's a tough, tough standard to live up to.

Now, think about it. This kind of mindset, it's not just individual ideas floating around; it's a reflection of the broader culture. American culture, Western culture, it's got these narratives that are pushing people into certain roles, certain ways of thinking. And who's caught in the middle? Regular folks, just trying to make sense of it all.

So, back to your story in the break room. You've got this situation where a woman's acting a certain way, maybe because of these cultural scripts she's been fed. It's like she's playing a part, but maybe that's not really her. And you, you're feeling the pressure, the confusion. It's a mess, and it's because of these narratives that are out there.

But here's the deal – pointing fingers at women, or at anyone really, that's not going to fix anything. It's bigger than that. It's about challenging these toxic ideas, these stereotypes that are holding everyone back. We've got to break free from this mindset that says men have to be one way, women have to be another. It's outdated, it's not helpful, and frankly, it's time we moved past it.

We need a culture where people can be themselves, express their emotions, and not be boxed into these old, tired roles. That's how we start fixing things, by changing the narrative, by understanding that these pressures – they're not just personal, they're cultural. And once we recognize that, we can start making real progress.

[Wallythewalrus2]

you can’t be serious? This is one of those infantile questions! “Um, duh a girl said um, hi to me. Why duh doesn’t she just admit um, she wants me”? Do you actually go through life thinking every girl that looks your way or says “good morning” to you is in love with you? Because that is exactly how you are framing your question. If you don’t think that way, then you shouldn’t have used your personal experience as an example.

[Asker]

Lmao I’m not assuming that she liked me, that’s just one out of an infinite possibilities. Whatever intention she had was definitely malicious, because I didn’t even know her prior to her greeting me, and she didn’t explain what was going on.

[_Maya_]

Brush. Ignore her then. Who says you have to chase or give her attention. She's living rent free in your head apparently. You also make a huge generalization. I'm American and I don't do this shit. Now let's move onto what else you say.

"Women need to understand that just because most guys around them are attracted to them, it doesn’t mean that any guy they want automatically owes them sex if they want the guy."

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Holy shit dude. Talk about getting that backwards lmao. What would do you live in? Using men for sex? Good lord this is hilarious to me. Thanks for the laugh.

[Asker]

The problem is that simps and a lot of women are using psuedoscience to pressure men into having sex, who wouldn’t have done it otherwise. Nobody cares about dudes and women hooking up together, it’s just annoying when these same dudes and women try to bring us down just because we’re not validating their insecurities.
The simps base a big portion of their life on impressing their friends, family, and random women; a lot of women base a big portion of their life to validating that they’re pretty, ignoring the fact that pretty/ugly are opinions.

Simps and a lot of American women are scared to death of the thought of someone thinking that they’re ugly.

[_Maya_]

Da fuq you talking about? Take a look at the quote I took from your post and address that. The one about girls thinking guys owe sex lol.

[Asker]

I mean it’s true. A lot of women are used to most guys around them finding them attractive, and therefore being able to “get” any guy they want, not with their words like an adult, but just by simply staring at them.
Since you’re saying that American women don’t think like this, do you agree that a man in america, can still feel like a proud man, even if he’s a virgin on his deathbed? Surely an anerican woman can still be cool with a man, even if he plans on being a virgin on his deathbed.

[celeste01]

I think you're putting far too much thought into this interaction. Maybe she was staring at you waiting for the right time to greet you. Maybe or maybe not.

From your post it seems that you have had negative interactions with women in the past hence, you make huge generalisations about American women. Furthermore, you assume she is into you, merely because she is being friendly.

I suggest you go outside for a nice walk, hopefully seeing nature and getting vitamin D from the sun will clear your mind so you can focus on the things in your life that matter.

[Anonymous]

Since this question is “baiting like a child” why are you doing it?

[Anonymous]

Maybe she's just friendly and doesn't want you?

[Asker]

Maybe she didn’t want me but it definitely wasn’t friendly. Let’s be real, all she did was stand there and say “how are you doing,” then walked away after I said “good hbu?” Then hasn’t said anything to me since. If that’s not a sign of her liking me, which it very well may not be, then what is it? Because it’s definitely malicious

[Opinion Owner]

Lol all you said was good. You sound closed off like you don't want to make a conversation.

[Asker]

All I said was “good” because that’s all she asked me. Was I suppose to be a simp, take the bait and start a conversation with her?
This is what I mean. Why shouldn’t she be the one who starts the conversation if she’s the one who wanted the conversation to begin with?

[Opinion Owner]

Um no. That's how normal people have conversations start conversations with each other whether or not they are romantically interested in them. I think she's not even romantically interested and you're overthinking it.

[Asker]

If that’s how “normal” people start conversations, then I guess cowardice and childish are the new normal. An adult way of making a friend is to greet them and start a conversation with them, not baiting like a scared insecure little kid.
She may not have been interested in me, but whatever she had in mind was malicious, because anything you have to bait to get isn’t for you.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you have a resting bitch face and she was scares to approach you?

[Asker]

Why don’t want women just approach guys that they aren’t scared to approach, and will actually take their bait? Instead of annoying good honest men with their disingenuous bs.

[Opinion Owner]

Um I think she was just trying to be a friendly coworker but you're too antisocial