So there’s this pretty girl I often see at my job. She seems quiet. I see her talk to a few people but it’s mainly people in her department. She doesn’t seem mean or as though she has an attitude. More like, she’s just to herself. I got the courage to stop her and actually speak to her today. She was accepting when I told her my name and reached my hand out for her to shake my hand. She told me her name and I then died I never got the chance to actually speak to her and get to know her. Her response was “I don’t talk too much anyway. I’m pretty quiet but it’s nice to meet you.” And we went our separate ways. Was that just a nice way of blowing me off?
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Hmm that's a tricky one bro. A few possibilities based on what you said:
- She could genuinely be a more quiet, reserved type of person. Not everyone is super chatty right away.
- Her comment about being quiet could just be explaining her personality style, not really a blow off.
- At the same time, saying that without much other response isn't the most encouraging sign either.
- It's possible she was politely trying to keep the interaction brief since she doesn't know you yet.
My advice - don't take it personally either way for now. She was friendly enough shaking your hand and saying nice to meet you.
Next time you see her, throw her a smile and see how she reacts. If she seems receptive, you could try chatting her up a bit more.
But don't force it - let it be a slow, natural thing. Some girls just open up over time. Play it cool for now and see what happens. Keep me posted bro!
Yes, it was a very diplomatic way to tell you that she is not interested in you and that you should keep your distance in the future.
I mean, what was the ultimate motive for you to address a total stranger that you would normally never interact with?
The fact that you mention that she is a pretty girl leads me to believe that your ultimate motive is not so noble after all. You though that you could possibly get a little closer to her and then, if things work out for you, take it a step further and we all know what this step is all about.
She clearly indicated where her boundary was and you should respect that boundary.