Look into my eyes! Guys why do you do this?

[milfinmaking]

Ha! I want to know why guys want to stare into a woman's eyes while having relations ...it makes me a little uncomfortable...and my guy literally demands it..it kinda scares me and I'm not sure why.

[scott63a]

That's how a lot of people connect during sex. I had a girlfriend that felt like the act was "dirty" unless we were gazing into each others eyes during sex. Been with others that liked it, but it wasn't necessary. As well as one that I could not ever look into her eyes during because that made her feel uncomfortable.

[scar1]

i would only do it if I liked her and that's how most guys are, why? because its more intimate. that's funny that is makes you uncomfortable

[milfinmaking]

Ah just a question...and observation...it makes me feel strange

[scar1]

especially at your age I would think you would want to connect more

[kittykett]

I love it when my boyfriend looks into my eyes during sex. It creates a deep connection that turns sex into making love! Maybe you just aren't on that level with him yet...

[Arwens-Fire]

I would think he's asking that of you for a deeper connection,why does it make you uncomfortable?Do you fear intimacy?

[acka72]

I would freak out if he didn't look into my eyes. I think you have serious intimacy issues.

[milfinmaking]

probably so...this relationship has limits that have been defined and I would like to make sure it stays that way...you may not understand but if you lived the life I have you would :)

[acka72]

Girl, I'm sorry. If you want to talk about it you can write to me.

[scar1]

thats terrible that cuts out so many awesome positions

[milfinmaking]

Maybe later I will change my mind but for now I need simplicity.

[Habakkuk]

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=O-nsdJL1_kY&list=FLHkH94Ml5zdk1j9XohMxolQ&index=2&feature=plpp_video

watch that video until you get 15 seconds in

[milfinmaking]

Haha but not really helpful...

[Habakkuk]

did you see the first part of that video? your title made me do it

[MyThoughts]

haha nicceee lol "look into my eyeess"

[Habakkuk]

YOU WILL SEE! :D

[Kevvy]

That is a good thing, its kinda like looking into a girls heart, you feel closer to them than you would otherwise.

[baliguy11]

I thought girls wanted this as part of intimacy. Ok. I could close my eyes and think about kyle minogue but you do not want that either probably.

[milfinmaking]

ok I think I'm getting that it is about being with that person in that moment...which is OK and I don't know why it weirds me out it just does..I feel like he's looking into the depths of my soul I guess

[baliguy11]

well the eyes are special. Maybe do some stuff in the dark so you are more comfortable. Or tell him how you feel.

[milfinmaking]

lol OK or maybe I will just give in to it...never know I might learn something...