My boyfriend is sneaky?

[Anonymous]

hey guys. what's up?

so, here is my story. things that are weird to me. my boyfriend have 2 mobile phones. the 1st one he puts on the table and that stuff. when he was a sleep I watched in his wallet. I found out that he have a second number. I went away and called that number. when I was back he was awake and tolled me that he wake up because he heard the door. I don't believe him. his second phone was hidden and when I called that number the phone went on. why the f*** is he hiding that phone. it doesn't feel good.

what I want too in his wallet was a memory card of a camera. why the hack is that thing doing in his wallet?

my guts tells me that he is doing things behind my back. he tells me that my gut feeling is wrong and that stupid stuff.

what the hack is going on here? he won't answer my questions.

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+1 y

if that is for a job... why hiding it? why lieng why he wake up?

[MrOracle]

He's definitely hiding something. If this other phone was for his job, he'd have it out on the table too, and couldn't care less if you saw it. He's hiding it because he has something to hide.

Now, it may be that what he has to hide is something that you don't care about anyway, but it also may be something that you'd get seriously upset about. Either way, the fact that he's keeping secrets is a big red flag. If he won't come clean, I'd break up with him and move on.

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

If you don't feel satisfied by his answers, then you need to tell him so.

Sneaking around and going through his stuff is wrong though, no matter what he may or may not be doing.

If you mistrust him that badly, you should not be involved with him.

By not confronting the issues you have with him, and sneaking around, you're acting just as bad as you suspect of him.

[Asker]

i'm asking him to be honest with me. cause I don't tallorate dishonesty and secrets and telling lies in my relationship. I'm asking him now one year and 8 months what the hell is going on here. I tolled him how I'm feeling that he is lying so much and that stuff.

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

And as I said, you sneaking around is lowering yourself to his acts of mistrust. So if you want to actually deal with the problem you will tell him that you're not satisfied with his answers rather than going through his property to find the answers you think are there.

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

Why did you post this question twice?

[antonlikesmlb]

He probably needs it for a job or something.