I look like I'm 16.. but I'm 20

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Trust me, I do. It's because I have small boobs (AA) and an overall petite figure. I do wear normal clothes, nothing too colorful. Skinny jeans and a nice white top with lace, that's what I'm wearing now. I wear a moderate amount of make-up.

I also have a high pitched voice, which could be irritating. And I'm quite spontaneous, I like to joke around and stuff. I don't giggle a lot though.

My concerns are that guys my age think I come across as too young, and so they don't want to date me.

Would you date a girl who looks like she's a lot younger then she really is?

TheDigitalSaint · Accepted Answer

I think it is very attractive when a girl looks younger than her age. Men are attracted to high-pitched voices in women. I'm going to give you some advice though. Make sure you point out that you're going to college when you get in a conversation with guys. That way even if you look like you're just a little girl, they actually know that you're a young woman. There have been times when I've been hitting on a girl and not been 100% sure if she's underaged or not.

The best way to find out the truth is to ask what school she goes to casually. If she says a high school, well, it was nice talking and that was that. If she says xyz college, then I can go forward. As a girl who looks younger than her age, I suggest casually dropping in the conversation that you're going to college. If you aren't going to college, mention you graduated from xyz high school, so they know that you are at least 18-19 and not feel like they are hitting on jailbait.

TheUglyOne · Accepted Answer

I'm married to one, considering whenever we go out with the daughter, people think my wife is her daughter's sister rather than her mother. The daughter hates that, but we're both flattered. I was amused in particular when we visited the daughter's school, and a lady there said "both your daughters are beautiful".

On another note, a British friend of my was dating a very short 20 year old Indonesian woman, and when they were getting intimate, he said she was completely smooth down there, between her small size and no hair he thought she was more 12 years old, and he completely freaked out. She had to take him to her parents to reassure him she really was 20, and even then he could never get comfortable enough to make love to her. So be prepared for that too.

udolipixie · Accepted Answer

Would you date a girl who looks like she's a lot younger then she really is?

Most likely as guys would date her because she looks a lot younger than she really is since most guys prefer younger gals hence why a gal above 30 attractive is only considered attractive if she looks much younger than her age.

"My concerns are that guys my age think I come across as too young, and so they don't want to date me."

LMFAO most guys would probably date you if they thought you were 16 as the teenage age rrange seems most attractive to guys.

squeakers · Accepted Answer

Count your blessings. At least you look younger than your age, and won't look 40 when you're 30.

This happens to me all the time.

I was working the freshman orientation club fair at my college the other day. One of the tour groups tried to take me away from my booth because they thought I was 17 and a freshman too. They were surprised when I said "I'm a 4th year, and just turned 21 -_- "

kheserthorpe · Answer

By 25, it'll be a huge advantage for the rest of your life. You're already hitting the age where its kind of a mixed plus/minus. It probably sucked in your teens.  But they're over. Enjoy it.

latebloomer87 · Answer

I'm sure if you are legal then it is all well and good haha.

Anonymous · Answer

Would I date this type of girl? Sure.

Anonymous · Answer

probably

I look like I'm 16.. but I'm 20

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