I notice that men tend to use women for sex , women tend to use men for money. I am currently creating a male version about this which will be different in approach. We cannot ignore the fact that some situations are gender specific.
Also, based on my observation with this site it has been most blatant to see that women tend to ask questions pertaining to being used (rarely have I seen men cry about this issue). I wanted to help those girls. This is my reasons for acknowledging mostly that gender in this take.
I still acknowledged that men go through this. I know advice is universal.
I'm good. I refuse to let sex control me. Guys are dumb to initiate, beg for, do things for sex. I rather let women pursue me because I know for a fact that I won't have a hidden agenda or take advantage when I find out a woman might like me
Superb, so beautifully written. I appreciate your work. Very good pictures, reality in the words. So nice. And a good message for women. specially teenagers. :)
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In terms of "using" , in my experience; I have seen more of women using men than men using women.
Each sex does it in different ways. From my experience , I've seen women do it for money and men do it with sex. Whether which gender does it more is solely based on perception. There really is no accuracy only opinion based.
OK. Some men who want women only for sex, are successful in putting some dumb-ass women in vicious cycles. Most of the time; if you fall in love with a woman you are f*cked (ironic). It is not only about money. She has the power to make you miserable and she doesn't hesitate to use it.
Oh sorry gur.. u dnt know how easy to convince a gur to show magic. .. it's only about words... actions times is over... girls got needs as we do.. we only remind em about it... Do u think it's easy to say no? oh no!
it's only hot guy who are on position that CAN use girls. Average joes can't use girls, even if they would want to. All crying, drama, moaning and complying about 'being used' refers to (very) attractive guys and that's by definition less that 10% of population.
The word "hot" is objective. If you're speaking about physical attraction, its normal for people to get together and have some type of desire for one another. If you're talking about supermodels or playgirl looking men walking around , then I have to disagree with you. Your percentage seems made up by yourself. An average guy has the ability to do this. I know someone who is unattractive who has a lot of women in his life, just because he knows how to speak to women. Whether someone gets used or not, goes beyond how physically attractive they appear (although they may help in some cases).
Speaking for myself I could write one for well hung black men and just use what you wrote. How does this sound? "MANDINGOS do not let yourself be used by white whores looking for BBC as they will only break your heart after they get what they want and run back to their husbands"? :(
The more I read comments from a majority of male users the more you are proving yourselves illiterate and that you haven't the ability to read. Your own ignorance is your curtain and you are exactly the nasty men I describe.
"Some" men have bad intentions. These are guidelines how to stay away from them. The only men I see getting offended are those who fit this description.
@BaileyisDarcy reading some of your takes and responses on here , I don't exactly expect you to get it either. You aren't exactly the smartest or most knowledgeable member on here.
"Some" doesn't mean all. But in your very limiting vocabulary I can see how it does.
Upon speaking with the men on here, I've come to the realization that their defense has nothing to do with my take. But more so, the bashing that they feel they tend to get from the opposite sex. They enter into mytake with already built up aggression and aren't truly trying to see the message I am sending because even before reading, their defense mechanism is already up.
Mature response. I'm pretty sure you didn't even read this take judging by your lack of ability to maintain being focused and comprehend. Don't worry hooked on phonics can't work for everyone
If you're trying to rile me up it isn't going to work. I'm aware I'm not the brightest person here, I'm also aware that you have eleven years of experience on me (I'm eighteen in a few short months, so no, my math has not failed me). My knowledge may not exceed yours (in terms of experience. I may very well be more book smart) but I can still tell when something sounds like all.
I'm not saying the word some sounds like all. I'm saying the way you wrote this take sounds like you're talking about all men. That might not have been your intention, but that's the way it came out.
And I do know what the word sexist means by the way. It's to have prejudice or to discriminate against a gender and/or sex. And no, I did not just look that up.
I don't get why the moment you think somebody is disagreeing with you, you feel the need to go and insult them.
@BaileyisDarcy What does misspelling a word and then later on correcting it have to do with anything? Have you never made an error in your life? If not, then you can't possibly be human. Look I was your age once, and way smarter than you will ever be in your life time. Some people are naturally smarter than others. You're jumping on a bandwagon with guys who are calling me out for being "sexist". It's funny when I made a take talking about the negative choices women make, no one had a thing to say. A majority of the gag community likes to label any one sexist and you're right along with them. You have no real argument, just useless facts and finger pointing. You also fail to interpret an article that was written in simple language. I'm pretty sure you scrolled through the comments, before you even decided to write anything. You are a commenter that tends to take on the mold of others because you don't have your own mind. You are weak. And I will not take criticism from someone who has
no real arguments, just ignorant labeling. Why would I listen to someone who does not even know me and is calling me sexist because I decided to use the word "Some" in my article. I didn't even generalize. Yet you call me things I am not. You can't even give constructive criticism. You're not disagreeing with me, You are insulting me. That I WILL NOT and DO NOT have to take. If you want to try to make a "point" try to do so without forming a name for me when you don't even know me from a hole in the wall. Even if you were trying to make a point, it'd be a poor one because no where in my article did I even generalize and state that women do not do the same thing. I EVEN mentioned men are victims to this as well.
Okay, not once did I call YOU sexist, I simply stated that your take came across as such.
I have not once insulted you, where have I insulted you? If I have then I apologise.
And the misspell is just me being a dick. I pride myself on my spelling so I find it amusing when others make mistakes. Does that make me a bitch? Yes. Do I care? No. Because it's one of the few things that I'm a bitch about.
How exactly are you able to tell me that I couldn't tell you from a hole in the wall, then proceed to pretend you could?
You're making it out as though I'm an idiot, which I know I'm not. There is no evidence to back up your statement that you are smarter than I'll ever be. You don't know me, and I don't know you, so how can you claim that you're smarter than I am? I never claimed to be smarter than you are so I don't even know why you brought it up.
Anyway, I need to get to school. So if you wish to continue arguing with me, I'm happy to do so once I get home.
@BaileyisDarcy Don't try to act like you have a life when you've been lounging around here for a while. You didn't like when I started to act like I know you, OR did you like when I started to assume personal characteristic traits about you. You got a bit defensive there. See, how that feels? If you want to be treated with respect you have to do the same to others. Acknowledging that men go through the same thing which I stated, and also saying "Some" men are that way, is not being sexist. I think you need to read up and do research on that topic before you can even fathom how powerful that word is, and what is really means (beyond a definition). By you casually throwing around words that have powerful meaning , and not understanding its impact is how I can tell that you lack intelligence.
You're pretty much reading comments prior to yours and jumping on a bandwagon with others. Your response has no individuality. People like that get no respect from me.
true, this is so helpful for men not to get cheated by girls from using us mainly our money because some girls say the real man stands on his legs and pay for ne everytine becase i aem a girl so i want special treat and agian says i am independentet. how? h
My response was only a test. I solely wanted to see who would target me if I said something negative. To my surprise , it's men who have negative intents. Who targets men with offensive and trollish behavior? No one sinc the trolls unite.
They are getting offended because I said I only understand English. No one discussed your points.
And like I said, this was written for women because based on my observation that is the gender I see speaking the most about this issue. This has nothing to do with being a woman and reeling privileged. Men go through this as well
they talk about the English to show you the truth behind my words. you can see woman problems because if amen complained everyone say why you compliant this much but if a girl do it people say oh! sad. so they do more complaints and you saw it more.
you answered mine! common you down voted mine and i am talking about girls not individuals and you know what i said is true. if something is true people have to accept it regardless of gender.
girlsaskguys. com/dating/a21702-the-i-m-a-nice-guy-card? fp=true see this then you will understand but if this is happened to a girl then guys try to help her but if a guy compliant...
It looks like you're getting used by the men on this site. Falling prey to all the trolls and showing people how easily you can get riled up. The best way to deal with a troll is to ignore them because they get bored easy.
Yeah you could have just gotten rid of the gender specifics and it'd be still as much as true but I guess women think this is their issue not everyones issue.
Oh you mean the massive amounts of things guys do against girls for like 90% of the take and then the one small tid bit about it happening to guys as well at the very end? Yeah, ok...
You scrolled right down to the bottom and commented in less than a few seconds of me posting this. All of the things you say hold no credibility. You sound plain ignorant. I am advising from a female perspective to another female because the reality of it is, a woman's scenario isn't always the same as a MAN. Some situations are unique gender wise.
I skimmed and read through the key points to see if actually taking my full time to read was worth it or if it was going to be another B. S. take. Can't help but notice you didn't have a problem with that one poster agreeing with your take...
"Skimming" is not the same thing as reading. I am sure you know that. So then again, you verify my point , YOU DID NOT READ.
The other gender actually commented on the take itself rather than something irrelevant to the topic. My intentions are good, and I am only posting this to HELP people. I clearly acknowledged men go through this too. What more would you like from me? The average user doesn't even do that.
Just throwing in a little thing at the end about how men "can be used as well." is not inclusive. You just wanted to make a take about how women need to be wary of men and then you throw in like two sentences saying it happens to men too to make it seem like it's even. Sorry but 90% talking about how men can be bad and then spend 10% saying that men can have it happen to them as well (funny how you now don't talk about it being women doing things to men and just keep it vague) is not inclusive. All you did is just reinforce the stereotype of women being selfish and thinking they're issues matter more than mens. This isn't a gender issue it's a people issue but YOU made it a gender issue whether you recognize it or not.
You are the stereotypical gag member who labels everything sexist. Although I clearly didn't generalize in my take and stated "some men" do this and not "all" that is not enough for you. I even stated to you , that some experience are unique according to gender. So even If I tried to use a males perspective it would not fit accordingly to what I am speaking about. I even acknowledged that men go through this. But still as a stereotypical member everything must be sexist.
If me labeling "some" and not "all" men can lie and manipulate And if me also acknowledging that women aren't only victims men can be mistreated as well. then I guess I am sexist then. I do not need an entire take to let it be known how I feel about both sides
I definitely don't label everything sexist. This should have been about a sex thing to begin with but you turned it into one. And you keep saying "I even acknowledged that men go through this." despite the fact I told you how that's not actually including the men. It would have been better to not say anything at all about men then to spend 10% of your take on them as if that somehow makes it happening to both. You shouldn't have put gender identifiers at any point in this take to begin with. It's almost like an insult to just make it 90% about women and then like 2 sentences about men as if you're just mocking us and also using it as a way to appear not sexist. It would have been better if you didn't mention men at all then to VERY BRIEFLY include them. If you're gonna be sexist either own it or don't do it at all. Don't make takes like this and then play possum when someone sniffs out the bs.
I live in the real world where things do not have invisible labels. I guess this website shouldn't be named girlsaskguys. com and instead should be guysaskgirls. com , or why any for that matter? Since labeling and acknowledging genders is so wrong? Acknowledging what is there allow growth in a person. By choosing not to acknowledge that holds a blind eye and makes someone unaware. As a woman I will not hold a blind eye to this issue and act as if all situations according to gender can be blended. And that there is no such thing as a gender specific scenario. Too bad this bothers you. You are far too sensitive.
And while you're busy quoting me, you might want to spend most of your site on a homepage that doesn't include any genders since it's so offensive and sexist. How about advice. com?
I was simply saying that my issue with this take was that you spent 90% of it bashing men and then you spent the last 10% saying men "can be used as well." At no point did I accuse you of saying that "all" men were those things you spent the majority of your take saying some men did bad things. I know you said "some" men but that was never what I was arguing with you about. My problem was just with this take you did spend the "majority" (notice how you've accused me of saying you spent all of the take bashing men when I said most of it, so keep the hypocrisy in check) of it bashing men (doesn't matter if it's some or all).
Again, reading comprehension skills have failed. I did not bash men anywhere in this take, I simply stated ways for women to be alert and aware of situations they are in, in order to not allow themselves to be used. The fact of the matter there are good and bad men out there. And if a woman allows herself to be taken advantage of, she will. I WROTE this take to women because based on my observations with GAG I've seen mostly women post questions about being taken advantage of. I specify wanted to HELP them. I also acknowledged that men go through this as well because I knew there would be ignorant people like you turning this into a battle of the sexes (which it is not). Whether I wanted to write this take for women or not has nothing to do with anything. Many people in life, make songs dedicated to men or women (specifically). There's even books written by women --to women. Books written by men---to men. Is the entire world sexist? Get real!
You've been bashing every guys reading comprehension that has disagreed with you despite the fact you yourself haven't actually been paying attention to what people were actually saying to you and you even said to one person "Notice the decent men didn't get offended." YOUR reading comprehension is the one that needs to be worked on. You're refusing to respectfully let others disagree with your take and insult anyone that differs from your opinion. That's extreme bigotry. Don't you find it odd it's mostly men taking offense to your take? You say you made this mostly for women because women are the ones that voice their concerns here about issues. But do you ever wonder why? Because a lot of men are afraid to open up because people like you will call them over sensitive like you called me when I told you some flaws in your take. Your pride is blinding you from seeing that you are in fact, bashing men.
There was only one user that disagreed with me, who I didn't "bash". He didn't have the same aggressive tone as the others. And he didn't have the implication that I am sexist. He also didn't assume I was talking about "every" man like pretty much all of the guys did. Perhaps, if male users took the same approach as him I would have better listened to or respected their opinion. But if someone is going to come at me in a hostile manner and draw non-existing facts from my article that I never stated, then I will speak to those people with respect.
"He also didn't assume I was talking about "every" man like pretty much all of the guys did. "
Once again at no point anywhere in any of my posts did I say you said every man does the things in this take. You're drawing non-existent arguments to put in my mouth and then debunk.
Like I said, "some" guys assumed I was speaking about "all" men. And others assume I was being "sexist". You fall into the category of accusing me of being sexist. How would one not take offence to that? By comparing how much of this article I dedicated to women and then how much I did for men? What conclusion do u think u are drawing?
I was saying that most of this wasn't gender specific but you did in fact make it gender specific. You specifically went into things girls should watch out for men that in reality anyone can do to anyone. Then just said at the end that guys have problems too as if it exonerated the fact they were left out of everything else that also happens to them.
If you're familiar with me as a commenter, or any of my mytakes you will see I don't exclude genders: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11510-the-girl-who-cried-rape . At times, I tend to make takes dedicated to a certain gender, If I notice things about that gender on this site. For example: Through years observation of being on here, I have noticed women sharing their experiences of being used or taken advantage of by men. For that reason, I decided to dedicate a take for them. People do it all of the time. Just look at Authors and music. There is nothing wrong with that. I acknowledge both sexes go through the same thing. It's just that I wanted to help all those women out there... who aren't at their best. The advice can go for men too (which is why I included them as well).
With the link I am showing you, I've also noticed women on this site claiming they were raped in situations where they weren't. I always try to call out both genders if I have to. I am not even close to being sexist and resent that.
I guess a point I was trying to make (or at least I was thinking about because I am guilty of not actually saying it out loud) is just takes like the majority of what this one was are said all the time. "Some men do these horrible things to women and men also do these things to women." Men just hear constantly about how they do horrible things to women that it just begins to sound like a broken record. We hear nothing new and being pinned as the villain is also something not new but having it thrown in our faces just makes us jaded and insensitive to womens issues because we generally don't like to help or care about those that spit in our faces. I'm not saying that's what your take is or what it was doing but seeing the title and then reading through this take is not something that men are unfamiliar with seeing.
I understand where you are coming from. I also understand the back lash from men I am getting. They truly aren't seeing this article for what it is. They are just seeing it as one of the many articles that bash men. And that was not my intent, and I made it clear. I'm getting all of the bash lashed due to peoples built up emotions on topics. I don't think that is fair to me. Like I said, I call out both genders: in the link I showed you I exposed my own gender for crying rape in certain instances. If people read this article for what it really is, and do not bring their already built up emotions, they will see my intentions are good, I am not generalizing, or being "sexist", I am simply trying to help women because I've observed women needing help on this site with this issue. ((Men can be helped as well was stated in this article)). It may be nothing new what I am saying, but often times when women are wrapped up in their world... they don't see these things (They need to be reminded
90 percent of men here are ignorant and are trolls. That is all you can proving here. You're making yourself look bad because u pretty much sum up the men I describe Don't blame me for that either
I'm not making myself look bad, I'm calling out your unnecessarily incendiary writing tactic.
I'm not wrong, that's a dick way to start an article. Any writer worth a damn can tell you that your first sentence *is* 90% of what people are going to judge your work by. You're clearly not a stupid person, so I'm not sure why you're getting so upset about this.
So instead of getting upset, maybe take it with a grain of salt, or try to learn something from it.
Look, I'm not going to argue over what you think I meant. The people that are able to read and interpret are able to see my very clear message. Since you fail to do so, offense is taken.
You shouldn't only read first line. Read what is followed by it. Any good reader would be able to do that.
I am not getting upset, I am voicing my opinions like you are.
I just posted this less than 2 minutes ago. I am sure you didn't read a word of what a wrote. Please actually read, and then comment. You will see that I included both sexes in this take.
Clearly, you didn't because you posted within a few seconds of me putting this up. Female scenarios are sometimes unique gender wise. This is why I wrote this for women. But I also acknowledged the fact that this does happen to men too. I am advising every one to take precaution. Why do you feel you have to argue with me about with what I wanted MY take be titled.
Coming here to argue over what someone wanted to title their own take makes you look like you lack intelligence. Instead see the BIGGER picture of why I wrote this and actually read next time.
More like three minutes, not a few seconds. Doesn't take that long to read some lines. Arguing wasn't my intent. I just asked a question. You started the arguing assuming that I didn't read it
Fine. I lack intelligence. Whatever. I reaally don't care what you think. No. I didn't read it. Believe what you want. Not everyone has trouble reading. Did I insult anyone? No. Really shows your maturity level.
I am dedicating this to all dirtbags out there, mal and female. If you're not one of them, why take offense to something as small as a title? And I am calling it how I see it, not insulting you.
Some men are just assholes and it's not because women allow them to be. You never said the same thing about women to men who are used you never said women treat men the way men allow them to. You just blame the women
All I am saying to women is for them not to allow themselves to be used by men that are assholes. As stated in my article , I did state you cannot control how someone treats you but what you can control is how you react to the situation.
"You never said the same thing about women to men who are used..." Not sure what you mean, but I did acknowledge men go through using if you read my entire article.
"women treat men the way men allow them to" that was the emphasis of this entire article. I stated that numerous times which was displayed in the first line and quotes.
You only blamed women! How come you did not tell men at the end of the article that "men allow women to treat men the way women allow them to" What part of that don't you understand
You don't know what you are talking about because you don't know what you are writting about. I know that you acknowledged men being used im just saying you blamed women for being used by men when you were talking about women: https://oi61.tinypic.com/o78uhj.jpg Also you are clearly blaming women for assholes who mistreat them. These men started off as nice most likely. This quote you made clearly blames women too: https://oi62.tinypic.com/5mzokj.jpg So you are saying its a woman's fault if a man has secret affairs with other women? You are saying the women elicit behavior to get this. Just keep in mind that with your advice if a guy beats you or cusses at you you are saying its your fault then
Originally in my article, I told women not to allow themselves to be used. By discussing all of what women go through, and then acknowledging that men can also be victims of this. It is clear to see that I addressed that my advice can go both ways. You're the one that doesn't understand that point. I made a connection towards the end that BOTH sexes go through the same ordeals. But can you get that? No, because in your mind you are trying to create a sexist war. Perhaps you should have been born a man. "Also you are clearly blaming women for assholes who mistreat them." Yes, women too can be blamed. If you allow a man to cheat, use and abuse you (and you are well aware of everything taking place) and you continue to stay, should you not also be blamed? According to you, there is no such thing as responsibility for ones own behavior. There's only finger pointing.
If someone is having a secret affair... that's something you don't know about. That's a completely different scenario
I think you could have done better to address both sexes. I'm not sure why you are upset with my opposing opinion. There really was no need for you to be rude. Why should I have to be born a man to deal with equality. I believe that people should take responsibility for their actions. There was no reason for you to act like a bitch. I read the article you wrote
I deliberately wanted to address this to women because based on my observation with this site, Women are the ones mostly complaining about men using them. I've been on here for years, so I have observed many of the same questions coming from a certain gender. If I observed that fact with men, I would have included both in this article. This was written for women---to women. I acknowledged men go through this as well (because I know there are some that can relate). If a woman writes a song, book for a woman... should she condemned? If a man writes a song, book for men to relate to... should he also be condemned? I am allowed to post an article to help a specific gender if that is what I want to do. That is my choice. I am taking offense because you are telling me what I should have done in my own take.
I'm giving my opinion on what you should have done with your take. I'm not going to apologize for what me telling you what you should have done. This site is posted for opinions.
I don't need your apology. Nor do you have the right to tell me who I wanted to dedicate my entire take to. I guess while you're criticizing me... you should also try to put authors and singers out of business who write things solely to a certain gender.
I don't see how that is wrong. Your criticism is useless. If you were actually making a good point, I'd maybe agree with you. But what you are saying is absolutely ridiculous.
I think you are being too sensitive and rude. I have a different opinion than you. If you don't like it that's your prerogative. It's not my fault you can't take opposing opinions well. I never tried to tell you who to dedicate your take too. You sound ridiculous. Ok your opinion is useless to me too so I'm not sure why we are even having this conversation :)
You keep replying to my post and putting words in my mouth and typing things I never said. I never asked you to care about my opinion. I'm not sure why you keep telling me that.
You came into my territory when you decided to post your preposterous opinion. I will keep responding because you are in MY post. Now that we both have established that I don't care... perhaps we should move on!
Lets see you're going to continue to keep this going like a 3 year old kid? What else could I expect from a hypocrite!! Yes, I'll tell someone to grow up. But in fact, I'm still wearing pull ups. Get over yourself!
You are trying too hard to pretend not to be pissed off lol You are the one who is acting childish kid. Telling me that a public website is your terrifying sounds very childish to me. Look at the pot calling the kettle black
I kept trying to end it with you but you refuse to let it go. I told you lets just agree to disagree. I didn't ask you about your mood and I never said you were sad but you keep telling me you are happy when all I was trying to do is be the bigger person
I created this article so it is my territory. I welcomed your opinion. But you should also welcome my response. You're trying criticizing me because I dedicated this to women. I don't see how that's a problem. People do that in every day , in all different aspects of the real world. You're calling me childish... you're continuing on with the behavior you deem as non-sense. I really don't get it.
It's sad how men are the biggest haters here. Clearly I said "some" men are this way and not "all). Only a man who is the scumbag I speak of (a woman user) would take offense to this. I also mentioned men have to deal with this too but u probably didn't read everything
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Shouldn't this just be called: People, don't let other people use you? Literally none of these are woman problems.
I notice that men tend to use women for sex , women tend to use men for money. I am currently creating a male version about this which will be different in approach. We cannot ignore the fact that some situations are gender specific.
Also, based on my observation with this site it has been most blatant to see that women tend to ask questions pertaining to being used (rarely have I seen men cry about this issue). I wanted to help those girls. This is my reasons for acknowledging mostly that gender in this take.
I still acknowledged that men go through this. I know advice is universal.
I'm good. I refuse to let sex control me. Guys are dumb to initiate, beg for, do things for sex. I rather let women pursue me because I know for a fact that I won't have a hidden agenda or take advantage when I find out a woman might like me
Superb, so beautifully written. I appreciate your work.
Very good pictures, reality in the words. So nice.
And a good message for women. specially teenagers. :)
In terms of "using" , in my experience; I have seen more of women using men than men using women.
Each sex does it in different ways.
From my experience , I've seen women do it for money and men do it with sex.
Whether which gender does it more is solely based on perception. There really is no accuracy only opinion based.
OK. Some men who want women only for sex, are successful in putting some dumb-ass women in vicious cycles. Most of the time; if you fall in love with a woman you are f*cked (ironic). It is not only about money. She has the power to make you miserable and she doesn't hesitate to use it.
Has this happened to you? You seem to be speaking from a personal stand point. Just wondering.
No matter who uses who , it is a vicious ugly cycle that needs to be broken.
Oh sorry gur.. u dnt know how easy to convince a gur to show magic. .. it's only about words... actions times is over... girls got needs as we do.. we only remind em about it...
Do u think it's easy to say no? oh no!
Nothing is easy in life.
But this take goes beyond just a simple "no" it's about recognizing when people are out to use u and taking control of that situation.
Great take, totally perfect 🏆
Sorry you have to keep repeating yourself and have stupid people troll xD they can't help it
Lol :)
Damn Stacy, all ya had to say is "give him sex, food and be fun will win him over." Men really don't want much from women lol.
Or, you can do what I do and become an atheist nun. No more problems.
The correct title is: Ladies, Don't Allow Hot Guys To Use You!
Um, no definitely not what I was going for.
People can be used by any body of any physical appearance.
it's only hot guy who are on position that CAN use girls. Average joes can't use girls, even if they would want to. All crying, drama, moaning and complying about 'being used' refers to (very) attractive guys and that's by definition less that 10% of population.
The word "hot" is objective.
If you're speaking about physical attraction, its normal for people to get together and have some type of desire for one another. If you're talking about supermodels or playgirl looking men walking around , then I have to disagree with you. Your percentage seems made up by yourself.
An average guy has the ability to do this.
I know someone who is unattractive who has a lot of women in his life, just because he knows how to speak to women. Whether someone gets used or not, goes beyond how physically attractive they appear (although they may help in some cases).
LOL WOW
Speaking for myself I could write one for well hung black men and just use what you wrote. How does this sound? "MANDINGOS do not let yourself be used by white whores looking for BBC as they will only break your heart after they get what they want and run back to their husbands"? :(
The more I read comments from a majority of male users the more you are proving yourselves illiterate and that you haven't the ability to read. Your own ignorance is your curtain and you are exactly the nasty men I describe.
"Some" men have bad intentions. These are guidelines how to stay away from them.
The only men I see getting offended are those who fit this description.
Actually the way you wrote this take negates that 'some' it sounds an awful lot like 'all'.
The guys have a right to be annoyed at you, this take sounds awfully sexist.
@BaileyisDarcy reading some of your takes and responses on here , I don't exactly expect you to get it either. You aren't exactly the smartest or most knowledgeable member on here.
"Some" doesn't mean all. But in your very limiting vocabulary I can see how it does.
*limited vocabulary.
You don't even know what the word sexist means. You're just one of those people that throw out a heavy words and let it roll off your tongue.
Upon speaking with the men on here, I've come to the realization that their defense has nothing to do with my take. But more so, the bashing that they feel they tend to get from the opposite sex. They enter into mytake with already built up aggression and aren't truly trying to see the message I am sending because even before reading, their defense mechanism is already up.
To be honest half way through reading this drivel I got bored. Snore zzzzzzzz! Sorry :(
Mature response.
I'm pretty sure you didn't even read this take judging by your lack of ability to maintain being focused and comprehend.
Don't worry hooked on phonics can't work for everyone
I s'pose at least I can spell limited.
If you're trying to rile me up it isn't going to work. I'm aware I'm not the brightest person here, I'm also aware that you have eleven years of experience on me (I'm eighteen in a few short months, so no, my math has not failed me). My knowledge may not exceed yours (in terms of experience. I may very well be more book smart) but I can still tell when something sounds like all.
I'm not saying the word some sounds like all. I'm saying the way you wrote this take sounds like you're talking about all men.
That might not have been your intention, but that's the way it came out.
And I do know what the word sexist means by the way. It's to have prejudice or to discriminate against a gender and/or sex. And no, I did not just look that up.
I don't get why the moment you think somebody is disagreeing with you, you feel the need to go and insult them.
@BaileyisDarcy What does misspelling a word and then later on correcting it have to do with anything? Have you never made an error in your life? If not, then you can't possibly be human.
Look I was your age once, and way smarter than you will ever be in your life time.
Some people are naturally smarter than others. You're jumping on a bandwagon with guys who are calling me out for being "sexist". It's funny when I made a take talking about the negative choices women make, no one had a thing to say. A majority of the gag community likes to label any one sexist and you're right along with them. You have no real argument, just useless facts and finger pointing. You also fail to interpret an article that was written in simple language. I'm pretty sure you scrolled through the comments, before you even decided to write anything. You are a commenter that tends to take on the mold of others because you don't have your own mind.
You are weak.
And I will not take criticism from someone who has
no real arguments, just ignorant labeling.
Why would I listen to someone who does not even know me and is calling me sexist because I decided
to use the word "Some" in my article.
I didn't even generalize.
Yet you call me things I am not.
You can't even give constructive criticism.
You're not disagreeing with me,
You are insulting me.
That I WILL NOT and DO NOT have to take.
If you want to try to make a "point" try to do so without forming a name for me when you don't
even know me from a hole in the wall.
Even if you were trying to make a point, it'd be a poor one because no where in my article did I even generalize and state that women do not do the same thing.
I EVEN mentioned men are victims to this as well.
Okay, not once did I call YOU sexist, I simply stated that your take came across as such.
I have not once insulted you, where have I insulted you? If I have then I apologise.
And the misspell is just me being a dick. I pride myself on my spelling so I find it amusing when others make mistakes. Does that make me a bitch? Yes. Do I care? No. Because it's one of the few things that I'm a bitch about.
How exactly are you able to tell me that I couldn't tell you from a hole in the wall, then proceed to pretend you could?
You're making it out as though I'm an idiot, which I know I'm not. There is no evidence to back up your statement that you are smarter than I'll ever be. You don't know me, and I don't know you, so how can you claim that you're smarter than I am? I never claimed to be smarter than you are so I don't even know why you brought it up.
Anyway, I need to get to school. So if you wish to continue arguing with me, I'm happy to do so once I get home.
@BaileyisDarcy Don't try to act like you have a life when you've been lounging around here for a while.
You didn't like when I started to act like I know you, OR did you like when I started to assume personal characteristic traits about you.
You got a bit defensive there.
See, how that feels?
If you want to be treated with respect you have to do the same to others.
Acknowledging that men go through the same thing which I stated, and also saying "Some" men are that way, is not being sexist. I think you need to read up and do research on that topic before you can even fathom how powerful that word is, and what is really means (beyond a definition).
By you casually throwing around words that have powerful meaning , and not understanding its impact is how I can tell that you lack intelligence.
You're pretty much reading comments prior to yours and jumping on a bandwagon with others.
Your response has no individuality.
People like that get no respect from me.
-Toodles and good day!
true, this is so helpful for men not to get cheated by girls from using us mainly our money because some girls say the real man stands on his legs and pay for ne everytine becase i aem a girl so i want special treat and agian says i am independentet. how?
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Sorry, I only speak English.
Well, excuse him for not being a perfect native speaker
Rude, not everyone needs to know how to speak English
Let's call me rude. But let's watch how tightly male trolls stick up for eachother and don't call eachother out :D
can you speak every language? . i know that you can understand at least but you have no answer the claiming like that.
any way everyone know the truth that i am right.
My response was only a test.
I solely wanted to see who would target me if I said something negative.
To my surprise , it's men who have negative intents.
Who targets men with offensive and trollish behavior?
No one sinc the trolls unite.
And to respond to your initial comment , I wrote this based on observation of seeing mostly gag women need help with this issue.
I am in the works of creating a male version of this.
Watch for its posting tomorrow
who ha negative minds?
everyone have at some particular moments. they are supporting my point so they raised it to tell you.
so stop it and accept that still today many woman that guys have to pay for them but ask for equal salary and say are Independence
i hope you will be honest in that take.
They are getting offended because I said I only understand English.
No one discussed your points.
And like I said, this was written for women because based on my observation that is the gender I see speaking the most about this issue.
This has nothing to do with being a woman and reeling privileged. Men go through this as well
as acknowledged in my article
I meant feeling not reeling
they talk about the English to show you the truth behind my words. you can see woman problems because if amen complained everyone say why you compliant this much but if a girl do it people say oh! sad. so they do more complaints and you saw it more.
guys use it. how?
Um, actually no.
They purely were speaking about the aspect of English and nothing else.
It's funny how you are so busy defending yourself that you completely ignore the fact that I answered your question.
you answered mine! common you down voted mine and i am talking about girls not individuals and you know what i said is true.
if something is true people have to accept it regardless of gender.
girlsaskguys. com/dating/a21702-the-i-m-a-nice-guy-card? fp=true
see this then you will understand but if this is happened to a girl then guys try to help her but if a guy compliant...
Well this isn't biased.
It looks like you're getting used by the men on this site. Falling prey to all the trolls and showing people how easily you can get riled up.
The best way to deal with a troll is to ignore them because they get bored easy.
Down rated by accident.
You are right.
But I'm not getting riled up. As much as people have every right to attempt to bash me, I have the right to defend myself and my article.
Yeah you could have just gotten rid of the gender specifics and it'd be still as much as true but I guess women think this is their issue not everyones issue.
I just posted this take a few minutes ago. I am sure you didn't even bother to read it.
If you did, you will see I included BOTH sexes.
"you will see I included BOTH sexes."
Oh you mean the massive amounts of things guys do against girls for like 90% of the take and then the one small tid bit about it happening to guys as well at the very end? Yeah, ok...
You scrolled right down to the bottom and commented in less than a few seconds of me posting this.
All of the things you say hold no credibility.
You sound plain ignorant.
I am advising from a female perspective to another female because the reality of it is,
a woman's scenario isn't always the same as a MAN.
Some situations are unique gender wise.
Stop trying to make things sexist when it isn't.
I clearly mentioned BOTH.
Now create an argument somewhere.
I skimmed and read through the key points to see if actually taking my full time to read was worth it or if it was going to be another B. S. take. Can't help but notice you didn't have a problem with that one poster agreeing with your take...
Thanks for just throwing insults that really solidifies your reasoning.
"Skimming" is not the same thing as reading. I am sure you know that.
So then again, you verify my point , YOU DID NOT READ.
The other gender actually commented on the take itself rather than something
irrelevant to the topic.
My intentions are good, and I am only posting this to HELP people.
I clearly acknowledged men go through this too.
What more would you like from me?
The average user doesn't even do that.
Just throwing in a little thing at the end about how men "can be used as well." is not inclusive. You just wanted to make a take about how women need to be wary of men and then you throw in like two sentences saying it happens to men too to make it seem like it's even. Sorry but 90% talking about how men can be bad and then spend 10% saying that men can have it happen to them as well (funny how you now don't talk about it being women doing things to men and just keep it vague) is not inclusive. All you did is just reinforce the stereotype of women being selfish and thinking they're issues matter more than mens. This isn't a gender issue it's a people issue but YOU made it a gender issue whether you recognize it or not.
You are the stereotypical gag member who labels everything sexist.
Although I clearly didn't generalize in my take and stated "some men" do this and not "all" that is not enough for you.
I even stated to you , that some experience are unique according to gender.
So even If I tried to use a males perspective it would not fit accordingly to what I am speaking about.
I even acknowledged that men go through this.
But still as a stereotypical member everything must be sexist.
If me labeling "some" and not "all" men can lie and manipulate And if me also acknowledging that women aren't only victims men can be mistreated as well. then I guess I am sexist then. I do not need an entire take to let it be known how I feel about both sides
I definitely don't label everything sexist. This should have been about a sex thing to begin with but you turned it into one. And you keep saying "I even acknowledged that men go through this." despite the fact I told you how that's not actually including the men. It would have been better to not say anything at all about men then to spend 10% of your take on them as if that somehow makes it happening to both. You shouldn't have put gender identifiers at any point in this take to begin with. It's almost like an insult to just make it 90% about women and then like 2 sentences about men as if you're just mocking us and also using it as a way to appear not sexist. It would have been better if you didn't mention men at all then to VERY BRIEFLY include them. If you're gonna be sexist either own it or don't do it at all. Don't make takes like this and then play possum when someone sniffs out the bs.
*this should not have been about a sex thing to begin with
I live in the real world where things do not have invisible labels.
I guess this website shouldn't be named girlsaskguys. com and instead should be guysaskgirls. com , or why any for that matter? Since labeling and acknowledging genders is so wrong?
Acknowledging what is there allow growth in a person.
By choosing not to acknowledge that holds a blind eye and makes someone unaware. As a woman I will not hold a blind eye to this issue and act as if all situations according to gender can be blended. And that there is no such thing as a gender specific scenario.
Too bad this bothers you.
You are far too sensitive.
"You are far too sensitive."
And there it is.
And while you're busy quoting me, you might want to spend most of your site on a homepage that doesn't include any genders since it's so offensive and sexist.
How about advice. com?
*might want to spend most of your time
I was simply saying that my issue with this take was that you spent 90% of it bashing men and then you spent the last 10% saying men "can be used as well." At no point did I accuse you of saying that "all" men were those things you spent the majority of your take saying some men did bad things. I know you said "some" men but that was never what I was arguing with you about. My problem was just with this take you did spend the "majority" (notice how you've accused me of saying you spent all of the take bashing men when I said most of it, so keep the hypocrisy in check) of it bashing men (doesn't matter if it's some or all).
Again, reading comprehension skills have failed.
I did not bash men anywhere in this take, I simply stated ways for women to be alert and aware of situations they are in, in order to not allow themselves to be used. The fact of the matter there are good and bad men out there. And if a woman allows herself to be taken advantage of, she will.
I WROTE this take to women because based on my observations with GAG I've seen mostly women post questions about being taken advantage of. I specify wanted to HELP them. I also acknowledged that men go through this as well because I knew there would be ignorant people like you turning this into a battle of the sexes (which it is not).
Whether I wanted to write this take for women or not has nothing to do with anything.
Many people in life, make songs dedicated to men or women (specifically).
There's even books written by women --to women.
Books written by men---to men.
Is the entire world sexist?
Get real!
You've been bashing every guys reading comprehension that has disagreed with you despite the fact you yourself haven't actually been paying attention to what people were actually saying to you and you even said to one person "Notice the decent men didn't get offended." YOUR reading comprehension is the one that needs to be worked on. You're refusing to respectfully let others disagree with your take and insult anyone that differs from your opinion. That's extreme bigotry. Don't you find it odd it's mostly men taking offense to your take? You say you made this mostly for women because women are the ones that voice their concerns here about issues. But do you ever wonder why? Because a lot of men are afraid to open up because people like you will call them over sensitive like you called me when I told you some flaws in your take. Your pride is blinding you from seeing that you are in fact, bashing men.
There was only one user that disagreed with me, who I didn't "bash". He didn't have the same aggressive tone as the others. And he didn't have the implication that I am sexist. He also didn't assume I was talking about "every" man like pretty much all of the guys did.
Perhaps, if male users took the same approach as him I would have better listened to or respected their opinion.
But if someone is going to come at me in a hostile manner and draw non-existing facts from my article that I never stated, then I will speak to those people with respect.
"He also didn't assume I was talking about "every" man like pretty much all of the guys did. "
Once again at no point anywhere in any of my posts did I say you said every man does the things in this take. You're drawing non-existent arguments to put in my mouth and then debunk.
Like I said, "some" guys assumed I was speaking about "all" men. And others assume I was being "sexist".
You fall into the category of accusing me of being sexist.
How would one not take offence to that?
By comparing how much of this article I dedicated to women and then how much I did for men?
What conclusion do u think u are drawing?
I was saying that most of this wasn't gender specific but you did in fact make it gender specific. You specifically went into things girls should watch out for men that in reality anyone can do to anyone. Then just said at the end that guys have problems too as if it exonerated the fact they were left out of everything else that also happens to them.
If you're familiar with me as a commenter, or any of my mytakes you will see I don't exclude genders: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11510-the-girl-who-cried-rape .
At times, I tend to make takes dedicated to a certain gender, If I notice things about that gender on this site.
For example: Through years observation of being on here, I have noticed women sharing their experiences of being used or taken advantage of by men.
For that reason, I decided to dedicate a take for them.
People do it all of the time.
Just look at Authors and music.
There is nothing wrong with that.
I acknowledge both sexes go through the same thing.
It's just that I wanted to help all those women out there... who aren't at their best.
The advice can go for men too (which is why I included them as well).
With the link I am showing you, I've also noticed women on this site claiming they were raped in situations where they weren't.
I always try to call out both genders if I have to.
I am not even close to being sexist and resent that.
I guess a point I was trying to make (or at least I was thinking about because I am guilty of not actually saying it out loud) is just takes like the majority of what this one was are said all the time. "Some men do these horrible things to women and men also do these things to women." Men just hear constantly about how they do horrible things to women that it just begins to sound like a broken record. We hear nothing new and being pinned as the villain is also something not new but having it thrown in our faces just makes us jaded and insensitive to womens issues because we generally don't like to help or care about those that spit in our faces. I'm not saying that's what your take is or what it was doing but seeing the title and then reading through this take is not something that men are unfamiliar with seeing.
I understand where you are coming from. I also understand the back lash from men I am getting. They truly aren't seeing this article for what it is. They are just seeing it as one of the many articles that bash men. And that was not my intent, and I made it clear. I'm getting all of the bash lashed due to peoples built up emotions on topics. I don't think that is fair to me.
Like I said, I call out both genders: in the link I showed you I exposed my own gender for crying rape in certain instances.
If people read this article for what it really is, and do not bring their already built up emotions, they will see my intentions are good, I am not generalizing, or being "sexist", I am simply trying to help women because I've observed women needing help on this site with this issue. ((Men can be helped as well was stated in this article)).
It may be nothing new what I am saying, but often times when women are wrapped up in their world... they don't see these things (They need to be reminded
Also some of the users on this site are really young under 13-17.
This may not be new to an adult, but new to them.
"Men will only treat you the way that you allow them to."
Wow.
Out of an entire article let's just focus on one line
Hey, you chose that opener, and it sets the tone for an article that would be otherwise agreeable.
Don't blame me for your mistake.
90 percent of men here are ignorant and are trolls. That is all you can proving here.
You're making yourself look bad because u pretty much sum up the men I describe
Don't blame me for that either
*That is all you are proving here
I'm not making myself look bad, I'm calling out your unnecessarily incendiary writing tactic.
I'm not wrong, that's a dick way to start an article. Any writer worth a damn can tell you that your first sentence *is* 90% of what people are going to judge your work by. You're clearly not a stupid person, so I'm not sure why you're getting so upset about this.
So instead of getting upset, maybe take it with a grain of salt, or try to learn something from it.
Look, I'm not going to argue over what you think I meant. The people that are able to read and interpret are able to see my very clear message.
Since you fail to do so, offense is taken.
You shouldn't only read first line. Read what is followed by it. Any good reader would be able to do that.
I am not getting upset, I am voicing my opinions like you are.
Great take... Points well elaborated.
Love this !! Really needed this
Why couldn't this just be named "don't allow people to use you"
I just posted this less than 2 minutes ago.
I am sure you didn't read a word of what a wrote.
Please actually read, and then comment.
You will see that I included both sexes in this take.
I did read it. I don't have to prove that to you. Including both sexes in the take has nothing to do with what the title is now does it?
Clearly, you didn't because you posted within a few seconds of me putting this up.
Female scenarios are sometimes unique gender wise.
This is why I wrote this for women.
But I also acknowledged the fact that this does happen to men too.
I am advising every one to take precaution.
Why do you feel you have to argue with me about with what I wanted MY take be titled.
Coming here to argue over what someone wanted to title their own take makes you look like you lack intelligence.
Instead see the BIGGER picture of why I wrote this and actually read next time.
More like three minutes, not a few seconds. Doesn't take that long to read some lines. Arguing wasn't my intent. I just asked a question. You started the arguing assuming that I didn't read it
Fine. I lack intelligence. Whatever. I reaally don't care what you think. No. I didn't read it. Believe what you want. Not everyone has trouble reading. Did I insult anyone? No. Really shows your maturity level.
You are more focused on a title rather than the good intents to both sexes I have.
If that doesn't speak for itself then I don't know what does
I am dedicating this to all dirtbags out there,
mal and female.
If you're not one of them, why take offense to something as small as a title?
And I am calling it how I see it, not insulting you.
*small
Some men are just assholes and it's not because women allow them to be. You never said the same thing about women to men who are used you never said women treat men the way men allow them to. You just blame the women
All I am saying to women is for them not to allow themselves to be used by men that are assholes. As stated in my article , I did state you cannot control how someone treats you but what you can control is how you react to the situation.
"You never said the same thing about women to men who are used..." Not sure what you mean, but I did acknowledge men go through using if you read my entire article.
"women treat men the way men allow them to" that was the emphasis of this entire article. I stated that numerous times which was displayed in the first line and quotes.
Not sure what you were reading.
You only blamed women! How come you did not tell men at the end of the article that "men allow women to treat men the way women allow them to"
What part of that don't you understand
You don't know what you are talking about because you don't know what you are writting about. I know that you acknowledged men being used im just saying you blamed women for being used by men when you were talking about women: https://oi61.tinypic.com/o78uhj.jpg
Also you are clearly blaming women for assholes who mistreat them. These men started off as nice most likely. This quote you made clearly blames women too: https://oi62.tinypic.com/5mzokj.jpg
So you are saying its a woman's fault if a man has secret affairs with other women? You are saying the women elicit behavior to get this. Just keep in mind that with your advice if a guy beats you or cusses at you you are saying its your fault then
Originally in my article, I told women not to allow themselves to be used. By discussing all of what women go through, and then acknowledging that men can also be victims of this. It is clear to see that I addressed that my advice can go both ways.
You're the one that doesn't understand that point.
I made a connection towards the end that BOTH sexes go through the same ordeals.
But can you get that?
No, because in your mind you are trying to create a sexist war.
Perhaps you should have been born a man.
"Also you are clearly blaming women for assholes who mistreat them."
Yes, women too can be blamed. If you allow a man to cheat, use and abuse you (and you are well aware of everything taking place) and you continue to stay, should you not also be blamed?
According to you, there is no such thing as responsibility for ones own behavior.
There's only finger pointing.
If someone is having a secret affair... that's something you don't know about.
That's a completely different scenario
which I did not discuss.
I think you could have done better to address both sexes. I'm not sure why you are upset with my opposing opinion. There really was no need for you to be rude. Why should I have to be born a man to deal with equality. I believe that people should take responsibility for their actions. There was no reason for you to act like a bitch. I read the article you wrote
Really what you said was bitchy and uncalled for. Don't tell me what I should have been born as. Really grow up
I deliberately wanted to address this to women because based on my observation with this site, Women are the ones mostly complaining about men using them.
I've been on here for years, so I have observed many of the same questions coming from a certain gender.
If I observed that fact with men, I would have included both in this article.
This was written for women---to women.
I acknowledged men go through this as well (because I know there are some that can relate).
If a woman writes a song, book for a woman... should she condemned?
If a man writes a song, book for men to relate to... should he also be condemned?
I am allowed to post an article to help a specific gender if that is what I want to do.
That is my choice.
I am taking offense because you are telling me what I should have done in my own take.
"act like a bitch? , "bitchy". Look you can call me what you want, but at least I can show who I am.
I'm giving my opinion on what you should have done with your take. I'm not going to apologize for what me telling you what you should have done. This site is posted for opinions.
I don't need your apology.
Nor do you have the right to tell me who I wanted to dedicate my entire take to.
I guess while you're criticizing me... you should also try to put authors and singers out of business who write things solely to a certain gender.
I don't see how that is wrong.
Your criticism is useless.
If you were actually making a good point, I'd maybe agree with you.
But what you are saying is absolutely ridiculous.
I think you are being too sensitive and rude. I have a different opinion than you. If you don't like it that's your prerogative. It's not my fault you can't take opposing opinions well. I never tried to tell you who to dedicate your take too. You sound ridiculous. Ok your opinion is useless to me too so I'm not sure why we are even having this conversation :)
You told me I should have been born a man you sound immature trying to personally attack me.
I was never going to apologize to you anyways. We will have to both agree to disagree.
Is that what you are going to keep pulling up?
I am past that point.
Listen, your opinion is irrelevant.
I cannot dedicate a article to women.
Who says I can't?
I can handle opinions but not ridiculous ones.
You keep replying to my post and putting words in my mouth and typing things I never said. I never asked you to care about my opinion. I'm not sure why you keep telling me that.
I never said you could not write a post dedicated to women. Quit assuming I did.
You came into my territory when you decided to post your preposterous opinion.
I will keep responding because you are in MY post.
Now that we both have established that I don't care... perhaps we should move on!
You are the one who is still mad
I been trying to let it go but you keep replying and Insulting me 😂
I'm feeling really good actually.
Thanks!
But my irrelevant opinions pissed you off
Ok then 😊
Ha ha lmao I'm glad you are feeling good but I never asked you nor do I care
Let it go :)
Lets see you're going to continue to keep this going like a 3 year old kid?
What else could I expect from a hypocrite!!
Yes, I'll tell someone to grow up.
But in fact, I'm still wearing pull ups.
Get over yourself!
You didn't piss me off.
Like I said I'm happy.
You're entertaining me with the way you act. It's almost like watching an animal at the circus. So continue!!!
You are trying too hard to pretend not to be pissed off lol
You are the one who is acting childish kid. Telling me that a public website is your terrifying sounds very childish to me. Look at the pot calling the kettle black
I kept trying to end it with you but you refuse to let it go. I told you lets just agree to disagree. I didn't ask you about your mood and I never said you were sad but you keep telling me you are happy when all I was trying to do is be the bigger person
*trying to tell me that a public website is your territory is childish
You just want to argue for the sake of arguing.
I created this article so it is my territory.
I welcomed your opinion.
But you should also welcome my response.
You're trying criticizing me because I dedicated this to women.
I don't see how that's a problem.
People do that in every day , in all different aspects of the real world.
You're calling me childish... you're continuing on with the behavior you deem as non-sense.
I really don't get it.
Yawn, men are evil rapists/abusers, don't let them use you, blah blah blah.
Does anyone ever get tired of this?
It's sad how men are the biggest haters here.
Clearly I said "some" men are this way and not "all).
Only a man who is the scumbag I speak of (a woman user) would take offense to this.
I also mentioned men have to deal with this too but u probably didn't read everything
Not my fault you fall under the category women should stay away from.
Notice the decent men didn't get offended
Assumptions, assumptions. Tsk tsk tsk.
It's untrue. And you know you have no evidence of that, you're simply being emotional and abusively lashing out.
Let's see you're getting butt hurt about a take where I mentioned "some" men use women.
If you're not like that why get upset?
If someone was talking about "some" women sleeping around and being a slut.
Would I get mad if I were a virgin?
You make no sense
I am extremely tired of this time of ignorance.
What a troll