Haha I actually believe in some of this stuff I really do believe all women are gold diggers to some extent like a gold digger doesn't have to be a woman who only goes for rich guy she can just be some person who will only go after guys who make more money than her. I am bitter toward men, but I am not a "nice" guy at all I am actually pretty blunt, cold hearted, and quick witted in real life. I am only nice if I feel like I known the girl long enough to see she is a genuine nice person. And actually I've noticed ugly women having the most highest standards too so in that respect it goes both ways. Good looking people don't really have to work for their looks mostly good looks is just good genetics and attractive women and men do get away with more cause society will be more lenient for them so they have to work less than an ugly person.
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)
+1 y
Don't agree. For instance your point on "niceness doesn't entitle you to a woman".
1. Firstly if a guy is super nice to you, he likes you. No guy or girl for that matter sends sweet texts, uplifts you and is nervous round you if they don't like you (fancy you). It's obvious. 2. You are not entitled to free niceness if you don't reciprocate through equal respect. This means being nice back. 3. Realize that a guy may like you and send a sign of whether you like him back or not. If you do, great and initiate. If you don't say something about a boyfriend or something.
exactly, men are supposed to maximize their looks, money and status, thank you, ur so wise, u keep criticizing me for the exact same stuff i have been saying all this while but being accused of being a troll. I have taken initial steps, my upper eyelid exposure is no more and i have developed a stronger lower eyelid. Also I am working on my beta carotene glow and tons of other stuff with regard to looks. And also I will be an ivy leaguer in a few years and working towards it. Nice guys suck, they are elliot rodgers' in the cocoon. You gotta be improving yourself EVERY FUCKIN DAY and as you go up the male social heirarchy, u improve the quality of women u hang out with. Like 3 years back, i dated a 2-3/10 chubster who thought she was too good for me. But recently i lost my virginity to a 5-6/10. This is what is needed
Lol yeah, but I dont blame him, his sister was so hot I would spill baby oil all over her and i wouldn't even mind if she farted while I boned her and he heard her fucking and moaning at the age of 18 while he was a kissless virgin at 22 lol. The rage is justified
See, I don't understand your view of hot people only dating hot people. I think it's more along the lines of shallow people only dating shallow people. Years of comparing myself to other people have taught me this: there are literally endless amounts of beautiful people physically out there. It's what's on the inside that matters.
Forgive me for being explicit, but this post is UTTER BULLSHIT. You are WRONG. Going into how wrong wrong, sexist, and horribly biased this whole post is would take all day (I originally tried, but decided it wasn't worth it after a few paragraphs). You make me loose hope in Humanity.
When you realize that a lot of women are nasty as f*** you stop being too nice to them. The woman in this article clearly extremely sexist and likes cheating assholes, and she's managed to convince herself that being treated poorly is better for her than being treated well. More women think like this than you'd believe. So it does you better to be an asshole around women and nice around men. this article is case in point. You'll learn eventually.
Most men are jerks. We're only human. We can;t be completely certain of everything we do before we do it, that's a waste of time. Men might as well learn sooner or later not to try and hide it as it does n't get us any rapport and just makes us seem like a snooty moralists. Being actually a good person of good substance doesn't mean chasing around after a pretty woman's beck and call to get sex from them. The fact that women like you punish nice behavior is a clue.
hahahaha well that's your own cognitive dissonance. You're the one who entitled the article "Nice Guys" so maybe you're having trouble with what 'niceness' means. But my point isn't that 'niceness' isn't 'nice' (I'm not as semantically confused as this article's author), My point is that their are more important aspects to a person's person than their niceness and you might as well accept your darker traits because concealing and compromising them isn't going to win friends necessarily.
"Why do women find Nice Guys not only unfuckable, but pure EEEEEVIIILLLL? It's all in the brain, dontcha know?"
4
2 Reply
Opinion Owner
+1 y
"Being nice and kind is a behavior for longevity, and generally only appreciated by the elderly, usually women date and screw bad boys and players, then try to marry someone completely different. This behavior will never be logical to the male mind, and is in fact, perceived as a complete dichotomy, and as such will rarely be tolerated or accepted."
Yes, because all nice guys are boring, unattractive, unassertive, entitled, fake nice nerds... and this kind of take has not become boring or old whatsoever. You know, I might just do another satire take...
I find this article obscene. Nice guys have rage, anger, and bitterness? No they don;t. Those are too different guys! The NASTY guys have rage anger and bitterness, not the NICE ones!
Next article: I hate happy people, they are too sad all the time!
this is stupid coming from 20 years girl don't know crap about relationship. There a lot nice guy out getting girls. Just retarded picky guy can't get any girl. See a little flaw in a girl, there you go she not for me. I used to be like. the part girl don't like about a nice guy is he too nice. Everyone love and like him but when relationship comes. The girl hate it. They always claiming wanting the man.
its weird becuase when i was in a street gang all the dudes who would try to "buy a relationship" would end up getting cheated on... and the niggas who would hit and quit would have chicks lined up around the block... stalking them... i joined up to make money and to get access to guns... women and crime never registered... in fact... i never understood why cats would even let women know about that shit... its not for them to know or understand... SMH.. in any case... fuck being nice... as a self diagnosed autistic... i think being nice is for f@gs
All those things you mentioned are perfectly reasonable standards. I have no problem with knowing that I have to work out, take care of myself, work hard at uni, always try to better myself. I always strive to do so. What bothers me is when girls place stupid requirements on me like I need to be 6'2 and super handsome, which I have literally zero control over. Especially with the height requirements, I am 5'9, why do I absolutely have to be 6+ plus to be desirable, there is literally nothing I can do to change it. Am I too unreasonable by being upset with woman having height requirements?
I hope to God this is a joke or a guy using a girl's account to troll us. This definitely sounds like something a guy would post out of anger towards some woman. Your myTake bashes women about as bad as it bashes guys. You're basically admitting that all women are bitches and only want a hot guy with lots of money.
Sorry if a nice guy took you're girl. Wow you some hate for the nice guys. My female friends always tell me about why there boyfriends are not nice. They want to date me but I know better then to date girls in relationships. I'm sorry if one of these assholes who pretending to be nice took your girl, really am.
All you have to be is hot lol You might not ever end up in a real functional relationship, But you are gonna get easy pussy for a good while. And if you can;t be hot you gotta learn how to manipulate and dominate vulnerable women somehow. It's so simple, Don't know why people can't figure this out. But hopefully, Everyone meets that special someone, Even if seems impossible sometimes.
Not really... Not every hot person dates a fellow hottie, but they don't date loser who keep on hating and crying instead of working to improve themselves.
Anybody can be in love for a few months, Or even a few years. And you always think it's gonna last forever during the good times. But making it when shit gets real is what counts. Staying together after the excitement wears off and through all the drama, fights, and temptations. That's why i say hopefully everyone meets that special person, But it takes pretty much a miracle to really find love. But i get what you're saying, Screw the dysfunctional crybabies and fakers in life :P
Temptation isn't even an option in my relationship cause we can both get sex easy. It has no value and is cheap. Love is priceless. We know it will last because of the bad times... That special someone doesn't come dipped in gold.
I mean, yeah, it is what it is, but it's usually a maturity thing, and the fact that the generation of yesteryear kind of indoctrinated "nice guys" with their 1940s-esque chivalry while they were growing up, not excusing it, but there are a variety of factors
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
108Opinion
Haha I actually believe in some of this stuff I really do believe all women are gold diggers to some extent like a gold digger doesn't have to be a woman who only goes for rich guy she can just be some person who will only go after guys who make more money than her. I am bitter toward men, but I am not a "nice" guy at all I am actually pretty blunt, cold hearted, and quick witted in real life. I am only nice if I feel like I known the girl long enough to see she is a genuine nice person.
And actually I've noticed ugly women having the most highest standards too so in that respect it goes both ways. Good looking people don't really have to work for their looks mostly good looks is just good genetics and attractive women and men do get away with more cause society will be more lenient for them so they have to work less than an ugly person.
Don't agree. For instance your point on "niceness doesn't entitle you to a woman".
1. Firstly if a guy is super nice to you, he likes you. No guy or girl for that matter sends sweet texts, uplifts you and is nervous round you if they don't like you (fancy you). It's obvious.
2. You are not entitled to free niceness if you don't reciprocate through equal respect. This means being nice back.
3. Realize that a guy may like you and send a sign of whether you like him back or not. If you do, great and initiate. If you don't say something about a boyfriend or something.
Pls opine on this question, would be good to hear your advice: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2046147-is-a-woman-more-likely-to-be-openly-sexual-with-someone-who-isn-t
exactly, men are supposed to maximize their looks, money and status, thank you, ur so wise, u keep criticizing me for the exact same stuff i have been saying all this while but being accused of being a troll. I have taken initial steps, my upper eyelid exposure is no more and i have developed a stronger lower eyelid. Also I am working on my beta carotene glow and tons of other stuff with regard to looks. And also I will be an ivy leaguer in a few years and working towards it. Nice guys suck, they are elliot rodgers' in the cocoon. You gotta be improving yourself EVERY FUCKIN DAY and as you go up the male social heirarchy, u improve the quality of women u hang out with. Like 3 years back, i dated a 2-3/10 chubster who thought she was too good for me. But recently i lost my virginity to a 5-6/10. This is what is needed
Well done Elliot Rodger
I got laid he did not
But look what happened because he couldn't get laid.
Lol yeah, but I dont blame him, his sister was so hot I would spill baby oil all over her and i wouldn't even mind if she farted while I boned her and he heard her fucking and moaning at the age of 18 while he was a kissless virgin at 22 lol. The rage is justified
See, I don't understand your view of hot people only dating hot people. I think it's more along the lines of shallow people only dating shallow people. Years of comparing myself to other people have taught me this: there are literally endless amounts of beautiful people physically out there. It's what's on the inside that matters.
Forgive me for being explicit, but this post is UTTER BULLSHIT. You are WRONG. Going into how wrong wrong, sexist, and horribly biased this whole post is would take all day (I originally tried, but decided it wasn't worth it after a few paragraphs). You make me loose hope in Humanity.
When you realize that a lot of women are nasty as f*** you stop being too nice to them. The woman in this article clearly extremely sexist and likes cheating assholes, and she's managed to convince herself that being treated poorly is better for her than being treated well. More women think like this than you'd believe. So it does you better to be an asshole around women and nice around men. this article is case in point. You'll learn eventually.
@Jayson101 I don' t like self proclaimed pathetic nice guys, doesn't t mean i like jerks
Most men are jerks. We're only human. We can;t be completely certain of everything we do before we do it, that's a waste of time. Men might as well learn sooner or later not to try and hide it as it does n't get us any rapport and just makes us seem like a snooty moralists. Being actually a good person of good substance doesn't mean chasing around after a pretty woman's beck and call to get sex from them. The fact that women like you punish nice behavior is a clue.
@Jayson101 did you read what I wrote? If you judge the things I said as a nice behavior then I am afraid you don't know what niceness means
hahahaha well that's your own cognitive dissonance. You're the one who entitled the article "Nice Guys" so maybe you're having trouble with what 'niceness' means. But my point isn't that 'niceness' isn't 'nice' (I'm not as semantically confused as this article's author), My point is that their are more important aspects to a person's person than their niceness and you might as well accept your darker traits because concealing and compromising them isn't going to win friends necessarily.
@Jayson101 This is in my intro i said STEREOTYPICAL Self PROCLAIMED nice guys and NOT guenine nice guys.
You people should learn how to read smh
You might like this Ayn Rand interview.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQVrMzWtqgU
Acting nice for the sole sake of girl baiting isn't 'nice'.
Stereotyping is NEVER 'nice'.
Thinking so lowly of himself isn't 'nice'.
So what makes these guys 'nice', huh? Why are they called as such?
Your take is sooo spot on!
That isn't what a real nice guy is.
Oh it's a nice guy let's destroy him.
https://youtu.be/a9XDb0nxSO4"Why do women find Nice Guys not only unfuckable, but pure EEEEEVIIILLLL? It's all in the brain, dontcha know?"
"Being nice and kind is a behavior for longevity, and generally only appreciated by the elderly, usually women date and screw bad boys and players, then try to marry someone completely different. This behavior will never be logical to the male mind, and is in fact, perceived as a complete dichotomy, and as such will rarely be tolerated or accepted."
Every person who wants to think this take is brilliant please watch this video.
another girl whining about nice guys. what an original post.
I posted my opinion on here.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1934672-are-nice-guys-worse-than-players
A Bandit74's question.
I haven't changed my mind since then. I probably never will.
Yes, because all nice guys are boring, unattractive, unassertive, entitled, fake nice nerds... and this kind of take has not become boring or old whatsoever. You know, I might just do another satire take...
Ok... you asked for this!
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28782-7-reasons-why-nice-girls-will-always-finish-last-satirical-response
You are need on here to do with misandrists like this.
@bobbyxx
naturally.
would you do me a favour and drop a comment if you like the take? thanks.
Ok will do
I find this article obscene. Nice guys have rage, anger, and bitterness? No they don;t. Those are too different guys! The NASTY guys have rage anger and bitterness, not the NICE ones!
Next article: I hate happy people, they are too sad all the time!
this is stupid coming from 20 years girl don't know crap about relationship. There a lot nice guy out getting girls. Just retarded picky guy can't get any girl. See a little flaw in a girl, there you go she not for me. I used to be like. the part girl don't like about a nice guy is he too nice. Everyone love and like him but when relationship comes. The girl hate it. They always claiming wanting the man.
its weird becuase when i was in a street gang all the dudes who would try to "buy a relationship" would end up getting cheated on... and the niggas who would hit and quit would have chicks lined up around the block... stalking them... i joined up to make money and to get access to guns... women and crime never registered... in fact... i never understood why cats would even let women know about that shit... its not for them to know or understand... SMH.. in any case... fuck being nice... as a self diagnosed autistic... i think being nice is for f@gs
Stop whining.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22747-women-need-to-stop-whining-about-nice-guys
I'm not whining though. I'm just pointing somethings I noticed.
Those aren't mutually exclusive. But, you will learn a lot from myTake.
It is all women seem to do these days. Whine at men, the way men treat them and winging at men jot being how women say we should be.
All those things you mentioned are perfectly reasonable standards. I have no problem with knowing that I have to work out, take care of myself, work hard at uni, always try to better myself. I always strive to do so.
What bothers me is when girls place stupid requirements on me like I need to be 6'2 and super handsome, which I have literally zero control over.
Especially with the height requirements, I am 5'9, why do I absolutely have to be 6+ plus to be desirable, there is literally nothing I can do to change it.
Am I too unreasonable by being upset with woman having height requirements?
I hope to God this is a joke or a guy using a girl's account to troll us. This definitely sounds like something a guy would post out of anger towards some woman.
Your myTake bashes women about as bad as it bashes guys. You're basically admitting that all women are bitches and only want a hot guy with lots of money.
I think we found a nice guy here..
Sorry if a nice guy took you're girl. Wow you some hate for the nice guys. My female friends always tell me about why there boyfriends are not nice. They want to date me but I know better then to date girls in relationships. I'm sorry if one of these assholes who pretending to be nice took your girl, really am.
Hmm, it's true, but only for self-proclaimed "nice guys". Real nice guys are not like that. Very good mytake :)
Looking for something new here... looking real hard... nope.
i2.kym-cdn.com/.../673.gif
All you have to be is hot lol
You might not ever end up in a real functional relationship, But you are gonna get easy pussy for a good while.
And if you can;t be hot you gotta learn how to manipulate and dominate vulnerable women somehow. It's so simple, Don't know why people can't figure this out. But hopefully, Everyone meets that special someone, Even if seems impossible sometimes.
Not really... Not every hot person dates a fellow hottie, but they don't date loser who keep on hating and crying instead of working to improve themselves.
Anybody can be in love for a few months, Or even a few years. And you always think it's gonna last forever during the good times.
But making it when shit gets real is what counts. Staying together after the excitement wears off and through all the drama, fights, and temptations. That's why i say hopefully everyone meets that special person, But it takes pretty much a miracle to really find love.
But i get what you're saying, Screw the dysfunctional crybabies and fakers in life :P
Temptation isn't even an option in my relationship cause we can both get sex easy. It has no value and is cheap. Love is priceless.
We know it will last because of the bad times... That special someone doesn't come dipped in gold.
Omg, I have been wanting to find a way to respond to these whiny guys on GAG for weeks! This is a freaking fantastic MyTake, very well done!!!
I mean, yeah, it is what it is, but it's usually a maturity thing, and the fact that the generation of yesteryear kind of indoctrinated "nice guys" with their 1940s-esque chivalry while they were growing up, not excusing it, but there are a variety of factors